Lu You and Tang Wan are cousins and have been childhood friends since childhood. Lu you 19 years old, Tang Wan 14 years old. After marriage, husband and wife love each other. Take Qi Mei as an example. Green plums brew wine, gambling books and pouring tea. Because of Lu's eccentric personality, he thought that the relationship between husband and wife would delay his son's future, and because Tang Wan had no children after marriage, he forced his son Lu You to divorce his wife and remarry. "The Book of Rites" records that "a son is extremely suitable for a wife, and his parents are unhappy."
Lu You didn't give up Tang Wan, but his mother's life was hard to break. Tang Lu's happy marriage lasted only three years. Under the pressure of Lu's mother, Tang Wan divorced at the age of 65,438+06, Lu You remarried Wang and Tang Wan remarried.
Zhang Ruzhou and Zhao Shicheng, who are different from Li Qingzhao's remarriage, are frank and considerate to Tang Wan. Tang Wan, who regained happiness, was depressed because of an encounter with Lu You in Shenyuan, and finally died of illness, and finally lost his life because of a love story.
Lu You's Hairpin Phoenix was written in the spring after their husband and wife separated for ten years. Lu You was full of sadness. While playing alone in Shenyang Garden in Yin Shan (now Shaoxing, Zhejiang), she accidentally bumped into Tang Wan and her husband Zhao Shicheng. It occurred to him that Tang Wan used to be his beloved wife, but now she belongs to others, just like the willow tree in the Forbidden Palace. Thought of here, then sadness comes from it, hate comes from it, can't help but feel dejected and have to pull away.
Tang Wan was heartbroken to see him so sentimental. In order to comfort Lu You, she got her husband Zhao Shicheng's consent and gave him a glass of Huangteng wine (Shaoxing wine).
Lu You saw Tang Wan's move, and two lines of tears flowed down sadly, raising his head and drinking this cup of bitter wine. On the wall, I wrote this article "Chai Feng Red Crisp Hands":
This word not only expresses Lu You's attachment to his ex-wife, Tang Wan, but also expresses his helplessness and bitterness when his husband and wife separated and his wife remarried.
Lu You wrote the inscription and returned disappointed. Tang Wan saw this song "Hairpin Phoenix", and his heart ached, so he also sang another song "Hairpin Phoenix" with tears in his eyes:
After Tang Wan wrote this song "Hairpin Phoenix", he finally got over it. Soon, he ran out of oil and died in tears at the age of 28.
After Tang Wan's death, Lu You returned to his hometown in his later years and set foot in Shen Garden many times. However, he can no longer find the graceful figure of Youlong in the past. He wrote a tearful letter to Shen Yuan in memory of Tang Wan:
What is revealed between the lines is the deep-rooted acacia and attachment, the unbearable helplessness and disappointment, and the hatred and hatred of "I have gone, and the beauty is hard to come back"!
Until he was 85 years old, in the spring of the last year before Lu You died, he came to Shenyuan with the help of his children and grandchildren, leaving two four-character poems:
Ten years of life and death, nothing to think about, unforgettable For Lu You, forty years, every year is like yesterday, and every year is like yesterday, and every day I live in a trance dream of missing my old friend.
A moment of light separation, a half-life desolation.
This farewell means that there will be no future. The unfilled hole in life is just a wrong hand!
One wrong hand, spring is still old, and people go to the building empty and thin;
One wrong hand, although Meng Shan is there, it is difficult to believe in the brocade book;
One wrong hand, the rain hits the sick soul, swallowing tears and pretending to be happy;
When you make a mistake, you have nothing to say when you meet, and your tears flow first!
Now lovers are separated, heaven and man are separated forever, love is a thing of the past, and love words are hard to chase! Only when Long song is crying, how can he be embarrassed!
I want to write a poem, but the pen has not dropped and the words have not dried. I'm heartbroken. I want to cry first.
I have written my love for you as acacia and a poem with tears. Listen:
The world only knows the tragic love between Tang and Lu, lamenting the unfair fate, lamenting the evil Lu mother and lamenting the feudal etiquette that killed people. As we all know, Tang Wan's second husband, Zhao Shicheng, is also an open-minded spoony man.
