First, when colleagues ask you to do things that don't belong to you at work, you have to delay.
When we go to work, some old employees will assign their own things to you to do. At this time, you can just refuse. If you really can't refuse, don't finish it so quickly and delay for a while. Because if you finish it quickly and well, she will let you do it next time. If you haven't finished it well, you might as well do it yourself, and there will be no trouble in the future.
Second, men should have their own bottom line.
Just because we are kind at ordinary times does not mean that we have no temper. When interacting with others, if the other person pushes his nose into his face, it is too much. We don't need to give others face. Be angry when you should be angry, and don't feel ashamed. As long as you have an attack once, the other person will know your bottom line and be much more honest next time. This is that people are good at being deceived. If she knew you were not easy to bully, she wouldn't mess with you.
Third, for unfair things, we should dare to seek justice for ourselves.
In this society, the more you go out, the better you get along with. Look at other people's food. When ordinary people bullied you for the first time, you resisted and gave each other a hard lesson. No one bullied you and no one chewed hard bones in the future. If you are timid, everyone will step on you in the future. This is the way of social survival.
So people sometimes don't need to be too kind. If they are too kind, they are easily bullied. We are good people as long as we don't bully others. There is no thunder in this society, so don't be a bodhisattva.