1. Acknowledge the shortcomings in real life and make up for them through your own efforts.

2. Choosing a friend is choosing a way of life. Cultivating one's own moral character is a prerequisite for making good friends, which is equivalent to opening up the friendliest world to oneself. Can make your life glorious.

3. If a person wants to be mediocre, there will be few obstacles; if a person wants to be outstanding, there will be many obstacles. Many mediocre people have harmonious relationships with those around them, while many outstanding people have tense relationships with those around them.

4. The happy state of life is not that human life is above all things, but that our hearts are connected and connected with all things in the world.

5. A person's life can be completely changed by his attitude. A person's innate character, acquired opportunities, and inherent values ??will ultimately determine his or her destiny.

6. A real hero is a person who can make the decision for his own heart.

7. Let it go when it’s time to let it go. When you tolerate others, you are actually leaving a vast ocean and sky for yourself.

8. Think more, think more, and see more; blame less, complain less, and regret less.

9. The more proud people are, the more they like to hide it; the more painful things are, the more they like to make a fuss about it.

11. We often say that fate is too objective and completely dependent on opportunity. In fact, what kind of values ??you have will determine your choice.

12. You feel psychologically unbalanced because the world is moving but you are not.

13. If your heart is open and kind, and you are frank and brave, then you may gain many unexpected things.

14. We often say today that life should take fewer detours. In fact, in a sense, there are no detours in life. If you had not walked that journey, how could you have reached where you are now? If you don't stand now, how can you look back and say it was a detour?

15. A successful career is not necessarily your ideal.

16. True freedom is unfettered.

17. This world is neither the world of the rich nor the world of the powerful. It is the world of the thoughtful.

18. From today's perspective, a person's development often does not depend on how lofty the ultimate ideal is, but on what kind of starting point there is in front of him. We often don’t lack grand ambitions, but lack the practical path accumulated step by step towards that ambition.

20. A person’s vision has two functions: one is to go outwards and expand the world infinitely broad; the other is to come inward and discover the heart infinitely profoundly.

21. Distance and independence are respects for personality and should also be maintained between the closest people.

22. There is a kind of person who only does two things: if you succeed, he will be jealous of you; if you fail, he will laugh at you.

23. The level of vision and realm can change a person's destiny.

24. We can avoid everyone, but we cannot avoid a fly. It's often the little things in life that make us unhappy.

25. Every path in life must be measured at your own pace. And in the process, let us discover ourselves and be confirmed.

26. We need a clear rationality. This rationality is a life-saving force in this noisy world. At the same time, we also need a joyful sensibility. This kind of perceptual heart can make us spring to life and fill everything we touch with joy.

27. People have the habit of judging good or bad based on their first impression. When they think a person is good, they will love him or her; when they think a person is bad, they will completely deny it.

28. If we have such a big vision, we will seize every opportunity in front of us.

29. Secular evaluation standards may not really be able to evaluate a person’s true quality. Only our hearts can give an accurate answer.

30. If you want to be someone who is willing to communicate with you and can communicate with you, the most important thing is that you must have an open mind.

31. The most appropriate distance is: not hurting each other and keeping warm.

32. Real wealth is a way of thinking, not a monthly income number.

33. When a person does things, he must know what etiquette and shame are, that is, he must have restraint on himself, have firm and uncompromising standards of life in his heart, and at the same time, he must be useful to society and do things for society.

34. Stupid man + stupid woman = marriage; stupid man + smart woman = divorce; smart man + stupid woman = extramarital affair; smart man + smart woman = romantic love. A complete collection of Yu Dan's classic sayings A complete collection of Yu Dan's classic sayings

1. Only by establishing your own inner value system can you turn stress into the tension of life

2. Always think about your lover, always If you can't afford your lover's nagging, you should be humble to your lover. A man should be the general manager.

3. The ideal way is to give us some resources to reserve spiritual happiness.

4. The more fierce the competition, the more you need to adjust your mentality and relationships with others.

5. Repaying grievances with honesty and repaying kindness with kindness advocates a kind of respect for efficiency and personality in life.

