Yi Shu once said that a lady with real temperament never shows off everything she has. She doesn't tell people what books she has read, where she has been, how many clothes she has and what jewelry she has bought, because she has no sense of inferiority.
Women who do have knowledge often have no inferiority complex. They have a very calm and calm mind about everything in life, which makes them see precious things without making a fuss, but with an open mind. Mu Xin once said that he had been dealing with all kinds of antiques since he was a child, so he cultivated his style and taste. Even if his family came down later, he pursued a better life without fear because of these foundations at home. It can be said that this kind of normality makes them not be too stingy with money, and they don't think that their goal in life is just to make money. Their interests are often elegant, they want to contribute to life, and they pursue higher goals and realms.
2. Be less bound by the framework and live yourself.
People who have seen the world are less bound by the framework, which is the mainstream thought of our life. Gao Zeng emphasized in the article "Don't buy a house, buy a dream" that poetry and distance are more important than a house. He said that his mother has been encouraging herself and her sister in this way. He has never bought a house, but he has traveled around the world. This broad vision gives him a deeper understanding of lifestyle and makes it easier for him to live his true self and true self.
Knowledgeable people don't live in other people's world. What they pursue is the style and value of live high. In their minds, the fundamental purpose of knowledge is to find what they want to do and who they want to be, and they have their own distance. Their efforts and struggles are not to prove to others, but to prove the value and significance of being born as a human being, so their temperament will be different.
3. Have a conscience and a heart of awe.
The third point of looking at the world is to know how to fear. Because they are well informed, they will find the wisdom in everyone and know that everyone has a bright spot. There is less prejudice against others and more awe of others.
Awe has three characteristics. First of all, we should know how to respect others, tolerate people who are different from ourselves, and know that people are different and will not be biased against others because they are different. The second aspect of awe is to have your own conscience, keep your inner kindness and thickness, know what to do and what not to do, and know that God is watching, so you have your own bottom line, and you won't do anything or do what you want.
On the other hand, the third aspect of awe, while respecting others, also respects history and culture, will produce a kind of respect for national history and culture, because he knows that culture hides a nation's history and future. In fact, the reason why Lin and Liang Sicheng tried to preserve the ancient buildings in China in the latter half of their lives is to preserve the roots of China to a great extent, hoping that these features will become a part of each of us.
Really knowledgeable people, they don't live a miserable life, but live a free and easy life. They long for their life to be meaningful and valuable. They put themselves in the torrent of the times, have a kind heart for the world and others, and hope that the world and others will get better and better. I wish you all become a knowledgeable person.