1, lack of communication and communication, hurting feelings.

For couples nowadays, there is little time alone together. They are busy with work during the day, and only sleeping at night is the time that really belongs to each other. But once they sleep in separate beds, even the only two-person world is gone. When they get home, they sleep separately, get up early and go to work separately. Every day, two people can't talk for three sentences, and there are any grievances and bumps in their hearts. There is no way to tell each other, and feelings will naturally fade after a long time. Couples who don't communicate with each other are like strangers living under the same roof, just sharing a room and nothing else.

2, lack of husband and wife life, harmful to the body.

For normal couples, a harmonious couple's life is the basis for maintaining a happy marriage. If you sleep in separate beds for a long time, you will become less and less interested in each other, and naturally you will not be interested in husband and wife life. Originally, a hug and a kiss can solve the problem, because sleeping in separate beds can't be solved in time, and it can only be kept in the heart, which can't meet each other's needs. After a long time, it will naturally get colder and colder. More importantly, two people in their prime are imprisoned by hormones circulating in their bodies and cannot be released. They live an old age without desire. No one can stand it. If they hold it for a long time, they will naturally find a way to solve it, and extramarital affairs will arise.

Sex without love, sex without love, sex without love, no matter which of these three marital States is not very good, two people who are deeply involved in marriage are only husband and wife in name only, and the marriage will collapse at the slightest sign.

Lack of mutual care hurts marriage.

Husband and wife should be the closest relationship, and they can give comfort and care to each other when they need it most. Once they sleep in separate beds, there will be less opportunities to meet each other, less intimate physical interaction, and the relationship will naturally be unfamiliar. When the other person is sad and crying, he can't wipe the tears for the other person in time; When the other side is sulking, it can't make the other side happy in time and become more and more indifferent to the other side. After a long time, they will naturally be chilling.

Among the friends I know, those couples who slept in separate beds for a long time ended up divorced. Therefore, sleeping in separate beds is the stupidest way. If there is a problem between husband and wife, never get back at each other by sleeping in separate beds!