1. The more generous you should be when dealing with difficult situations, the more generous you should be when dealing with difficult people, and the more appropriate it is to slow down when dealing with urgent matters.

2. When people are kind, they should be kind. Insufficient, if people do not do good, one bad thing is enough.

3. When people slander me, it is better to tolerate it than to defend me. When people insult me, it is better to be able to deal with it than to prevent it.

4. If you are always content with what you have, you will never be disgraced; if you know how to stop, you will never be ashamed.

5. Sit quietly and think about your own mistakes, and don’t talk about others’ faults in small talk.

6. The most important thing in self-cultivation is to have a pure heart, and the first thing to do in dealing with the world is to be careful with your words.

7. Rather than doing good for the sake of loving others, it is better to say that it is to respect yourself.