Poor people must be hateful, and hateful people must suffer sadly. To put it bluntly, hateful people have gone through sad things and become hateful people.

Every one of us will not be very smooth in our daily life. We will inevitably encounter some difficulties. Sometimes we feel that God is unfair to us, but as long as we think openly and deal with it calmly, Facing everything with a positive attitude towards life, we will eventually get out of the predicament. But some people, when encountering big changes, will give up on themselves and become unable to recover, without the courage to overcome setbacks. Chinese people always like to regard the words of the ancients as golden rules. Many of our ancient famous sayings have been passed down from generation to generation in this way, and some people still believe them deeply.

Many famous sayings from ancient times have been spread to modern times, but they have been taken out of context and distorted the original meaning. For example, Confucius once said a sentence: repay evil with kindness. Many people think this means that others treat you badly. You have to be nicer to others to influence others. This is actually a misunderstanding by later generations, because they have ignored the next sentence. In fact, Confucius's original saying is to repay evil with kindness. How to repay kindness, which means that if you treat people who are not good to you better, then what can you use to repay kindness to you? Good people.

Actually, these two sentences actually warn people that when caring about and helping a person, they must distinguish what caused the person, whether they are deliberately pretending to be pitiful to gain sympathy, or whether they really have actual difficulties. Don't Show kindness indiscriminately, because most poor people are not worthy of sympathy. They have reached this point mostly because of themselves. Don't be too sympathetic to hateful people, because life can dominate you, and you can dominate life, it just depends Can you think about it, let go of the past, and embrace a new life? There are many hateful people who like to blame others. Sadly, they are mostly to blame themselves.