Confucius once said: "At the beginning of life, human nature is good and similar, far from learning from each other." In other words, human nature is good. People's temperament is similar, but because of different environments and different habits, the distance between people is widened. It can be seen that forming a good habit can benefit us for life. Students, please remember what the famous Russian educator ushinski said: "You have a good habit, but you can't enjoy it all your life;" You have a bad habit and you will never be able to pay off its debts. "
Therefore, the power of habit is enormous, but habit can also be changed. Changing habits will definitely feel awkward at first. You will get used to it after 20 times, and the new habit will be fixed after 90 times. Therefore, new habits are all about persistence. Please try to get used to listening to the class in the right posture, review it in time after class, review the wrong questions after the exercise class, complete all the homework, and finally become an excellent person.
Some students may think: I don't have excellent cells, how can I make Excellence a habit? In fact, everyone has advantages as well as disadvantages and limitations. The problem is that if you always stare at your own shortcomings and feel that you can't do this and that, then you really can't do anything. On the other hand, if you can focus on your own advantages and are willing to work hard to carry them forward, I believe everything will be completely new. If you change your mind, the world will change. You can try if you don't believe me.
Sometimes, ideas can really change a person's fate. Why do you say that? People's thoughts dominate people's behavior. Constantly strengthen behavior and gradually form habits. Once a habit is formed, it will affect people's character. And character determines a person's fate. So if you want to change the status quo, Then the first thing to change is your mind. Napoleon, an outstanding French strategist, famously said, "A soldier who doesn't want to be a marshal is not a good soldier." Similarly, students who don't want to go to the podium are not good students. Students, if you really want to get on the podium instead of just thinking about it, you can really do it. Don't always complain that God is unfair to you. Imagine, if you were a pearl, how could you be buried in the sand? The reason why you haven't been found is because you are just a grain of sand. Take time to turn yourself into a pearl, don't just envy other people's good luck. You know, opportunities are always given to those who are prepared.
Change begins today, and change begins with yourself. With the growth of age, people's spirit gradually declines, and they refuse to raise their hands in class for fear of losing face if they answer wrong. In fact, this idea is wrong. People grow up by constantly making mistakes and correcting them. If you always don't raise your hand, it's equivalent to giving up the opportunity to grow in vain. Students who speak actively have more opportunities to exercise themselves and become better and better, while you are shrinking and widening the distance. Some students may say, but the teacher may not call me if I raise my hand. Yes, there are too many students in the class. If you raise your hand, it may not be your turn. 100 A classmate raised his hand once, but the teacher didn't ask you to answer the question. I hurt my self-esteem and refused to raise my hand again. It's like you spent two yuan on a lottery ticket, hoping to win the first prize. It's not impossible, it can be said to be whimsical. Just because I didn't call you this time doesn't mean I won't call you later. You insist on thinking seriously and speaking actively, and I believe the opportunity will take care of you. You must persevere in everything you do, and you can gain something by perseverance.
Of course, in this process, the process of changing yourself is painful, so teach you a way: then "pretend"! We should constantly "pretend". If you pretend for a long time, it will become true and become a habit. You can pretend to see it. If you pretend for 30 years, I think it will last you a lifetime.
Do you like listening to stories? Tell you a little story, okay? Once, a salesman sold balloons in the streets of new york. When business is a little bad, he will fly a balloon. When the balloon floats in the air, it will gather a group of new customers, and his business will be good for a while. Every time he flies a balloon, it changes color, first white, then red, then yellow. After a while, a little black boy pulled his sleeve, looked at him and asked an interesting question: "Sir, if you put a black balloon, will it rise?" The balloon seller looked at the children and said in a sympathetic, intelligent and understanding tone, "Children, it is what is in the balloon that makes them fly." What's in the balloon makes them rise. Similarly, it is what is inside us that makes us progress. The key is yourself. You have the right to decide your own destiny! Finally, a word for you: If Excellence becomes a habit, then your life will be different!