6. The more a person cares about, the more he or she feels inferior.

7. The word crisis, one means danger and the other means opportunity. Don’t give up any effort.

8. The prerequisite for a person's luck is actually his ability to change himself.

9. There is a kind of self-confidence and calmness under the control of rationality in his heart. This is because he has a broad mind and lofty ambitions.

10. When a person does things, he must know what etiquette and shame are, that is, he must have restraint on himself, have firm and uncompromising standards of life in his heart, and at the same time, he must be useful to society and do things for society.

11. Confusion is mostly due to a lack of broad vision. How can a frog in a well know what a vast world means?

12. The Analects of Confucius conveys an attitude, a simple and warm attitude towards life.

13. Real wealth is a way of thinking, not an income number.

14. Chinese philosophy advocates a kind of solemn rationality and gentle and honest beauty.

15. Learning should be increased, pride should be reduced, opportunities should be multiplied, and laziness should be eliminated.

16. Investing love in one person is risky; investing love in many people is dangerous.

17. In my opinion, a person's development often does not depend on how lofty the ultimate ideal is, but on what kind of starting point there is in front of him. We often don’t lack grand ambitions, but lack the practical path accumulated step by step towards that ambition.

18. Only those who are virtuous and benevolent can truly be brave in spirit.

19. Enemies become comrades mostly for survival, and comrades become enemies mostly for money.

20. It is easy for Chinese people to imitate Americans, but it is difficult for Chinese people to imitate Chinese people. Yu Dan's classic sayings

1. What a person shows off shows what he lacks in his heart.

2. The more a person cares about, the more he or she feels inferior.

3. People have the habit of judging good or bad based on their first impression. When they think a person is good, they will love the whole house. When they think a person is bad, they will deny it completely.

4. The more proud people are, the more they like to hide it; the more painful things are, the more they like to make a fuss about it.

5. This world is neither the world of the rich nor the world of the powerful. It is the world of the thoughtful.

6. Sometimes the killer of marriage is not affair, but time.

7. When you have nothing more to lose, that’s when you start to gain.

8. Learning should be increased, pride should be reduced, opportunities should be multiplied, and laziness should be eliminated.

9. The ignorance of childhood is lovely, the ignorance of youth is ridiculous; the ignorance of youth is pitiful; the ignorance of middle age is deplorable, and the ignorance of old age is sad.

10. People allow a stranger to prosper, but cannot tolerate the promotion of a person around them. Because there is a conflict of contrasting interests between people at the same level, but there is no such problem with strangers.

11. When a woman likes a man, she wants to hear lies; when a woman hates a man, she wants to hear the truth.

12. If you lend too much money to a person, you will make that person a bad person.

13. Modern marriage is the product of emotion and the crystallization of competition.

14. Enemies become comrades mostly for survival, and comrades become enemies mostly for money.

15. Gaining something is low-level happiness, while seeking something is high-level happiness.

16. A genius who fails is a fool!

17. 1% of people in the world take advantage of small losses, while 99% of people take advantage of small things and suffer big losses. Most successful people are from the 1%.

18. If people live by eating, then the food is not called rice, but feed.

19. It is easy for Chinese people to imitate Americans, but it is difficult for Chinese people to imitate Chinese people.

20. The prerequisite for a person's luck is actually his ability to change himself.

21. Human growth requires four aspects of education: parents, teachers, books, and society. Interestingly, the latter always seems to run counter to the first three.

22. Managing your strengths can increase the value of your life; managing your weaknesses can devalue your life.

23. Life is like a green leaf. As time goes by, it slowly turns yellow, but its veins are still clearly visible.

24. It is easy to make things complicated, but it is complicated to make things simple.

25. If you are a small grass, you will not be able to grow into a big tree even in the best company. If this is the case, it is better to go through the wind and rain and cultivate yourself into a precious flower.

