After Zhang's death, people around him became consorts and eunuchs. These people are hypocritical and treacherous, fawning on others, bullying others everywhere and doing evil. The following is the composition I brought to you, I hope it will help you.
We often hear the famous saying "If you are near Zhu Zhechi, you will be black if you are near Mexico" from elders, which means that if you are close to good people, you will get better, and if you are close to bad people, you will get worse. I quite agree with this statement. Do you agree?
There are many phenomena in society that can explain the phenomenon that "pro-Zhu Zhechi people are black". For example, some friends around us are all wearing famous brands, so there is an idea that wearing famous brands is very advanced and powerful, so we must scrimp and save.
Another good example is the "Three Major Movements in Meng Mu". Mencius' home was originally near the cemetery, so he often played the game of building a tomb or imitating others' crying and worshipping. Meng Mu didn't think it was good, so he moved away. They moved near the slaughterhouse, and Mencius played a game of imitating others to do business and kill pigs. Meng Mu also thought it was not good, and moved his family to school, so Mencius studied with other students. Meng Mu knew very well that "being near Zhu Zhechi is black, and being near Mexico is black", but from Mencius' behavior, we know that this sentence is correct.
From the above example, we can see that people are "black if they are near Zhu Zhechi". Therefore, we should choose our friends carefully. A good friend should learn from his good behavior, while some bad friends should stay away from him and not be influenced by him.
A friend should be defined as someone who can help himself. Learn from each other's strengths and learn from friends' strengths. I think we should consider the overall situation when we get along with friends.
What is a friend? "Friend" was originally a cognitive word, which means two people coordinate their work, and later it means that their hands intersect and get along well. So I think friends should not only help each other, but also live in harmony and understand each other in the overall situation, otherwise the two hands they hold will be loosened sooner or later.
Mr. Ceng Yun Fu Xuan: "Near Zhu Zhechi, the ink is black, the harmony is clear, the shape is positive, and the shadow is straight." When two excellent people are together, they will become more and more excellent. For example, when we see excellent students around us racing against time during the holidays, we will unconsciously join this learning rhythm.
Friends need to help each other, not agree. If you are misled by your friends, you might as well not have this so-called "friend". The so-called friends are people who can make progress together, not "fair-weather friends" who regress together.
In Romance of the Three Kingdoms, Liu Bei regarded Lu Bu as a friend, but in return, Lu Bu leaked the plan, which led to the failure of the plan. Lu Bu is also an example for us not to make friends.
In the Water Margin, Lin Chong must be familiar to everyone. He was driven to Liangshan because his best fair-weather friend Lu Qian was treacherous and hateful and betrayed his friend, which led to his wife being forced into marriage by Gao Qiu's adopted son and committing suicide.
Throughout history, we have always regarded others as heroes. True friends, in the same boat; False confidant, disaster strikes, each flies his own way. To make friends, you still have to take care of the overall situation.
Once, my mother took the clothes out of the washing machine. I saw my white coat and my sister's white socks were dyed pink. I suddenly remembered a famous saying, near Zhu Zhechi, near the ink is black.
Dark clothes are washed together with light clothes, and light clothes can be dyed into other colors by dark clothes. In fact, there are many such things in life: for example, I bite my nails now, which I think is the result of playing with one of my good classmates. My good classmates often like biting their nails. Every time we play together, I feel that he wants to bite his nails whenever he is free. I learned his bad habit of biting his nails before I knew it.
For example, once I went to an audition class with a hundred flowers in a far, far place. I went with a good friend. I saw him taking notes, so I picked up a pen and took notes according to the teacher's ideas. When I got home, my mother praised me and said that my notes were clear and worth reviewing in the future. This should also be an example of being close to Zhu Zhechi.
Pupils of our age should spend more time with people with positive energy, because those who are close to ink are black.
I used to think this sentence was very reasonable, but later I found that this is the case. For example, when I live alone in the dormitory, I always read books when I am bored, then sleep and listen to music.
Later, when I lived with my sister, I found that she didn't like reading the books I bought. While I was reading, she was watching TV and brushing variety shows. I'll always be distracted. Seeing her happy appearance, I will unconsciously gather together to watch it together.
It was a long time before I remembered it one day. I haven't opened my book for a long time, and I have been playing drama with her all day. Then I was annoyed that I didn't have enough self-control. At first I thought I was confident and wanted her to learn from me. They listen to music together and read leisurely.
Unexpectedly, I approached her and became like painting variety shows and watching TV. I repeat it every day, but I don't find anything wrong at all. Until I woke up, and then I told myself to be self-disciplined over and over again. Then I opened the book and read it again.
Then I found that when I was alone. I will arrange myself to do what I have planned, and when someone around me is doing something that has nothing to do with me but is very relaxed, I will always stay close and forget what I have planned.
