1. Accept sudden losses and cherish unexpected surprises.

2. In the world of love, if you want to be happy, you must first remember one sentence: women are meant to be loved, not to reason.

3. Don’t get to the bottom of things, don’t be unreasonable, don’t try to change others, and don’t demand others according to your own moral standards. Learn to understand the strangest things and learn to appreciate the artistic styles that are farthest from yourself.

4. As long as you dare not be cowardly, why should we miss it?

5. People have a dream of Red Mansions, but they live in the world of Water Margin. They want to make friends with Taoyuan brothers from the Three Kingdoms, but they always encounter monsters and ghosts from Journey to the West.

6. What does it feel like to lose the person you love the most? That's probably because I still feel lonely in a sea of ??people, and I cry even when watching a comedy.

7. When you want to give up in life, please tell yourself that you cannot give up all the good things in the world to people you hate.

8. Many people break into your life just to teach you a lesson, and then turn around and leave.

9. People who like to lie on the ground will never fall, but they can’t walk either. Don’t covet comfort at an age when you should be desperate.

10. I always want to give you the best in the world, but I find that the best in the world is you.

11. Understanding is not a word, but a heart.

12. If you decide to give up something, give it up completely and don’t drag it out; those who decide not to see each other again, really don’t see each other again. Please don't betray yourself again. If you want to love others, please love yourself first.

13. Pick up some things that should be picked up, and let go of some things that should be discarded. Because only when what should end ends can what should begin begin.

14. We are all guessing whether the other party will miss us. We are all in our hearts, expecting the other party to take the initiative first. So, we each had our own thoughts, and in the end, we drifted apart.

15. People who always neglect you are people who don’t care about you. Just ask for more.

16. Your eyes are so beautiful. They contain the sun and moon, winter and summer, sunny rain, mountains, rivers, flowers and plants, birds and animals, but my eyes are more beautiful because you are inside them.

17. Every time I say hello, I mean it literally, but the real meaning is: I like you.

18. People who really want to leave are always silent without saying a word.

19. Flowers bloom when they meet spring, and I fall in love when I meet you.

20. In the days to come, may you become the person you want to be, don’t embarrass yourself, and don’t let the years go by.

21. To be able to go to bed clean every night, feel at ease and exhausted, and to wake up refreshed and refreshed every day, to be calm and energetic. This is the best life.

22. If you don’t love someone anymore, just say it. Don’t be hot and cold, don’t let others guess, and don’t delay others from meeting someone better.

23. If he really loves you, he will work hard to give you the best.

24. Life is already difficult, so don’t make yourself miserable because of someone who is not meant for you. Real dreams must be fulfilled without saying a word

Text/Puff Cat

Promise me to endure your pain and walk through the whole city without saying a word .

As for what to do when facing pain, this is the most mature solution I have heard so far that I think is the best. As for what to do when facing your passionate dreams, I also agree with this method.

Mature people will no longer talk about their dreams. They will not insist on thinking of the most glorious dream like they did when they were young. People all over the world can’t wait to applaud your dream. good. As far as I know, most people who talk about their dreams end up giving it up. On the contrary, those who say nothing often achieve their goals in the end and win everyone's respect unexpectedly.

1

Xiaobei is the gentlest among our good friends. Back then, our few liberal arts boys who were as skinny as monkeys always loved to talk about everything. The most common thing is about my own dreams. Every time he nudged Xiaobei with his elbow, he always gave a faint smile and then said his unchanging answer: "Writing makes a living." The dreams of those of us are uncertain. One day we vow to be a police officer, and tomorrow we will change our mind to become a director after being moved to tears after watching a good movie.

However, only Xiaobei's dream can withstand the ordinary passing years, while the dreams of others have long disappeared in the wind, lost to the repeated running-in time.

Writing for a living is the dream of many liberal arts teenagers. Some people have found the splendid world of words, but they linger outside the door and never get the point. Many people are very talented, but cannot persevere, and ultimately achieve nothing. Xiaobei belongs to the category without talent. Back then we teased him about his dream and said he had taken the wrong route. But Xiaobei was really stubborn. He didn't believe that he could only look at other people's behind-the-scenes actions, but he couldn't be one of them. After that, he never mentioned his dream again, but everyone could see his efforts.