26. The rule of work survival in the 21st century is: build a personal brand and turn your name into money.

27. Fear of father is filial piety, fear of wife is love.

28. There are no unqualified students, only unqualified parents.

29. The earth is in motion, and a person will not be in an unlucky position forever.

30. We can avoid everyone, but we cannot avoid a fly. It's often the little things in life that make us unhappy.

31. There is a kind of person who only does two things: if you succeed, he will be jealous of you; if you fail, he will laugh at you.

32. Stupid man + stupid woman = marriage; stupid man + smart woman = divorce; smart man + stupid woman = extramarital affair; smart man + smart woman = romantic love.

33. Any fool can seduce a girl; but knowing how to leave her can only be done by a mature man.

34. A person has two eyes, both of which are parallel, so he should see people equally; his two ears are on both sides, so he should not listen to one side of the story; although a person has only one heart, However, there are two hearts, left and right, so when doing things, you must not only think about yourself, but also think about others.

35. Enterprises must have unique resources that cannot be stolen, bought, dismantled, taken away, or slipped away.

36. A gaffe is to accidentally tell the truth.

37. Sincerity does not mean blaming other people’s shortcomings, but it does mean not complimenting others’ shortcomings.

38. Human nature is greed, but without greed society will not progress.

39. Falling in love is missing someone's heart, marriage is tying one's heart, and love is swallowing one's heart.

40. The best attack is to attack yourself.

41. The meaning of life is not to get a good hand, but to play a bad hand well.

42. Success is a concept, getting rich is an obligation, and happiness is a right.

43. Competition is actually a kind of friendship. You can improve your intelligence with the help of your opponents. Those who are afraid of competition have already lost to their opponents.

44. Money can help the poor solve problems, but it helps the rich create problems.

45. Investing love in one person is risky; investing love in many people is dangerous.

46. There are only people who can’t figure it out in the world, and there is no impossible road.

47. Real wealth is a way of thinking, not a monthly income number.

48. If a person wants to be mediocre, there will be few obstacles; if a person wants to be outstanding, there will be many obstacles. Many mediocre people have harmonious relationships with those around them, while many outstanding people have tense relationships with those around them.

49. Married men and women are all "overjoyed" and "looking forward to it".

50. Third-rate makeup is makeup for the face; second-rate makeup is spiritual makeup; first-rate makeup is makeup for life.

51. The two words "crisis", one means danger, and the other means opportunity. Don't give up any effort.

52. It is the hero who emerges, the talent who emerges, and the fool who emerges.

53. The "general" should consider his lover, "withstand" his lover's nagging, and "reason" should be humble to his lover. A man should be a "general manager".

54. When three people are walking together, there must be my teacher. Among the three swordsmen, one must be strong. In a love triangle, one must be injured.

55. A person's vision has two functions: one is to go outwards and expand the world infinitely broad; the other is to come inward and discover the heart infinitely profoundly.

56. Let it go when it’s time to let it go. When you tolerate others, you are actually leaving a vast ocean and sky for yourself.

57. Acknowledge the shortcomings in real life and make up for them through your own efforts.

58. In a sense, what a person has in his heart is what he sees.

59. Confusion is mostly due to a lack of broad vision. How can a frog in a well know what a vast world means?

60. With an optimistic and positive attitude, grasp the appropriateness of interaction with others, let yourself be a person who makes others happy, and let your happy heart become an energy source like sunshine to radiate others. Warm others, let family, friends and even the wider society gain a little reason to be happy from themselves.

61. "The Analects" conveys an attitude, a simple and warm attitude towards life.

62. "God is in heaven, holiness is in earth" is the personality ideal of the Chinese people: they have an idealistic sky where they can fly freely without compromising on many rules and obstacles in the real world; they also have a down-to-earth attitude. Ability to expand his behavior on this earth.

63. Chinese philosophy advocates a kind of solemn rationality and gentle and honest beauty.

64. True harmony is not just the harmony between neighbors in a community, nor is it just the harmony between people, it also includes the harmonious and happy growth of all things on the earth. ; People have a kind of reverence, a kind of compliance, and a kind of tacit understanding towards all things in nature.

