1. You can forgive anything you say, but don't lie.
2. In my lifetime, I will only complain about warmth, not sorrow, and meet my heart, which will be peaceful and warm.
No matter when you start, it is important not to stop after you start; No matter when it ends, it is important not to regret it after it ends.
Nobody cares how you cry in the middle of the night, and nobody cares that you have to toss and turn for several autumn. Outsiders only look at the results and support the process themselves. When we all understand this truth, we won't be melodramatic in front of people and tell people relief everywhere.
Most women who are too sensible have bad lives. She thinks that love comes at the expense of being wronged. Just like a crying child with candy, happiness and sometimes willfulness.
6. Some people are lonely not because they are waiting for someone to appear, but because that person has already appeared, and they are waiting for that person's initiative.
7. Capable people don't care about emotions, but only do things seriously; Incompetent people don't do things seriously, only care about emotions. Taking out your temper is called instinct; Take back your temper, that's skill!
8. Not every effort will be rewarded, but every effort must be paid, which is unfair and irreversible.
9. The common fault of some people is that it is easy to see others, but it is not easy to see yourself. We can carefully consider other people's problems, but we can take a cursory look at our own problems. A selfish heart will naturally cultivate a pair of selfish eyes, a caring lifestyle, and an attitude of being keen on telling people right and wrong behind their backs. I despise others all my life. On the other hand, I have never seen myself clearly.
10, there are no problems that can never be solved, only problems that can never be solved.
1 1, how many disappointments do you have to accumulate so as not to forget; How many times does it take to turn thick into hate, so as not to turn back frequently?
12, the best time in life is those years when you took full responsibility for your own problems. You don't blame your mother, the environment or the president. You realize that you can control your own destiny.
13, if you feel wronged, prove that you still have a bottom line. If you feel confused, it proves that you still have something to pursue. If you feel pain, prove that you still have strength. If you feel desperate, prove that you still have hope. In a sense, you will never be defeated, because you still have you.
14, you can't say it's impossible without trying it yourself! Without hard work, there is no sense of powerlessness.
15, people who tolerate you are not stupid, but they choose to be cruel to themselves.
16. When we get to the intersection, we will go our separate ways. When you say goodbye, try harder and have a look. I don't look back after saying goodbye, not to say how determined I am, but to know that I will be reluctant to look back at those familiar faces. But we can't stay in the same place. The earth is round, but the road is straight. If we can meet again, it will make us all better. May we shine in the years when we can't see each other
17. People who are overly sensitive are doomed to have a hard life because they are too easily influenced by other people's emotions. Paranoid people are always thinking, and the result is that they are trapped in a mess of thoughts and can't move. Sometimes, it is better to care less than to care more.
18. A smart person will pick up something useful wherever he falls.
19, there is no need to be too happy or too sad. Just be honest and go your own way step by step.
20. If you want to be irreplaceable, you must be different.
Time makes people different.
Time makes people different.
Text/Wu Xiaobo
1902, 27-year-old poet Rilke was hired as the assistant of 62-year-old painter and sculptor Rodin. In the guess of the fledgling poet, Rodin, who is famous all over the world, must live a very romantic, crazy and unique life. However, the real scene he saw was quite different from what he imagined. Rodin is an old man buried alone in the studio all day. Rilke asked him: How can you find an element that can express everything about yourself? Rodin was silent for a while, then said seriously, you should work, as long as you work. Be patient.
What makes some people different? I think Rodin told the real secret, that is: work and enough patience.
When we were young, we always wanted to become famous overnight. As Zhang Ailing said, we should become famous early, and we won't be so happy if we come too late. This sentence really delayed many young people. In fact, if life is regarded as a marathon, is it really so important to run first in the first kilometer?
There are many excellent people around me, at least in the secular sense. They all have one thing in common, that is, they devote themselves wholeheartedly to their work.
Among the China economists I am familiar with, Zhang Wuchang is probably the most talented one. He almost won the Nobel Prize in Economics when he was in his forties. At the same time, he is a very diligent person. In his early years, in order to write the theory of tenant farmers, he sorted out more than a dozen boxes of original files, which many doctors probably disdained to do. Today, he is nearly 80 years old, but he still writes two columns of 1500 words every week.
Among the contemporary western scholars I know, niall ferguson in Britain is recognized as a child prodigy. His research fields span history, economy and politics. Less than 30 years old, he was hired as a researcher by Oxford University. At the age of 40, he was named one hundred people who influenced the world by Time magazine. However, his diligence is unmatched by ordinary people. In order to write the book The Rothschild Family, he and his assistants read tens of thousands of salary increases and cities of the Roche family in the past 100 years.
Therefore, behind the differences, there are often some hardships that are not humane to others. They just run long distances and do one thing. They do things only for the meaning itself. The so-called success is just a result. Maybe let nature take its course, or there may never be a future.
Unusual things are often boring and repetitive, which requires patience in the manufacturing process.
Among the Ming and Qing porcelains that have been handed down to this day, those with rhinoceros dermatoglyphics are the most expensive and almost hard to find. For a long time, people didn't even know which geniuses made it. Later, Wang finally revealed the secret in his book, and the production process was like this.
Artisans make rhinoceros skins, and first pile them up one by one with colored paint ash, which is the bottom; Paint the bottom with different colors to a certain thickness, that is, neutral surface dries and then polishes, and then fine multi-level paint stripes appear in glossy surface.