For inspiration, he often dreams. He wakes up in the middle of the night and uses his dreams as inspiration to write. He stipulated that he should write a manuscript every day, no matter good or bad, rain or shine. The movies and books he watches require long reviews, and many of the things he does are silently striving in that direction.

His family was not particularly wealthy, and he often held multiple jobs when he was in college. When he returned to the dormitory after finishing his work at night, his roommate was probably asleep. He was afraid of disturbing his roommate by lighting the lamp, so he wrote under the quilt. After college, Xiaobei put on glasses and looked more like an intellectual.

Xiaobei has always liked the style of a magazine. He said that if he worked part-time there, he could not only make money, but also exchange writing ideas with many people and read many works. When he was only a sophomore, he went to knock on the door of that magazine. The magazine was not recruiting people at that time, not to mention that he was only a sophomore, and the magazine clearly rejected him.

He did not give up and went to the magazine every day for a month to work for free, doing small things like serving tea and water and organizing documents, and he always brought one of his own works. When he was almost a month old, all the staff there remembered him. The editor-in-chief was surprised and immediately invited him to work in the magazine as an internship, and he was offered a good salary. This gentle boy danced happily for the first time, showing his joy on his face.

Now Xiaobei has achieved his wish and has become a person who makes a living by writing. He also writes well and is somewhat famous.

I remember the last time we had a party on the fifth day of the Lunar New Year, after the lively night, several people fell asleep on the bed with their hands on their shoulders. When I woke up in the middle of the night, I heard the sound of typing on the keyboard. I saw Xiaobei leaning on the table and typing words attentively. The moonlight shone into the room, and there was light above his head, illuminating himself.

2

I met Xia En on the day when the school club accepted new recruits. The girl was soft and soft, like a gardenia. We were both freshmen and in the same department, so we quickly became chatty friends.

Our school dormitories are usually six-person rooms, and all kinds of people from all over the world gather together. Unfortunately, all five people in the dormitory where Xia En is located are locals. Xia En is the only exception. This is not the worst thing. None of the five people in the dormitory can develop into a confidant. After coming to the university, many people are like deflated fish and no longer have to jump through the rapids. In the past, some people knew nothing about anything other than studying. After going to college, he had fun and was drunk. Xia En was in such a dormitory environment, as out of place as a lonely fish.

She has always said that she would get the opportunity to study abroad for free. To this end, she has set strict goals for herself since her freshman year. Learn a lot of knowledge and grammar every day, and run until you are exhausted before going to bed at night.

She talked about novels like a treasure, which became hypocritical in the eyes of her roommates. Her roommate said it was too noisy when she played guitar. While she was practicing calligraphy, her roommate was talking on the phone with her boyfriend in bed. In short, they were not on the same track at all, and the signal sent by Xia En could not be received by the roommates at all. Gradually, she no longer paid attention to the eyes of her roommates, and began to be herself with peace of mind.

Nothing Xia En did was wrong, she was just slowly making herself better.

When Xia En was a senior, something happened at home, and his family's financial situation plummeted. After much deliberation, she finally gave up the opportunity to study abroad. At that time, airlines wanted to recruit students on campus, and the conditions were that they had a 211 university background and a good command of English, and the salary was very attractive. She submitted her resume without thinking because her family was short of money. The people who went for interviews at that time were all very black, and many of them were flight attendants. Xia En was neither a professional flight attendant nor had much advantage in terms of height, but she still went for the interview.

The interview results came out three days later. The airline only hired two people, one of whom was Xia En. Why is it Shane? It turns out that Xia En not only worked hard to study abroad during his four years in college, but he also studied both internally and externally to practice his temperament and speaking skills. Such an outstanding and radiant girl, luck cannot bear to let her down.

And those roommates who had ridiculed Xia En with disdain, because they wasted time and had little talent and knowledge, could not catch the eye of the interviewer when interviewing with excellent companies. She had to marry young and become a woman, and mediocrity seemed to have never appeared in Xia En's world.

However, just when everyone thought that Xia En would struggle for her whole life for work, she quietly resigned from her job and used the money she saved to continue to fulfill her dream of studying abroad.