65. A happy life in the material sense is just an indicator, but the true inner peace and recognition of the government come from faith.

66. Only a truly sage can not be burdened by material life and can always maintain the tranquility and peace of mind.

67. The more fierce the competition, the more you need to adjust your mentality and relationships with others.

68. If you are more tolerant, you will actually leave yourself a vast ocean and sky.

69. Caring for others is kindness; understanding others is wisdom.

70. The most important person in this world is the person you need help right now. The most important thing is to do it right away. The most important time is now, and there can be no delay at all.

71. Each of us will inevitably have shortcomings and dissatisfaction in our lives. Maybe we are unable to change this fact, but what we can change is our attitude towards these things. Treat the shortcomings and sufferings in life with a peaceful attitude.

72. If you cry because you miss the sun, you will also miss the stars.

73. The benevolent do not worry, the wise do not be confused, the brave do not fear, inner strength can resolve many regrets in life.

74. To be mentally strong, one prerequisite is to underestimate the gains and losses of things outside yourself.

75. There is a kind of self-confidence and calmness under the control of rationality in his heart. This is because he has a broad mind and lofty ambitions.

76. In fact, it is like having a half bottle of wine in front of us. The pessimists say: Why is there only half a bottle of such good wine left? Optimists say: There is still half a bottle of such good wine!

77. If your heart is open and kind, and you are frank and brave, then you may gain many unexpected things.

78. If you want to be someone who is willing and able to communicate with you, the most important thing is that you have an open mind.

79. Repaying grievances with honesty and repaying kindness with kindness advocates a kind of respect for efficiency and personality in life.

80. If you always follow the king (leader) no matter what, even though it means you are close, you are not far away from incurring humiliation; if you always follow your friends no matter what, even though it looks like Close, but not far away from the two of you.

81. Respect everyone in an equal and rational manner, leaving a little margin and room for each other. The flowers are not fully blooming and the moon is not full. This is the best state in the world. Once the flowers are in full bloom, they will soon wither. Once the moon is full, it will soon be missing. Although it is not fully opened or fully rounded, it still makes your heart have expectations and longings.

82. How to plan your political affairs, first of all, the principles of doing things, you must pay attention to morality, and secondly, the way of doing things, you should talk less and do more; be cautious, that is, be careful when you speak, and don’t say that you can’t do it. thing.

83. Think more, listen more, read more, be cautious in your words and deeds. The advantage of doing this is that you will have less regrets. Before we do something, we must first think about the consequences. When we do things, we must first think from afar and be cautious and cautious in order to avoid harm to others and reduce our own regrets later. Use your brain when speaking and consider the consequences when doing things. This is a very important point in dealing with people.

84. "Cultivate yourself to be respectful" cultivate yourself well and maintain a serious and respectful attitude. "Cultivate yourself to make others happy". On the premise of cultivating yourself well, try to make others happy. "Self-cultivation" is the first prerequisite for being responsible to the country and society. "Be worried about the world's worries first, and be happy after the world's happiness." This is a belief, a sentiment, and a social responsibility, but the premise is simple and starts from the feet. Cultivating yourself and cultivating yourself is the starting point.

85. With an optimistic and positive attitude, grasp the appropriateness of interaction with others, let yourself be a person who makes others happy, and let your happy heart become an energy source like sunshine to radiate and warm others. others.

86. If a person has no "worry", "confusion" and "fear" in his heart, he will naturally reduce his complaints and accusations against the outside world, and also enhance his ability to grasp happiness. It is the ultimate purpose of learning.

87. A villain is a person who does not have a big vision and seizes the small advantages in front of him.

88. To build a harmonious society is to harmoniously integrate the different voices of each person into the collective voice. True harmony is a kind of tolerance and integration of others on the premise of insisting on different voices and different viewpoints.

89. The power of a gentleman is always the power of action, not the power of words.

90. We should make friends with people who can improve our moral character, improve our self-cultivation, and enrich your connotation.

