The explanation of "Don't allow people to do things when you are happy, and don't answer people's questions when you are angry" is: Don't promise things to others when you are particularly happy and happy, and don't answer when you are particularly angry, impulsive, and irrational. other people’s questions. "Sheng" means prosperity and enthusiasm; "violence" means strong and sudden, fierce and urgent. Both are used in this sentence to describe the intensity of an emotion.

The original text comes from "Neng Gai Zhai Man Lu" written by Wu Zeng in the Song Dynasty: As the saying goes: "No one is allowed to be a person in great joy, and no one is allowed to answer questions in anger." ’

Wu Zeng, courtesy name Huchen, was born in Chongren, Fuzhou (now part of Jiangxi). In the eleventh year of Emperor Gaozong's reign in Shaoxing (1141), he presented his work "Zuo Family's Development" and used commoners to supplement Youdi Gonglang. In the 22nd year, the official was deleted by Chong's imperial edict (Volume 140, 163 of "Yaolu since Jianyan"). In the 23rd year, he was transferred to the permanent master's register and became the reviewer of the jade ultimatum ("Preface to Neng Gaizhai Man Lu").

Extended information

Emotional management refers to cultivating the ability to control emotions by studying individuals and groups' understanding of their own emotions and the emotions of others, and thereby producing good management effects. Modern business management education such as MBA, EMBA, etc. regard emotional intelligence and self-emotion management as an important part of leadership.

Emotion is an individual’s subjective and conscious experience and feeling of external stimuli, and has the characteristics of psychological and physiological reactions. We cannot directly observe inner feelings, but we can infer them through their outward behavioral or physiological changes. A state of consciousness is a necessary condition for emotional experience.

Emotion is the body’s evaluation and experience of physiological reactions to the possibility or even inevitability of a successful behavior, including seven types: joy, anger, worry, thinking, sadness, fear, and surprise. The stronger the behavior is expressed in body movements, the stronger the emotion. For example, joy means dancing, anger means gnashing teeth, worry means not thinking about food and drink, sadness means heartbreak, etc. These are the reactions of emotions in body movements.

Emotions cannot be completely eliminated, but they can be effectively channeled, effectively managed, and moderately controlled.

Reference: Baidu Encyclopedia-Wu Zeng

Baidu Encyclopedia-Emotional Management