She said that she had many dreams when she was young, but she didn’t hold on to any of them for long. It's not that she doesn't want to concentrate, but that many times she has to give up on her dreams. Because of her family background, she learned to take a different path. When a path doesn't work, don't give up. Learn to stay silent and move forward in a roundabout way. In the end, your dream will still choose you.

Three

The dreams that many people talk about are romance, a trip that can just go, vanity for nothing, and words that cover up the emptiness in the heart.

Dreams are a language of their own, and nothing less will be enough. Secretly hide your dream in your heart, don’t tell anyone, and just realize it step by step.

A person's growth must go through seven times. I think that a person must have several times to realize his dream.

First time: Have you ever tossed and turned and had sleepless nights because of your dreams?

The second time: Have you ever exhausted your efforts for your dream?

The third time: Have you ever walked across an entire city for your dream without saying a word?

A true dream must be realized without saying a word

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A true dream must be realized without saying a word Wen/Puff Cat promised me to endure your pain and walk across the city without saying a word. As for what to do when faced with pain, this is the best and most mature solution I have heard so far. As for what to do when facing your passionate dream, I also agree with this method. Mature people will no longer talk about their dreams. They will not insist on thinking of the most glorious dream like they did when they were young. People all over the world can’t wait to applaud your dream. As far as I know, most people who talk about their dreams end up giving up. On the contrary... Popular mood phrases in QQ space People who really want to leave will not say goodbye

1. Labor and management never know what a lady is. I don’t even pretend, I live casually

2. A girl from elementary school who is on vacation came to me and said, it’s vacation again, why don’t you let it go! I beat her so hard that my sister's life now is a true reflection of your future!

3. I think I am so silent that you don’t understand my language.

4. Every stupid thing I have done since I met you is because of you

5. If you can’t even hold your girlfriend, it’s not because she is too heavy. You are so useless

6. Between trusting you and not trusting you, I choose to despise you

7. The person who seems not to care about you has written all over the chat window I want to say something to you but I haven’t pressed the button

8. After I die, please don’t get close to my body, because I have no strength. Pick up my hand to wipe your tears.

9. Thank you to those who once brought me joy but left me far away

10. It has been a long time for the world to turn into clouds and mist, and it has been a long time for the sea to turn into mulberry fields

11. After I die, please don’t get close to my body, because I have no strength. Pick up my hand to wipe your tears.

12. Without you, the world is a waste. Thousands of mountains and rivers are a waste. No matter how beautiful the scenery along the way is, it can’t compare to wandering by your side.

13. Wait for you to wrestle me next time. I have to laugh enough before I help you up

14. How can I match your unparalleled and charming heart without being pretentious?

15. I learned to smile while wearing a mask , even if I'm not happy.

16. After I die, please take my ashes with you and throw them out when you encounter bad people. Let me protect you one last time.

17. My family is very poor. If you are afraid of poverty, don’t get close to me.

18. Let me be your support. Although I am not tall and my shoulders are not wide, I will fall when I feel wronged. Tears, but I want to hug you, okay?

19. I just want to settle down in my world and move forward bravely without being affected by too many negative emotions

20. The cafe is empty Purposefully soaking up the whole afternoon, this is the life I want

21. It’s not too bad, I can still laugh

22. [No matter what I do How hesitant and confused I was at the time. In the end, I have to work hard for the life I want to live]

23. You asked me to take the initiative and I took the initiative, but I was tired

20 4. You give me all hope. But it blocked my sunshine.

25. If emotions were controlled, there wouldn’t be so many people who would have to live and die.

26. Sometimes I pretend to look around like a pen, but in fact I'm just peeking at the person I like

Twenty-seven. Heaven and earth can tell the difference between children and old men. I once risked my life to love you, but you don't know how to cherish it

Twenty 8. Just a beautiful encounter, but it made us overturn everything

29. Don’t think that how important you are in other people’s world, maybe it’s just a casual acquaintance

< p> 30. [People are always so mean, and they must only know how to let go when they have no way out and are scarred]

31. I hate those women who only sow discord and climb up every day to make up stories about jealousy and talkative women. Someone who listens to others.

-I have no regrets about knowing you, let alone falling in love with you.

