first, your problem is that you read too few books and think too much.
most of the time, we are impetuous, restless and confused, which is undeniable. More often, it is because we think too much, do too little, have rich imagination and poor execution.
There is nothing wrong with thinking too much and doing too little, which really consumes people. If it is consumed for a long time, our whole spiritual world will be empty, and it is easy to lose our fighting spirit and viability unconsciously.
Therefore, a person's spiritual world is very important. If we want to keep our spiritual world from being empty, we must calm down and study.
Reading is the lowest investment cost and the fastest way to improve yourself in the world. You will feel relaxed and comfortable if you swim in the ocean of books.
Yang Jiang once said, "Although books can't help you solve all your problems, they can give you a better and more comprehensive perspective."
indeed, reading more books will naturally change our perspective. I am deeply convinced of this.
before this year, I didn't study, so I often lost my mind in the dead of night and didn't know where I was going. I am often troubled by some small things, and even walk into a dead end, so that I can't get out.
In contrast, this year, I am a different person. Now I am not confused, complaining or entangled. When things happen, they will change their minds, weigh and reflect.
And all this is brought to me by reading. It can be said that reading has completely changed me, changed my values and changed my perspective.
Teacher Bai Yansong once said, "You will encounter many troubles. Suffering will torment people, but if you read more books and read wisdom, you can always face all kinds of sudden sufferings properly and correctly."
think less and read more. Reading will give you a new perspective.
second, take the path you choose, and don't choose the path you take, so that you can have your true self.
In recent years, a popular saying on the Internet: "If the direction is wrong, efforts will be wasted" makes many people cautious in their choices, for fear of making a wrong choice, wasting years and wasting their youth.
I also remember a famous saying: In life, what matters is not where you stand, but where you are heading.
it can be seen how important the direction is to a person.
In this world, everyone is unique. What suits you is the best. Don't blindly follow, because what others can do, you may not be able to do it. What you can do may not be done by others.
Take the chosen road, don't choose the easy one, and don't choose comfort when it's time to toss. Don't choose easily, but once you choose, you must go on firmly. No matter whether there is high wind or heavy rain on the road, we must strive for our brave choice.
We often see others standing on the heights of life, and we are very envious. As everyone knows, the reason why they can stand on high places safely is because they have chosen a difficult but promising road, working silently in places we can't see, enduring silently and challenging silently.
It is said that one can enjoy much happiness only after suffering. If you really want to have the life you want and live your true self, you must suffer what ordinary people can't eat and pay as much as anyone else's efforts.
no matter what, you can meet a better and true self only if you work hard.
Third, if a person exercises in different degrees, he will get different degrees of self-cultivation and different degrees of benefits. Like spices, the more crushed they are, the finer they are ground, and the stronger their fragrance is.
life can only be sublimated through tempering. No one's life is smooth sailing, and a smooth sailing life is also flawed, because a life that has not been tempered is always lacking something.
A life of constant criticism and upgrading will help us understand how important exercise is for a person. It is an iterative upgrade for the mind and mentality.