The butt determines the head. In some places, you can only eat when all the dishes are served. Generally, you start eating when there is an even number of dishes. The most common time is when 4 dishes are served.

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? Inviting leaders to dinner: reasonable invitation + ordering food + appropriate theme + catering + asking for advice + appropriate toast + fixed filling + detailed words + souvenirs + happy ending

Reasonable invitation:

Ordering food in place:

When ordering food, first give the menu to the leader and say: You please first. Most leaders say it’s okay, you order it, then you order it again. At this time, pay attention to 4 points:

It is better to make the number of dishes an even number. One fish, one chicken, one beef, one soup. It is advisable to serve 2-4 cold dishes, and stir-fry the rest, dividing the meat and vegetables equally. As for the amount of stir-fry, it depends on the number of people. Basically, the number of dishes on a table should be slightly more than the number of people.

Suitable topics:

Remember one thing when chatting with your boss: Don’t try to dominate the conversation! , the topic can refer to the ***Same Topic Principle of the previous lesson

Cater to:

Ask for advice:

Be careful of tricks. Leader, why do you always look at problems very comprehensively? Do you have any tips? The leader is willing to answer, and you can also find a reason to toast

Toast:

Divided into one leader and multiple leaders, details will be discussed in the next section

Fixed filling: < /p>

For example, treat the leader to a meal. This dish is good. For example, I ask you to eat more vegetables and drink more alcohol, which is bad for your stomach. For example, you should drink more yogurt, otherwise it will be bad for your stomach.

Words to deal with emergencies: For example, if the other person dislikes you for not filling the wine for him, you say adding more wine will bring blessings, and the years will increase and people will live longer; for example, if the other person dislikes you for filling him too much wine, you Speaking of leaders, if the cup is broken, it will bring blessings. If you don’t spread some blessings, how can we get your blessing? Leader, if the wine is poured, the flowers will blossom, wealth and glory will be achieved; if the cup is broken, you will break it and say peace and happiness. Always with you

Details:

Souvenirs:

Send some gifts, the most common ones are local specialty snacks.

It depends on the situation. In short, the other party accepts it. Whatever you give, you will be rewarded

A happy ending

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?Invite friends Eating: ordering food in place + toasting in a rhythm + chat topic + appropriate catering + leading the topic without being silent + detailed words + happy ending

Chat topic:

As long as friends are happy, it is used here Go to the tricks you have learned to quickly chat with others

Appropriate catering:

Appropriate, otherwise it will be ignored

Lead the topic without being silent - you are the leader It must be completed

In addition, there are some differences depending on whether the leader is present or not, so respond flexibly

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Reasonable request for ordering + careful words and deeds + appropriate catering + appropriate and suitable topics + asking for advice + appropriate toasts + fixed filling + detailed words + thank you for a happy ending

Reasonable Request to order food:

As banquet guests, we should not be too proactive when ordering and let the host order food.

Be cautious in words and deeds:

Cater appropriately. :

Same as above

Appropriate and suitable topic:

The boss invites you to dinner for a purpose, so you can express it appropriately

Thank you for a happy ending:

Reasonable request for ordering + appropriate theme + appropriate catering + asking for advice + appropriate toast + fixed filling + detailed words + thank you for a happy ending

Basically the above Routine, some parts may change according to the situation, slightly changed

Salutation + Toast preparation + Flexible combination of toast theme modules + Blessings for the future + Drinking guidance

Toast preparation:

Toast Flexible combination of theme modules: (***17 themes)

10-17. Quoting each other’s words, mood themes, famous quotes, fate themes, first themes (meeting, time, events), Praise theme (use the third person, such as Mr. Wang, I offer you a drink. I have always heard Mr. Zhang say that Mr. Wang is an expert in this field), question interaction,

When fellow villagers meet fellow countrymen, drink wine. Double; look up at the bright moon, drink double

Bless the future:

Drinking guidance:

Less

That’s how to drink less , not recommended

Take it easy

Take hangover medicine, eat something before drinking, drink more water while drinking, drink slowly, take a long time to go to the bathroom, vomit (dangerous)

More

Water to water, drink more water.

Used in special situations, you can't drink. When you ask others to drink, you also ask others to drink water. But as a punishment, you can say, it's my fault. I'll drink two glasses of water. You can do whatever you want. (Mr. Liu, I offer you a glass of wine. I have to apologize first. I have a cold today and I can’t drink. I offer you a toast. You definitely can’t drink. So you drink water. And I’m the one who discouraged you from drinking. So, you can do whatever you want. I Self-punishment (two glasses of water)