32. What is the largest island in Thailand? Phuket Island. If you don’t know it, you don’t know what it is so cute about.

Thirty-three, [I had you, it was just a momentary dream]

Thirty-four, please don’t say that you are in love just because of a warm current. one person.

Thirty-five. The most beautiful scenery is what is left most urgently, and the most true feelings are what hurt the most.

Thirty-six. If you don’t cry, make trouble, feel sad, or laugh, will even the traces of being remembered be ignored.

Thirty-seven, ZY: [Come to the center of my heart, lean by my side, stop wandering, stop wandering]

Thirty-eight, love is a lamp, friendship is a shadow, be a lamp extinguished, you will find that there are shadows all around you

Thirty-nine, finally the mist and rain from the south of the Yangtze River covered the world. After the prosperity, it was just a scene, and the mountains and rivers were silent forever

Four 10. No matter how ferociously I cry, I can’t compare to her tearful eyes

41. We can all be very tolerant and understanding at the beginning, but how many people can always persist in their enthusiasm and patience? Increasing but not decreasing

42. The sky turned sunny and cloudy again, and after the happiness there was only loneliness.

43. Being with other people is called the rest of your life, but being with you is called the future.

44. I will give you a love that I have never expected;

45. Those who leave most quickly are the most beautiful scenery, and those who are hurt the most are also the most true feelings.

46. Everyone will be afraid, especially if you cherish it with all your life but still can’t keep it in the end

47. I want to talk to you but forget about me. An identity has been lost.

Forty-eight, classmate? It’s okay, I just think you look like my next girlfriend

Forty-nine, [It was just a momentary dream that I had you]

Fifty, I really want to leave People don't know how to say goodbye

51. I just want to have a good friend who won't betray until graduation

52. At this age, I love to talk hot, so I just said I like you, I really like you

53. You have to see with your own eyes that the things you once vowed to collapse without attacking can you believe that some things are just bubbles

54. I once The heart that passes by is not that I refuse to stay, but that you refuse to take in. 55. Maybe I am just a passer-by, but you will not meet the second me.

Fifty-six, without you, there are still heartbreaking accompaniments to accompany me,

Fifty-seven, maybe I am just a passerby, but you will not Meet the second me.

58. If you talk about me behind my back, it only means that my life is obviously much more exciting than yours.

Fifty-nine. Remember, I am not afraid of you, nor am I a coward. I just don’t want to cause trouble to my parents at home.

60. How long will it take for new friends to gradually stop walking side by side?

61. I don’t want to hear any news about you, but I can’t help but look back again and again. Looking at you, I find that you are getting farther and farther away from me;

Sixty-two. Sometimes persistence is a burden or a kind of harm, but giving up is a kind of beauty

Six 13. We were not originally like this. Our love could have been my word for evil and word for good

Chinese female singer Stefanie Sun is a Singaporean. In Singapore, although Chinese is one of the official languages, many ethnic Chinese speak Singaporean Chinese, which is a mixture of Chinese, English, and Malay. Unlike Taiwan, there are often barriers to communication. Stefanie Sun suffered from this in Taiwan. Later, she became fluent in Chinese, which impressed people. The driving force behind it came from a sentence.

When Stefanie Sun first came to Taiwan to develop her career, she once asked a question from a variety show host. She didn’t quite understand it and didn’t know how to answer it. In desperation, she remembered the record company’s suggestion and it would be useless to answer it. Everyone laughed at the boring reply and changed the topic, so she could get through safely.

Unexpectedly, this trick was discovered, and the host said in front of everyone else: Why are the newcomers so stupid now? This sentence was like a slap on Stefanie's face, which stung her heart. She graduated from a higher education institution in Singapore and was called stupid just because she couldn't understand what others were saying.

Stefanie Sun took this incident as a painful lesson and determined not to blindly follow other people's advice. She wanted to control what she wanted to say and what she wanted to express, and proved that she was not a brainless artist. From then on, she worked hard to learn Chinese. Although the process was difficult and she wanted to give up, she persisted.

Everything has two sides. All laws in the world can be used as good laws, and those that cannot be used can become evil laws.

When faced with criticism, ridicule, and accusations from others, it depends on how you look at it, whether you should be angry and sad, or use it as motivation to motivate yourself.