Over time, I didn't become what I wanted, but became the person around me.
Near Zhu Zhechi, near Zhu Zhechi and near Moxiang, black soil can't blossom, but it has the fragrance of roses, because he chose roses as his friends and got the knowledge and talent of roses. As the saying goes, "in the bitter fleabane bitter fleabane, if you don't help, you won't be right;" White sand is nirvana, and it is black. So, make friends with bad people, otherwise, after a long time, you will naturally get into bad habits. What kind of friends we make is very important to our classmates in our life and study.
We should make kind and positive friends so that we can learn from each other and promote each other; To make friends, you can get the charm of personality, moral enlightenment and sublimation of ideas from friends.
Friends are indispensable in life, and making friends is also a part of life. Making friends with honest, credible and knowledgeable people is beneficial to our physical and mental health. On the contrary, it is not only useless but also harmful to make friends with cunning, treacherous and cold people. Making friends requires in-depth observation and understanding of others, which depends on our usual words and deeds, ideological morality and learning attitude. Only through careful observation can we fully understand a person, and only through such understanding can we make good friends and be considered bosom friends.
We teenagers are the future and hope of our motherland. Only by getting along with people with insight can we constantly revise ourselves and shoulder the heavy responsibility of history.
Near Zhu Zhechi, I came across the following passage.
One day, a passer-by found a pile of dirt on the roadside, which gave off a very fragrant smell. He took this pile of dirt home, and suddenly, his home was full of fragrance. Passers-by asked this pile of mud in curiosity and surprise, "Are you a treasure from a big city?" ? Or rare spices? Or expensive materials? "Dirt:" No, I'm just an ordinary piece of dirt. "Passerby:" So where did your strong fragrance come from? Dirt: I just spent a long time in the rose garden with roses. "After reading this story, I was deeply educated. The soil gets along with roses and absorbs their fragrance. Over time, they will have the same taste and bring fragrance to others. Just like people, playing with a group of kind people will cultivate a kind heart, and being with a group of bad people is not evil but also difficult. This truth is like being near the ink, and being near the ink is black.
Some people say that knowing who you are and what kind of friends you have around you is enough. This statement has been recognized by everyone.
Then would you like to get along with "rose" and become "dirt" that everyone loves?
Those who are near Zhu Zhechi are black. Article 7 "Those who are near are black" comes from a famous sentence in Fu Xuan's "Prince Fu Zhen" in the Jin Dynasty, which has been circulated for thousands of years.
In just eight words, it shows the influence of environment on people-associating with gentlemen will naturally improve your moral cultivation; If you associate with a villain, you will go along with it. It can be seen that environment plays a very important role in our growth.
Zhu Qinglan said that when a person is born, he is like a white silk. He has to go through dyeing vat three times in his life. The first is family. If it is a red dye vat, it will be easy to wear vermilion in the future. Otherwise, if it is a black dye vat, it will be difficult to get better in the future.
Xie Daowen, a talented woman. I was shocked at a young age. This is closely related to her family education. If there is no "cold snowy day of Xie Taifu", where will there be "no catkins because of the wind"? A scholarly family will naturally produce talents.
School is the second dye vat. "Living with goodwill is like walking into Lan Zhi's room. If you don't smell its fragrance for a long time, you will melt with it; Keeping company with the wicked is like entering the abalone boss. If you don't smell it for a long time, it will be integrated with it. " Especially for us teenagers, it is very important to associate with people when the three views are not fully formed. In school, the classmates who live with us day and night can not only moisten things quietly, but also destroy people invisibly.
And the social environment is the dye vat that accompanies us all our lives. How much money does Meng Mu have at home? He moved three times, just to buy a school district for his son, to stay away from killing pigs, to keep his son away from Mo Xiang and to be close to Zhu, which made Mencius a great thinker. At this time, some people say: lotus leaves mud but is not stained. But in fact, it is not the lotus that leads a clean and honest life, but "the lotus is clean and bright", that is to say, it is the powerful purification ability of the lotus that makes the mud disappear. How many people can do it? "Building a house is in human territory, and there are no chariots and horses"? Therefore, cautious Meng Mu moved home-which parents are willing to risk their children's lives?
There is a millionaire. He has been a millionaire for most of his life. He found a multimillionaire and asked him how he became so rich. The multimillionaire asked, "Who are you with every day?" "Millionaire!" The multimillionaire smiled: "But I am with billionaires every day." This story is very simple, but it reflects the influence of environmental atmosphere on our lives: it can be a booster for our success, or it can be a fog that blinds our eyes, making us content with the status quo and limited to satisfaction.
Close to Zhu Zhechi, close to the ink. Let's put ourselves in Lan Zhi's room. Maybe one day, we will bloom into a noble flower.