>> Loving yourself means trying your best to live as a person you like and spend your life in the way you like.

>> What a person pursues most is often what he lacks most.

>> The power of a person's "confidence" can only come from his clear self-knowledge and the resulting firm belief within himself, and has nothing to do with others.

>> Love is the hardest thing to last, so many lovers will eventually become unloving.

>> Only when an emotion is higher than the value of our own lives, it is love.

>> Affection is different from love. "Emotion" is melancholy, "love" is strength; "emotion" is desire, "love" is life; "emotion" is interest, and "love" is belief.

>> Touching love is that the other person is worthy of our love; heartwarming love never asks whether the other person is worth it.

>> Fromm said in "The Art of Loving": People often confuse "loving" with "being loved". That seems to be the case.

>> If "I love you" is not something you command me to do, why should I ask you to give your love for it?

>> What is affection? You know what kind of person he is, your truest self, and you love this real him. You have seen him at his brightest and you have seen him at his darkest. When you see him at his darkest, you are still willing to accept him and love him. This is called affection. You really understand him, what kind of person he is, his good and bad qualities, and the ways in which he is different from you. You understand that he is very imperfect, but you still love him as such an imperfect person. Love him. This real imperfect person, this is the real deep feeling.

>> I love them because they are people; and I love you because you are you.

>> Self-love is based on self-knowledge. Only when a person truly understands himself can he learn how to love his true self. Likewise, true love is based on true knowledge. If a person wants to love another person deeply, he must first understand the person deeply, and then love the person well based on the understanding.

>> Actions of love are the proof of love. Without actions, everything is empty.

>> If you want freedom, give him freedom; if you need him to understand you, give him understanding; if you want him to trust you, give him trust; when you are in pain, you need comfort and support. If you are supportive, give him comfort and support. So this is the act of love - be good to him, treat your lover as you would treat yourself, love him as yourself.

>> Before, you were a river and I was a river. When we met, the two rivers merged together. From then on, I can’t tell which river is you and which river is me, because we merge into one river, which is called us.

>> Don’t try to find a perfect person, because you are redundant around a perfect person, and a perfect person does not need others. Love is not about falling in love with a perfect person, but that he becomes more perfect after he loves you.

>> In the depth of love, there is no longer you, no more me, your suffering is my suffering, your illness is my illness.

>> We may be doing our own things, but there is a kind of our vibration in the air. Only very, very sensitive people can feel this vibration of ours. This is Different bodies, same soul.

>> If I have anything to be proud of, it's because I loved you, that's all.

>> My lover dies, and I die with him. Is this a high level? High. My lover died and I lived for him. This level is also high. I use my life to live out his life, and I live for us. This is also the deepest love.

>> If you don’t understand me at all, why do you say you love me? You love the birds in the sky, but I am a fish in the sea. The way you love me is to let me spread my wings and fly, but you don't know that my life should be a leisurely swim in the deep sea.

>> True love is not about forcing you to be what I want you to be, but about me understanding you carefully and then doing my best to help you become yourself. True love is not about turning you into someone you are not, but about understanding you deeply and then letting you be yourself and living your life as you truly are.

>> A truly perfect love should be an ellipse with two centers, one for you and one for me. We will think about each other, and not only think about each other from our own perspective, but also think about each other from the other side's perspective.

>> We always say that if you love someone, you must protect him and prevent him from getting hurt. Yes, protect him from being hurt by others, but also protect him from being hurt by me.

>> Surging passion cannot mean that two people have a deep relationship, but it may reflect a shallow relationship. Because only when the relationship is shallow, it is necessary to use violent exaggeration in the external form to make up for the depth of the intertwining of two people's souls.

>> The deepest passion in the world is the tacit understanding between two hearts. What is tacit understanding? Tacit understanding means that the minds are connected, the spirit is high, and the two people are integrated. It means that two people are always on the same channel and are seamlessly connected spiritually. This is tacit understanding, and tacit understanding is the deepest passion.

>> You have to constantly discover the beautiful things in him, new and beautiful things, and then you will fall in love with different people again and again. He falls in love with the same person again and again.

>> This is the most beautiful state of love, ever-changing, but always the same.