I cannot dislike this man who says "all declining, sick, and corrupt cultures have a feminine flavor" and who has always been said to be a misogynist.

This is not only because he is one of the greatest philosophers in human history who said "What does not kill me makes me strong", but also because of his deliberate display of The hatred of women all comes from the love that is as dazzling as the sun but cannot be obtained. The name of this frustrated person in love is Friedrich Nietzsche.

"From which planet did we fall here together?" This was the first thing the 38-year-old Nietzsche said when he met the 21-year-old Salome.

These words are romantic, not like they were uttered by a man who has suffered from illness for many years and was wrapped up in loneliness to the end. However, Salomé’s unique temperament can make Nietzsche famous for a long time. The armor of guarding against emotions developed over time was instantly broken, "In a short breath, she can materialize my soul." No wonder Nietzsche, whose eyesight was extremely declining, said during the days when he was with Salome , "My eyes can actually see clearly."

Before meeting Salome, Nietzsche did not believe that there was anyone in the world with whom he could have a lifelong conversation, but the girl in front of him, who was 19 years younger than him, could understand his pride. He has profound theories and has his own unique insights based on his admiration for his theories.

Such interesting souls made Nietzsche, who had not experienced love for many years, feel hungry. He had always believed that "if couples do not live together, happy marriages will be more common" but he joined without hesitation. Salome longed for the cohabitation life: working together with like-minded friends in a quiet space filled with flowers, books on the floor, and shrouded in sunlight, next to their respective bedrooms for rest.

This intimate relationship without sex is as beautiful as a harmonized movie scene. The only thing that makes this sweetness slightly sour is that there is a third person in this unique space, Paul.

Perhaps Nietzsche is the third person who intrudes into this fantasy of love that escapes reality

Salome, the only daughter of a Russian nobleman, was the first person she met in distant Italy. The man was Nietzsche’s friend Paul Ray.

The reason why Nietzsche was able to meet this muse was because Paul wrote a letter inviting Nietzsche to come to Rome. After the three of them had their first conversation and walk in St. Peter's Church, Nietzsche once said to Paul: "She is simply amazing. Marry her and go home!"

Paul replied: "No, I can't marry her." She, I adhere to a pessimistic philosophy, and the secular life of having children disgusts me. Marry her yourself, she is the most suitable partner for you."

Nietzsche strongly objected: " Marriage? Absolutely! I may lie about anything, but this is absolutely impossible." But not long after, both of them broke their vows.

Nietzsche once said: "There are two kinds of love, one is slave love, and the other is sacred love. Slave love is committed and humble love-it is both idealization and

In Salome’s eyes, the love given by Nietzsche and Paul is this kind of slave love. They are willing to be her grooms and let Salome go. Waving the whip in the name of love

In Nietzsche’s eyes, his love for Salomé is “divine love” that “both despises and loves what it loves, and transforms it.” It also enhances what it loves. "But in the end, the only one who was transformed in this love was Nietzsche.

After Salome "despised" Nietzsche's love, she continued to grow in the love of others, but Nietzsche's philosophy was forever

Love and death have been paired since ancient times. When Salome rejected Nietzsche's proposal, it was like a farewell version of Nietzsche's life. The last bit of vitality died away, and he looked at the passion gone away and said: "I feel sad, not because you deceived me, but because I can no longer trust you. ”

True love will not fade over time, but will only be overcome by another emotion. The way Nietzsche chose to overcome this intensification of his crazy love was through hate. He could not bear to hate Salome, But his anger was directed at women of the same gender as Salome.

"Wouldn't it be better to fall into the hands of a murderer than to fall into a woman's dream?"

Nietzsche's narcissistic view: Perhaps I am the first psychologist of eternal women. They all liked me - except the unfortunate women, the "liberated women" who were infertile, a thing of the past. Salome, who is unwilling to accept her love, is this unfortunate woman.

"Do you know how to save a woman? Let her have a child." But Salome refused her own rescue.

In the end, Nietzsche could only comfort himself by saying: "If a perfect woman loves you, she will tear you apart. Fortunately, I don't want to let people tear me apart."

No, you are willing, you are willing to fall into the sweet and terrible trap of love, trapped forever, you are willing to be torn apart by the lovely and wild perfect woman, you are even willing to give up your loneliness, as long as Salome By your side.

But ideals and reality always run counter to each other. Salome became someone else's wife and was trapped in another person's love. And you, Nietzsche, the great philosopher, can only find out through the investigation. From the mouth of Latustra: "Love is the most dangerous thing for the lonely."