What should people do when they reach the lowest point?
What should people do when they reach the lowest point? Nine times out of ten, things are unsatisfactory. A person's life cannot always be smooth sailing. There will always be times when life is at a low point. Let me take a look at the relevant information on what to do when a person reaches a low point. What to do when a person reaches a low point 1
1. Maintain a good attitude, be happy with everything you see, and don’t complain.
Correct your mentality and recognize your own low state. All kinds of work are not going well and all kinds of difficulties are in front of you, but don't just complain, just blame others. One should accept that this is a low point.
The famous host Meng Fei said, "Fate gives me a low point in my life, and I will use it to create a peak." That's it, accept the facts, correct your mentality, and move forward with a heavy load, then everything will be fine Change.
In fact, when life is at a low point, no matter which direction you go, you are going up, climbing, and changing yourself.
For example: a person who has failed in love has just broken up with his lover, or has just divorced. Everything is depressing and gray, but if you correct your mind and think about it, the one who leaves must not be the best, because the best is behind you, and he (she) will accompany you until you grow old. When you take active actions and treat others with a sunny outlook, people who truly love you will naturally appear. On the contrary, you are addicted to failed love and become unbearably lonely.
2. Rely on yourself and don’t count on anyone.
When a person has no support, he must rely on himself. You must learn to walk alone, otherwise no one you rely on will be disappointed.
The people who love you most when you are young are your parents, but your parents will grow old before you; when you meet love when you are young, you will cling to each other, but falling in love is always easy, getting along is too difficult, and many people part ways halfway. There are too few people who can accompany you to the end. There are also brothers and sisters who have their own families and can't take care of you.
Even if you meet a noble person on the road, they can help you for a while, but they will not help you forever. There are almost no people who will help you until you grow old. Helping you may mean pitying you, but if you always rely on me everywhere, then it's like "the mud can't stick to the wall."
I became stronger and got out of the trough, but it was only a matter of time.
3. Persist in improving yourself and move in the established direction.
The harder you work, the luckier you will be. Getting out of the trough does not rely on brute force, but on wisdom. It is difficult for you to change yourself if you are always ignorant and full of brute force.
Of course, you cannot make a mistake in the direction of your life, otherwise your improvement will go in the opposite direction.
You must understand that the direction of love is happiness; the direction of career is achievement; the direction of body is health; the direction of family is warmth; the direction of mood is peace.
4. Persist in facing your own mistakes without shirk or evasion.
Don’t look for excuses for your mistakes, that’s useless. If you are wrong, you are wrong. Just correct it and admit your mistake to others.
It is not shameful to admit a mistake, but it is shameful not to correct it after knowing it.
Everyone is not perfect and may make mistakes, but if you do not recognize your mistakes, you will be looked down upon by society. Even those who love you will dislike you and leave you.
Persist in recognizing mistakes, that is to say, you may make mistakes many times in your life, but you must know your mistakes and correct them. There is no great way to do good.
5. Stay silent and learn to keep a low profile.
This is an ancient saying: "The first bird is shot with the gun." Don't think that when you have some talent, just show it off, otherwise if you meet someone stronger, they will push you down.
You can only keep a low profile and improve yourself in silence. When no one notices you, you have actually grown. When you are strong enough, then "leap up" and explode in silence.
Maybe you have a better way to get out of the trough of life, but the above five persistences will definitely help you.
I sincerely hope that everyone will not linger in the trough, but rise from the trough. What to do when people hit rock bottom 2
The first thing: think calmly.
When you are at a low point in life, you will certainly feel confused and tormented, but if you think about it from another perspective, it will also be a test and exercise of your will, determination and courage. A truly strong person must have matured after many hardships, just like the famous saying says, "Heaven will give great responsibility to this person..." Besides, only by learning the lessons of falling into a trough, can we make as few mistakes as possible in the future. .
The second thing: go out for a walk. After falling into a trough in life, it is often difficult to make a comeback. If you are eager to get out of the trough, you will be hit again. You might as well leave for a while and go to distant places, to the mountains and rivers, to the seaside and rivers, for a walk and relax. , looking far into the distance, picturesque mountains and rivers, returning to nature, green flowers and grass, fountains and dew, will wash away the troubles and pain in your heart, clean up the chaotic thoughts, purify the soul, restore reason and confidence, and will help you make a comeback.
The third thing: compare up and down. Although falling into a low point in life is a period of frustration and confusion in life, no one in life is easy. Comparing with classmates, colleagues, fellow villagers, and friends, although they may not be as good as the ones above, they are often more than the ones below. Doing this seems to be a kind of Ah Q spirit, but it can adjust your mentality in time, allowing you to maintain psychological coordination and balance. You will not lose confidence in yourself because of a temporary trough, and you will not lose your energy due to small setbacks. Don't lose your ambition due to temporary frustration.