Zhao Shicheng was originally a good friend of Lu You and admired Tang Wan for a long time. But Tang Wan married someone else's wife early, and this love can only end in a hurry, turn it into a blessing and be buried deep underground.
No, Lu You divorced his wife and married Wang. It seems that God gave Zhao Shicheng another chance to pursue love bravely, so he finally got up the courage and bravely confessed to Tang Wan. Zhao Shicheng is a very devoted person. He is a descendant of the royal family, a charming son, who resisted the gossip in the world and married Tang Wan in the name of his wife.
Since then, I have been a couple all my life, taking care of her wholeheartedly.
Although Tang Wan always remembers the old feelings and always misses her ex-husband Lu You, Zhao Shicheng is generous and doesn't care.
Everything, just because he has her in his heart.
He can tolerate everything for her!
Since Shen Yuan met Lu You again, Tang Wan has been very fragile. Zhao Shicheng took good care of her at home and looked for a famous doctor for her.
Helpless, Tang Wan always missed the previous situation, but finally she was depressed. It is said that Zhao Shicheng fought back her grief and buried Tang Wan deep underground, and held a wake for her for three years. After that, many ladies and Jasper came to propose marriage, but Zhao Shicheng politely refused and never remarried.
Three years after Zhao Shicheng's wake for Tang Wan, Zhao Shicheng resolutely joined the army and eventually died in battle. He died in his forties. Zhao Shicheng spent a miserable life in his marching career for more than ten years, without a second wife or descendants.
Emotional things are mysterious, but once they are in the bones, it is difficult to extricate themselves. Tang Wan is predestined friends with Lu You, while Zhao Shicheng has no chance with Tang Wan. The emotional entanglement of three people is beyond outsiders' understanding.
If you ask a married man, who will marry Han Dang?
Modern women probably don't choose to travel by land. There is a simple reason. Lu You said "love" can't be brave, and said "no love", but it was procrastinating and greasy.
You see, even Jia Baoyu, the second master of A Dream of Red Mansions, will bravely resist and fight for love in the face of his lifelong events.
Jia Baoyu: "My son dare not object to what my wife decided, but I can't live without my sister, and my sister can't live without me. I begged my wife to put us in the same room so that we could live together and be buried in the same grave in death. "
Lu You divorced his wife because his mother's life was hard to violate, and it was so easy to remarry. Now that he has divorced his wife, he remarried here, complaining that "the east wind is evil and the alliance is hard to believe", but he didn't know that it was his melodrama and hesitation that finally killed Tang Wan, whose life was as thin as paper.
As for the word "affectionate", Zhao Shicheng is more devoted than Lu You's infatuation. Lu You made a choice between loyalty and filial piety, leaving Tang Wan behind. However, Zhao Shicheng let bygones be bygones and cared for each other all his life! Born in the same dynasty and noble family, isn't there any pressure from public opinion in Zhao Shicheng and you are not afraid of your parents' lives?
However, loving someone will make him brave, desperate, dare to break through everything and protect her comprehensively!
Zhao Shicheng is such a man who dares to love and be responsible!
However, what is the reason for feeling?
Feelings are unreasonable!
Since ancient times, love is not long, and beauty is unlucky. Tang Wan was trapped and depressed after all.
For them, the past is a sad life for a hundred years, but for our descendants, it is precisely because of their sad and beautiful love story that such an eternal masterpiece as Hairpin Phoenix is left to our descendants to comment on.
In their life, this is unfortunate. For us, how lucky we are to see such a beautiful article! As Chen Yan, a poet in A Qing, commented in The Essence of Song Poetry: "There is no sorrow, and there is no poem without sorrow."
There are only two kinds of feelings in the world: one is mutual care; The other is to forget the Jianghu.
Leave a place, the scenery will no longer belong to you;
If you miss someone, that person has nothing to do with you.
If you love each other, cherish the person in front of you.
Because, some people, once turned around, are for life!
Image 1, 2: From Baidu
Figure 3: Listen to the rain in person.
Text: the sound of rain
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