Chen Xiangdong: Self-management and Self-management We are always talking about self-management and self-management in our life. In a sense, self-management and self-management are our lives, or life is self-management and self-management. People's "self" should be able to manage, and people should also learn to manage "self". We can't decide when the sun rises, but we can decide when to get up, which is to manage ourselves; We are the sunshine ourselves, and we are bright wherever we go, that is, self-management. Taking advantage of good weather to climb mountains and keep fit is to manage yourself; No matter how bad the weather is, enjoying sports is self-management. (1) In the face of adversity, setbacks and challenges, "self" means courage, and self-management means courage, courage, courage! Nine times out of ten, life is unsatisfactory, and the strength given by courage is often beyond imagination. This power can drop water and wear away stones, but the seas run dry and the rocks crumble. Just insist, just insist, believe! In the face of achievements, honors and praises, "self" is a state of mind, and self-management means having a good state of mind, being modest, being awed and grateful. Because of opportunities, help, endowments, efforts, encouragement and so on. These understandings have been made. Therefore, the determination to settle down and start over, the feelings of returning to nature and Do not forget your initiative mind, and the heroic spirit of loving life and embracing greater changes will all become powerful and meaningful annotations to life. Some people say that there are two realms in life, one is silent pain and the other is silent smile, which means different psychological states caused by individual self-management. People say that there are two tragedies in life, one is complacency and the other is despair. We are talking about different living conditions caused by different choices of individuals in managing themselves. "The winner is king, and the loser is kou." Those who win the queen bee lose the bee bandits. Some people say rude words, some people say that the world is cold, and some people say philosophical sayings. In fact, if we take the success of self-management as a metaphor and constantly break through ourselves, our ability to trust others will become "king"; Constantly losing ourselves, the ability to trust has become a bottleneck. We should live well, work hard and sleep well every day. These are all important aspects of self-management. If you sleep well, you can work well, and if you work well, you can live well. Let's declare war on "bad"! "Life is like a bullfight. Either conquer the bullfight or be stabbed to death by the bullfight. " Hemingway seems to be too harsh, but if you want to go far, you have to cross this hurdle. Self-management is behavior, self-management is habit, behavior becomes habit if it persists for a long time, character if it persists for a long time, and accomplishment if it persists for a long time. Good literacy means good temperament, good manners, good upbringing, good character, good habits and good behavior, and in the final analysis, good self-management! (2) Weeds grow in front of the temple all the year round. The old monk asked his disciples how to get rid of weeds. Some people say it was pulled out, some people say it was uprooted, some people say it was burned, and some people say it was destroyed with lime. But in any case, weeds will grow out in the second year. Disciples went out to study, and the old monk planted traffickers in this land. At the end of the year, the apprentice came back, and the old monk died, but the field was full of crops. Disciple Epiphany: To prevent weeds from growing, we should plant crops first. If the soul wants to be pure and beautiful, it must be "full of flowers"-upward faith and good values; If you want to enrich your mind, you must "work hard" in your mind-challenge yourself and grow up quickly; If the soul wants to be full of vitality, it must be "bathed in sunshine"-honesty and moral strength. Eliminate distractions, get rid of emptiness, be warm and lonely, melt impetuousness, make the mind quiet and beautiful, and increase wisdom ... In this way, the "self" will be purified, warmed and empowered, and self-management will be more relaxed and happy! Theseus is a hero in ancient Greek mythology. After he killed Minotaur, the Athenians held a memorial ceremony next to the boat crossing the sea in theseus every year. After many years, the rotten old boards of the aging ship were constantly replaced by new ones. In the end, all the wooden parts on board were replaced. People usually call it "the ship of Theseus". Philosopher Thomas Hobbes extended that if a new ship is rebuilt with old parts removed from Theseus' ship, which of the two ships is the real Theseus' ship? In fact, it is of little significance to discuss and demonstrate this topic in a pedantic way, but the ship of Theseus is also warning ourselves that if our "self" is not updated, replaced or optimized, then the "self" will rot and get lost, there will be no real "self" and our "ship of Theseus" will cease to exist. As a living body, human cells are metabolized all the time and updated every three months. Old cells die, new cells are born, and whole body cells are updated every seven years. In other words, physically, we are "reborn" every seven years. Many people will ask, are we still the same? What I want to say is that behind this philosophical question, what we have to think about is the renewal, replacement and optimization of our "self". We can seriously think and ask ourselves: the renewal of the weak and the strong must be different, the renewal of the sports people and the people who always sit in a daze must be different, and the renewal of the learners and the illiterate people will also be very different, and all this is actually closely related to self-management and self-management in the later period. (3) "Self" does not exist independently, but is closely related to the cognitive level and moral level of society. Self is sometimes "the devil of hell", which makes people evil, violent, indifferent, degenerate and cruel; Sometimes "angels in heaven" urge people to be kind, gentle, kind and friendly. Whether "ego" fights with each other or treats others well depends on many decisive factors of the times. (Sun, inspirational figure) So that people say that success is also an era, and failure is also an era. The "self" attribute of the times seems to depend largely on political power, but fundamentally speaking, it always depends on the real awakening of people's self-awareness. The "self" attribute of human beings depends to a great extent on the strength of elites, but fundamentally speaking, it always depends on the real enlightenment of public self-awareness. Universal values of today's society, such as equality, fairness, freedom, fraternity, sunshine, etc. It is a battlefield to promote self-improvement and goodness. In the past, the Athenians destroyed Melos, the Romans razed Carthage to the ground, the Mongols' Western Expedition and Crusades slaughtered countless nationalities, and the European religious war led to large-scale genocide ... bloody violence, genocide, whole-course massacre ... The past era, past values, past moral mainstream, past cognition ... The mobile Internet era promoted the first-time sharing of information, and the moral dilemma caused by moral laws made the times gather upward. At present, the opposition to racial discrimination has become the absolute mainstream, female discrimination has been banned, child abuse has been criticized, homosexual discrimination has been despised, the animal protection upsurge caused by bear gall incident and wolf wounding has risen sharply, and domestic violence has decreased significantly ... All these show that the motivation of "angels in heaven" in human self has prevailed, and human beings are increasingly disliked the pain caused by violence, and are increasingly obsessed with and pursuing the great love of harmonious achievements. This is a great era, but also an era that can produce miracles. This era will inevitably become the stage for each of us. Everyone is born with value. "Civet cats for princes" means that people have a unique existence significance. People's future value and time value are perfectly and positively related. The kinder you are to time, the more affinity you have to time value. The more time you invest, the more competitive your time value will be; The more you cherish the value of time, the more precious your time is. Time flies, some people's value goes to zero, and some people's value doubles ... If we really want to double the value, we must cherish this era, be grateful for this era, work hard in this era, and make great efforts in self-management and self-management. We should always remember: as long as we constantly break through ourselves, climb high and look far, rivers run across the sea, fools move mountains, and people look for him thousands of times, then there will inevitably be a miracle of "that man is in a dim light" in our time!