Feng, the heroine, changed from a kannika nimtragol who was rejected by her husband's family to a pillar of the family. From a busy grandmother in front of the stove to a shareholder in a nursing home.

She makes her life wonderful.

There is such a scene in the play, she said to Zhan Xiang:

"In my eyes, he is a man who walks into a telephone pole. He has been stumbling when he walks. At the end of the fight, he either knocked down a telephone pole or knocked himself unconscious, otherwise he couldn't stop. I don't like such people. "

In other words, she doesn't like stubborn and inflexible people.

It is precisely because of this underlying logic that she can constantly get out of the predicament. Even if the past is unbearable, she will not be trapped and live wholeheartedly in the present.

The telephone poles on the road ahead are not only unobstructed? Her road has also become a lighthouse.

As the saying goes, men are the pillars of the family.

Qin Xiao thinks so, too. When she married Gu Lei, she assumed the responsibility of everyone and her family. Four generations of the family live under one roof. She works hard and does her duty? Take care.

Although life is very hard, sometimes I have to endure the misunderstanding and cold eyes of my grandmother, father and sister-in-law. She saw it in her eyes and laughed it off.

Because she has a bigger heart? In her dream, she did her job at home and wanted her husband Gu Lei to go outside and create wholeheartedly.

Go earn money, get a certificate and borrow money from my sister.

Man is worse than nature. Gu Lei was young and died unexpectedly.

Feng was like a bolt from the blue, empty.

Her eyes were dull and her limbs were stiff, so she couldn't cry. Her pillar is gone!

She has to bear not only the pain of losing her husband, but also the responsibilities of her relatives and family.

After the depression, she saw the reality clearly. She has no home, no job and left her family. Where are you going?

She chose to live in the present? Silently assume the responsibility as a mother and daughter-in-law, regardless of all foreign colored eyes.

At that time, she began to reflect, understood the importance of respecting others, understood the mistake of forcing Gu Lei, and understood that life is impermanent and the present is the most important.

She is no longer intimidated by the imagined future, but only focuses on the happiness of the present.

When the illegitimate child stubbornly refused to go back to her hometown to go to school, she remembered Gu Lei, put down Danian and stopped persecuting stubbornly, even though the future of Danian was so ethereal that people could not let go.

Qin Xiao also let go, from coercion to support, supporting the development of her New Year hobby? The result is really a harvest of joy, maintaining family ties.

When you care too much about the past, it will bring you sadness; When you think too much about the future, it will bring you fear; Live in the moment with a smile. There will be surprises.

After losing her husband, Qin Xiao, who lives at home, is insignificant.

As the TV series sings: "People scattered by the wind are as small as a grain of dust, and those lost in the wind dare not let people see their eyes moist."

In front of life, Qin Xiao hid her tears, put on work clothes and rode on an electric bicycle. She shuttled through the streets and created value with her own labor.

People who grow up in a miserable environment and wander in a miserable sea are more likely to understand the human world. When Qin Xiao faced an old man who lived alone for help, she felt it her duty to help him.

She enthusiastically cooks and delivers meals for the elderly because of an empathetic heart and because she doesn't want to be criticized by customers;

She took the initiative to contact restaurant owner Guo Qiang to cook for many elderly people who live alone, because? Have a love and want to earn some income;

She took all the orders she could, and was busy in the rain, hungry and full, in exchange for being alive? Dignity at this moment.

She paid the training fee to the tiger, and she no longer used her father-in-law's money to buy food.

However, life is so confusing that she was awakened by a complaint. She walked around the police station and realized one thing.

Being a courier is not a long-term solution. Parenting, home care and survival need a stable job.

There is a saying that life is alive, isn't it? White road.

Qin Xiao's express life made her walk out of her small home, see the outside world, and see the psychological and life needs of the old people in reality.

Qin Xiao suddenly had a grand plan to open a nursing home.

This idea didn't come out of thin air, it sprouted in Qin Xiao's life as a courier, and it is the inspiration of present life.

Living in the present is our practical life.

Li Ao once said: A successful husband has more money than his wife can spend; A successful wife is looking for such a husband.

Maybe this is Feng's mind. Even if Gu Lei is not such a husband, she also believes that she will become such a husband under her own cultivation.

This has also become the source of the dispute between Xiaoqin and Aunt.

Because sapphire knows that her brother is weak and kind but has no ambition;

She also knew that Qin Xiao had an illegitimate child, and Qin Xiao's marriage to his younger brother changed his fate. So Qin Xiao is calculating by hook or by crook to live in her eyes.

Before Gu Lei died, Qing Yu was afraid that his younger brother would be forced to do something he didn't like and couldn't do. After Gu Lei's death, Qing Yu was afraid that Qin Xiao would not be able to take care of his nephew, so he occupied the family property.

One is a modern woman with knowledge, financial resources and prejudice, Gu Qingyu and eldest sister-in-law;

One is Feng, a selfish housewife with no desire, no knowledge and no job.

It can be said that their collision is everywhere.

But what is commendable is that both of them know the true meaning of living in the present.

Qin Xiao knows that she can't live without her family. Although Shanghai is big, only her home is a temporary foothold. Qingyu knows that Gu Jia can't live without Qin Xiao, and grandma, dad and tiger all need Qin Xiao.

So they didn't tear their faces. Although they had obstacles in their hearts, their faces were passable.

The experience of life makes Feng Huo become what Lin Qingxuan wrote: "Happy to live in the present and contribute to perfection."

Slowly, Qin Xiao's attitude towards life also influenced Qingyu. Qingyu saw Qin Xiao's efforts and kindness, and finally extended a hand of cooperation.

Qingyu helped Qin Xiao realize his dream of "living in the heart". Thanks now, mutual understanding has helped them to bury the hatchet.

Maybe life is like this. After experiencing it, you will understand that living in the present means living in the future.

What is the best way to live in this life?

Xu Sanduo in the TV series Soldier Assault firmly remembers his father's words:

"Do the most meaningful thing at the moment."

He never thinks about the future. He wakes up every day and devotes himself to what he is doing. He was simple, dedicated and persistent, but he became an excellent soldier.

Feng in Living in the Heart also captures the moment in the slit of life.

Once she was trapped by the past and the future, lost her way, and was hit by a telephone pole like Zhanxiang.

What is commendable is that she was awakened by knocking. She realized the truth of life and pulled her eyes back to the present. When she looked up again, the telephone pole had become a road sign.

Life is destined to be ups and downs. No one can be smooth sailing. The past is gone forever, and the future is hard to find. Only living in the present is the best way to live in life.

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