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Zi Gong asked, "Who can walk for life without saying a word?"
Confucius said, "I forgive you! Don't do to others what you don't want. " -"The Analects of Confucius Wei Linggong"
The meaning of a word
Its: probably, maybe. Forgiveness: refers to Confucianism pushing others and being kind to others. Desire: I want to do it. S: Apply. Yu: preposition, in. Person: This is interpreted as the other party, as opposed to the "self" in front of the original text. Ego: its own meaning.
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If you don't like it, it's probably "forgiveness". Don't bother the other party.
Free translation
Don't impose on others what you don't want to bear.
Do as you would be done by.
My treat. "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you" is the principle first established by Confucius, the founder of Confucianism. That is, when you ask others to do something, first of all, you are willing to do it yourself, or you have done it yourself like others, then your request is relieved; The popular understanding is that if you can't do it yourself, you can't ask others to do it.
This sentence reveals the important principles of dealing with interpersonal relationships. Confucius said that people should treat others with their own behavior as a reference. People should have a broad mind. When dealing with people, don't be narrow-minded, be generous and forgive others. If you impose what you don't want on others, it will not only destroy the relationship with others, but also make things deadlocked and out of control. The communication between people should really adhere to this principle, which is the embodiment of respecting others and treating others equally. In this world, we should not only pay attention to our own existence, but also pay attention to the existence of others. Everyone is equal. Do not do to others what you don't want them to do to you.