The fourth thing: let it go for a while. People often say that where you fall, you get up. However, it does not necessarily mean that you get up immediately. It is not a bad idea to lie on the ground and rest for a while. When you are at a low point in your life, if it is not a fatal matter, you might as well put it aside for the time being and talk about it after a while. Maybe after a while, you have gained a correct understanding, or you no longer care about this matter, or you have a more ambitious goal. This setback will no longer be a big deal, and you will be able to get out of the trough smoothly. .
The fifth thing: Have fun with your ideas. People are not machines. When you are at a low point in your life, don’t blindly squeeze and force yourself. Instead, find ways to make yourself happy and do things that make you happy. For example, read an interesting book, listen to a cross talk, watch a sketch, and relax. A moment of frustration can also help get out of the trough.
The sixth thing: roar loudly. When you are at a low point in life, it is normal to feel confused, tortured, and emotionally depressed. The key is to solve them. Roaring loudly is a good way to solve it. You can find a place where no one is around and shout loudly, or you can sing a song. Regardless of whether it sounds good or not, the main purpose is to vent stress and various negative emotions and restore yourself to normalcy.
The seventh thing: You might as well give in. When you are at a low point in your life, stop being aggressive and try to be competitive. Recharge your batteries, keep a low profile, and accumulate more experience. When it comes to interpersonal conflicts or other people's contempt for you, you don't have to fight to win or lose. Be patient and give in. You must not have any disputes, otherwise you will create obstacles for yourself, and if you are at a low point, you will only suffer more easily. What to do when a person reaches a trough 3
When a person is at a trough, he is very confused and does not know what to do, so it is best to follow these three points
1. Calm down and reflect. Self, reflect on the past and find out where the problems lie.
When people are at a low point, they are in a very bad situation. However, this situation is caused by ourselves. We all need to understand this and not blame others.
As for how the situation was caused, we need to calm down, reflect on ourselves and the past, find out where our problems lie, and then find ways to solve the problems.
Once your own problems are solved, the low point in your life will basically be stabilized, and your situation will not get worse. If you are still complaining when you are at a low point and do not know how to reflect, then your low point will become even lower and your situation will be even worse.
Therefore, when people are at a low point, they must first calm down and reflect on themselves. This is the most important point. By reflecting on yourself, you can sum up experiences and lessons so that you will not repeat the same mistakes, stabilize your decline, and avoid deterioration of your situation.
2. Adjust your mentality, relax your mood, and find lost confidence and courage.
When people are at a low point, their mentality is often very bad, their mood is often very bad, and it is easy to lose confidence in themselves. , lose hope in life, and even feel fear and fear in the heart. Such a state will only make oneself unable to recover.
Attitude determines everything. If the attitude is good, everything will be fine. If the attitude is bad, everything will be bad. Adjusting your mentality and regaining the lost confidence and courage is the best way and the best choice to overcome the trough.
How to adjust your mentality? How to find lost confidence and courage? I think we can contact people full of positive energy, read articles full of positive energy, and then work hard to improve our earning power and make ourselves more valuable.
When you have value, you will have the confidence, become more and more confident in yourself, and have the courage to face everything. Whether it's a good attitude, confidence, or courage, it all comes from your own strength. If you have strength, you won't be afraid of anything.
3. Find the right direction, give full play to your advantages, concentrate, keep working hard, and keep persevering
When people are in a trough, if they want to climb out of the trough, they must not It's so easy. Even if you have a good mentality, enough confidence and courage, you may not be able to fight back. After all, action is the most important and critical thing.
How to act? How to fight back? I think we need to find the right direction, give full play to our strengths, learn to focus, stay focused enough, keep working hard, and persevere to the end.
As a person, you must understand that the fastest shortcut to success is to do what you are best at, and the rest is focus, hard work, and persistence. You have to know that in this life, as long as you do what you are best at and do it to the best, you can create your own miracles.
If you don’t know what you are good at, then cultivate it, use time to accumulate it, use repetition to polish it, use persistence to experience it, and use hard work to achieve it. Remember, there is definitely enough time to do one thing well in this life.
When people are at a low point, they are very confused and don’t know what to do, so they should do the above three points. I believe that as long as you do it, no matter how low you are, you will be able to overcome it.
Life is a series of experiences, and the troughs are the best experiences. When you are at a trough, don't be afraid. You have to have confidence in yourself, because you lack nothing but the courage to start over.
Really, when people are in a trough, the situation is already very bad. No matter how bad it is, it won’t be any worse. There is nothing to be afraid of. Be bold and move forward bravely. You will always get out of the trough. , welcome new life!
I wish you to be positive and optimistic and live happily every day!