There will be no confession in the process of secret love. Secret love is usually a kind of unrequited love, and you are willing to pay for him (her). It is also equivalent to unrequited love. One-sided love silently in the heart. Secret love is a pure and classical emotion. Classical love can grow silently in loneliness, while pure love may have blind hesitation and trauma, but it will definitely not have any utilitarianism or purpose. It is selfless, as if it exists for faith. You may think that secret love is just a good feeling at the beginning, but when it takes root in your heart, you realize that it has gradually taken over your chest. The end. When you cannot restrain yourself, you may have the urge to hurt yourself or boldly express yourself to the other person. Secret love is a kind of pure, selfless and profound love. In response to Jay Chou's lyrics, spend your whole life waiting. Whenever I think of it, it will always be the tenderest memory in my heart. This is the purest love, because it is buried in the heart and is simple. It is a rare memory for everyone. Usually, it is because of one's own conditions or unwillingness to express one's feelings out loud, so one keeps it in mind. This is very contradictory. Although it hurts, I am willing to suffer because of it. Maybe I just like that "sweet sadness". Symptoms of Secret Love: What kind of behavior or behavior do you generally have when you have a crush on someone or like someone? That is: Don’t dare to look at the other person when you see him. I desperately want to tell the other person my thoughts but lack the courage, which leads to depression. When you see the other person, you will want to run away immediately. Your eyes will often linger on the other person (without realizing it), for example, to see what she is doing, whether she is attending class, who she is talking to, etc. Also, I really want to see each other! Her eyes are constantly searching for him or her, but she still pretends not to care. She will be jealous when she sees the person she likes playing with the opposite sex. Ambiguity or some intimate actions will make you unhappy and even cause insomnia. When I meet someone I like, I am speechless because I don’t know what to say. Sometimes, it becomes extremely awkward, and you can't help but lose control when you see him (her). Different people have different behaviors. For example, some will keep fighting with her (him) to make him (her) notice them. . In the beginning, you will always pay attention to his (her) every move and be very cautious, but at a certain stage, he (she) feels that it is unbearable. When it is time to speak clearly, he or she will make up his mind to speak out what is on his mind, even though he or she is very nervous. , very contradictory! I believe that all the male compatriots in the world feel the same, and so do the female compatriots! There will be expectations and all kinds of unrealistic fantasies. Although I know in my heart that I shouldn't be so irrational, I still can't restrain my expectations. Even if I am disappointed and injured again and again, I still look forward to realizing those small, weak, and shining expectations of myself next time, which make me sad and helpless when I think about it. I really want to see the other person, but when I actually see the other person, I often don’t know what to do, feel at a loss, and even make many abnormal behaviors. The 4 major sins and countermeasures of "secret love" There are the following four major sins of secret love: A People who have a secret love are prone to narcissism. Because the door to express to others is blocked, I have no choice but to please myself. No matter at home or outside, whenever I have the opportunity, I look in the mirror, pity myself, and keep muttering: I am beautiful today, if he sees me, he will fall in love with me. Typical self-deception and self-deception, a waste of cosmetics and expressions for the sake of a self-assumption. People who have a crush on B tend to gain weight. Because you cannot express yourself, you are anxious and anxious, you are either irritable or depressed, you are either happy or sad, and you cannot always talk to your friends. In the end, the person you want to love does not fall in love with you, and the person who usually loves you also withdraws. What should I do? In order to stop my mouth, I invite my classmates, friends, colleagues, old lovers, old rivals and secret love rivals to eat. It feels so good to eat and drink enough. My head is dizzy and my body is floating. When I return home, my loneliness is gone, my sadness is gone. Before falling asleep happily, another piece of chocolate will be so comforting. At this moment, lust turns into appetite, worries turn into fat, and you become fat while endlessly eating and chewing. C People who have a crush can easily become unrecognizable. Although I couldn't express it to him directly, I never gave up my efforts in other ways, such as opening my double eyelids and digging dimples... In addition to making myself beautiful once and for all, I mainly wanted him to pay attention to me in my heart. People who have a crush will have many weird thoughts, and these thoughts are as full of masochism as the crush itself. In addition to the changes in appearance, the changes in the heart are also not optimistic. Sensitive, weird, and melancholy are the adjectives for a secret admirer. In fact, she wasn't like this before, as her friends liked to say. Friends felt that she had changed, as dim as a piece of silverware that had not been worn for a long time.

Although love is also a mixture of joy and sorrow, it gives you enthusiasm and hope. Secret love is exactly the opposite force. D People who have a crush tend to become strong women. Some people modify their appearance to increase added value, study hard and work overtime, leave friends and have fun, and then make great progress and flourish. You want to do something good for him to see, you want him to applaud and cheer for you, and you want to shorten the distance between you and him. However, accidentally, you pushed too hard and surpassed him. You didn't expect that you could be so good. You just wanted him to love you. What now? How to make him fall in love with a woman who doesn't understand pleasure and taste but is stronger than him? New problems were faced again. E: People with a crush are prone to study/career decline. People with a crush are not attentive in class/work (pay attention to every move of the crush) and are easily scolded. There are so many disadvantages of a crush, so it’s better to just tell him clearly: I love you. , I want you. If you are rejected, you can treat it as if you have not taken advantage of it. If there are still many obstacles that prevent you from expressing love, try the following things: Throw away all the mirrors, hang up his photos or photos of other handsome guys, and practice your conquering femininity in front of them every day. Ask why, you just practice and it will come in handy. B started to diet and become vegetarian. Invite classmates, friends, colleagues, old lovers, old rivals, and secret love friends to drink. Then, you can use the wine to spy on your enemies and at the same time, haha, maybe you will also expose your hidden secrets. From then on, the secret love turned into "explicit robbery". C If you can't get him for the time being, change him. Get into his side, entangle with him as his colleague, friend and subordinate, eat, drink and have fun with him, and trick him into yearning for your life. As for love or not, what's the rush? D. Use your overtime time to socialize with other men. Choose the kind you don't hate, or the ones who like you, and make friends with them, that is