When I read the secret, I suddenly laughed.
Every unique and peerless good thing is actually based on extremely lonely diligence, either blood or sweat, or a lot of charming youth and good times.
Classic Quotations: Different flowers are rewarded, and different flowers are sad; If you ask acacia
Classic Quotations: Different flowers are rewarded, and different flowers are sad; If you ask acacia, when flowers bloom and fall.
1, the partner you need is the one who can stand side by side with you at the bow, sing the scenery on both sides of the strait and hold your hand tightly in the stormy waves. In other words, it is better that she is not the stormy waves you have to deal with.
The fortune or misfortune of life depends on where you face. Time can experience many things and understand many things; Can prove many things and see through many people; It can cover a lot of dust and wash away a lot of dust. Time can be sealed for many years, and it can also open many memories; Can heal a lot of suffering and wash away a lot of pain; You can underestimate the complexity of the world, or you can calm the world.
As long as I have breath, you are a dream that I will never forget.
4. How to deal with negative emotions? Open the song list to listen to the song, or pick up the book at hand and open it. When you are lonely and helpless, don't run away or talk to someone right away. Calm down is the best way. If even music and books can't calm you down, wash your face and think about your original intention. You will remember who you are. This is my answer. Of course, if all the above fails, let's go to dinner.
They dance in the life with ulterior motives, and you will live forever in the city.
6. People are like this, and they always live within a certain period of time. The world there may be beyond our understanding in a few years, but it is beyond our power. For your sake, Qian Qian will not hesitate to get hurt again. Maybe this is life, and life is not just about doing valuable things!
7. I believe that people who really care about me will not be taken away, no matter friendship or love.
8. The saddest thing is to meet in a hurry, get in a hurry, lose in a hurry, and then leave a scar in my heart. It hurts every time it hurts you.
9. There is no sun in my sky. It is always night, but it is not dark, because something has replaced the sun. Although it is not as bright as the sun, it is enough for me. With this lamp, I can treat night as day. I never have the sun, so I'm not afraid to lose it.
10, the world is too big and life is too short. It's right to live as you want.
1 1, feelings are sometimes just a person's business. It has nothing to do with anyone. Love, or not love, can only end by itself.
12, there are rewards for different flowers, and there are sorrows for different flowers; If you ask acacia, when flowers bloom and fall.
13, in your life, there will at least one time that you forget yourself for someone, asking for no result, no company, no ownership or even love, just for meeting you in my most beautiful years.
14, compassion is easy because it is a sense of superiority; Forgiveness is not easy, because you actually admit being hurt.
15, accompany me to Hoh Xil to see the sea, not the future, as long as you come.
16, don't live humbly for fear of being misunderstood.
17, in fact, there is no hurdle, so leave yourself some time to recover. It's better to say that it doesn't matter if you are free and easy than rushing to hit yourself.
18, for people who love each other, each other's heart is the best house.
19, what does it mean to be loved? It means that even the shortcomings that you can't accommodate are accommodated.
20. The flowers bloom differently, and the flowers fall differently; If you ask acacia, when flowers bloom and fall.
Classic Quotations: We must be hot, even boiling, to be compatible with each other.
Classic Quotations: We must be hot, even boiling, to be compatible with each other.
1, instead of being busy and conspicuous, it is better to be a real and natural person in the crowd, not to make public, not to be artificial, and to stand back at any time. I have a fixed mind, just concentrate on my work.
2. You will meet someone who you are; You will choose who you are.
I love watching the sunset in the wilderness, listening to the direction of the wind, forgetting everything that has nothing to do with me and growing like a tree.
If you feel tired, the best way is to make yourself more tired. Only when you are completely tired can you get rid of it.
5, must be hot, even boiling, in order to blend.
6. Don't fall in love with looks, because looks are deceptive. Don't pursue wealth, even that fades away. Love someone who makes you smile, because a smile can make a long night as bright as day.
7. You all want to live this life, and I only want to complete one practice.
8, because life is only once. So: do what you like, go where you want to go and help people who can help.
9. Smart people have three characteristics: one is to persuade others to do things by themselves; Second, never do anything against nature; The third is to tolerate the weaknesses of people around you.
10, three words to yourself: ① Young, it's never too late; (2) Don't dwell on trifles; What you're going through now is nothing.
1 1. Most of the happiness in life comes from pain. If you completely reject pain, you completely avoid happiness.
12, love is a wool, which can be messy or woven into warmth and beauty.
13, everyone will stick to their beliefs. In the eyes of others, it is a waste of time, but he thinks it is very important.
14, modest, docile, self-sustaining life, not confused, not trapped in love, not afraid of the future, not nostalgic for the past.
15, there are three pains in life: one is that you can't get it; The second pain is that I got it, but that's all; The third pain is that you give up easily, only to find out later that it is so important in your life.
16, a person with rich heart is not afraid of loneliness or crowds, because they can open their inner world when they are alone, and they can also keep a quiet silence in the crowd.
17, don't control the pressure, we don't have to follow the time, just follow the mentality and ability, follow the fate, do our best, achieve our own life, have a clear conscience, and leave the rest to heaven.
18, don't set the standard of happiness too high, as long as you taste every little thing in life with your heart, it can be said that it is related to happiness. Because in any case, happiness is just a feeling.
19, the so-called love is that others worry that you are fat, but I am worried that you are not full.
20. When the language is weak, let silence speak.