Make friends who are happy, able to enjoy life, and happy in poverty.

91. The real happiness in life is the happiness of the soul, which sometimes does not necessarily have a close connection with the external material life. The power of true happiness comes from the richness of the soul, from a kind of education, from the longing for ideals, and also from discussions and exchanges with good friends.

92. Every adult has his own glory and hidden pain in life. A true good friend should not touch his hidden pain easily.

93. When people are young, they live by addition, but when they reach a certain level, they must learn to live by subtraction. If your mind is filled with gains, you will eventually become tired of them.

94. Choosing a friend is choosing a way of life. Cultivating one's own moral character is a prerequisite for making good friends, which is equivalent to opening up the friendliest world to oneself. Can make your life glorious.

95. A person’s ambition is very important and determines the development direction of his life.

96. From today's perspective, a person's development often does not depend on how lofty the ultimate ideal is, but on what kind of starting point there is in front of him. We often don’t lack grand ambitions, but lack the practical path accumulated step by step towards that ambition.

97. A successful career is not necessarily your ideal.

98. When a person does things, he must know what etiquette and shame are, that is, he must restrain himself, have firm and uncompromising standards of life in his heart, and at the same time, he must be useful to society and do things for society.

99. The ideal way is to give us some resources to reserve spiritual happiness.

100. Learn to integrate limited knowledge into your own life. Learn, think, and apply at the same time.

101. Standing at thirty, this word "standing" is first of all inner standing, and then finding one's position on the social coordinates. Turning thirty is about building spiritual self-confidence. Turning thirty does not measure your success by an external social coordinate, but by an inner spiritual standard to determine whether your life has a clear introspection, and you can calmly and leisurely start to do what you do. There is a sense of confidence and determination.

102. The more material things there are, the easier it is for people to be confused.

103. Growth is the gradual strengthening of the heart through experience. The so-called return of life is to turn external things into inner strength

104. Knowing destiny means having a certain inner mind. To cope with the outside world

105. Only by establishing your own inner value system can you turn pressure into the tension of life

106. “Where does a person’s self-confidence come from? It comes from the heart "Calm and calm"; "People who worry about gains and losses will not have an open mind, a calm state of mind, nor true bravery"; "A person who has restraints in his heart will make fewer mistakes in his behavior." ; "Being able to reflect on one's own mistakes and have the courage to correct them is the true bravery advocated by Confucianists."

107. Our eyes see too much of the outside world and too little of the soul.

108. Bravery is sometimes a kind of calmness and confidence under the constraints of rationality.

109. Only those who are virtuous and benevolent can truly be brave in spirit.

110. The pride of a gentleman is his inner character. Yu Dan's classic sentences

1. A person's vision has two functions: one is to go outwards and expand the world infinitely broad; the other is to come inward and discover the heart infinitely profoundly.

2. There is a garden hidden in everyone's heart, but it is blocked by an invisible door. If you really push the door open, although it may be a squeaky door. , you haven’t been here for a long time, but as long as you open a crack and take a look, you will see many things that you have never noticed before, many things that really fit your heart, and many things that belong to dreams.

3. Many people do not lack the desire to love, but we really lack the ability to love. Ability is about details, ability is about process, and ability is actually about a person's values. When we have to care about gains and losses and the final result even in love, we have really lost our affectionate instinct.

4. Dreams may not be a productive force in reality and cannot bring material results. What they bring us is an excavation of our own souls. Today we are not only far away from a classical era, but more importantly, we have lost a feeling of compassion and a calm dreaming state of mind.

5. Everyone holds their own stories. Many people think that they are aliens hidden in the crowd. We have similar smiles, are gentle and talk to each other. We have our own professions and I dress up, but how many people really know their thoughts?

6. Desolation is a complex feeling of life. It is both tragic and tragic. It is high-spirited and inspiring; desolation is helpless and has a profound aftertaste. Desolation can evoke a kind of endless excitement in our hearts, because it expresses a kind of helplessness deep in fate.