Be generous, learn to be tolerant, be low-key in doing things, and learn how to behave in the world.

1. Be low-key in posture

Cultivate yourself in a low-key manner: Being low-key whether in official circles, shopping malls or political and military struggles is a way to advance and attack, retreat and defend. , seems plain, but is actually a profound strategy for life.

Humility is always present in the world: Humility is a kind of wisdom and a golden rule for dealing with people. People who understand humility will surely be respected by people and admired by the world.

To be as wise as a fool is actually the art of keeping a low profile: "To be as wise as a fool" is to focus on the word "ruo". "Ruo" has designed huge illusions and scams, covering up the true ambition, desire for power, talent, Reputation, emotion. This kind of low-key life style of being willing to be stupid and weak is actually a concealment of calculation. It encourages people not to strive for the first place, not to reveal the truth, and to live their lives clearly.

Be gentle and leave room for others: "There is a way and a law, and there are rules for doing." Being a human being is no exception. Treating people and affairs with a peaceful attitude is also in line with objective requirements, because being a low-key person is the first step towards success. The key to the door.

When the time is not ripe, you must hold on: no one is a sage, no one can get rid of the seven emotions and six desires, and cannot do without daily necessities. Even if you escape into Buddhism and "jump out of the three realms and are not in the five elements", you still have to "jump out of the three realms and not be in the five elements". It is so good for monks to be lenient! "Don't leave your mouth. Therefore, if you want to achieve a great cause, you must clearly understand the priorities, big and small, the things that should be given up, the things that should be tolerated, and the long-term thinking, so as to realize your ideals, achieve great things, and create great causes.

When you are not rich, you must know how to make concessions: keeping a low profile is often a useful trick to win the support of your opponents, and eventually become stronger, extend your power, and in turn make your opponents surrender.

Waiting for the opportunity in "foolishness": If you are wise and stupid, you can not only pretend to be inactive and smart, but also act nonchalantly, pretending to be noncommittal, not expressing your attitude, and then wait for the opportunity to express your opinions. Tell the difference at once and catch your opponent off guard. However, the key to being wise or foolish is to have a strategy in mind to deal with the opponent. "Confused" is often used to confuse the other party's ears and eyes. It is better to do something and show inaction than to show action by doing nothing. If you are originally confused and pretend to be smart, this will be self-defeating.

It is demeanor to take the initiative to suffer losses: at any time, feelings cannot be trampled on. If you take the initiative to suffer losses, things will not change. Maybe there will be opportunities for cooperation in the future and we will come together again.

If a person is unwilling to suffer losses everywhere, he will always want to take advantage. As a result, delusions will grow and arrogance will grow. And once a person becomes arrogant, he will inevitably infringe on the interests of others, and then disputes will arise. How can one be invincible when surrounded by enemies?

Applauding your opponent is a kind of wisdom: virtue, wisdom, and cultivation are the capital of our life. Applauding your opponent is a strategy. If you can lower your profile and applaud your opponent, you will definitely succeed in your life and work.

Redeem the faults of others with a tolerant heart: take a step back and the sky will be brighter, and endure the calm for a while. There is nothing wrong with blaming others for their faults, but being able to tolerate others with a broad mind will make the world a more wonderful place.

2. Keep a low-key mentality

To become successful, you must maintain a normal mind: doing things in a high-profile manner is a kind of responsibility, a kind of courage, a style of excellence, and a kind of persistent pursuit. Spirit. Even the small and monotonous things you do must represent your highest level, reflect your best style, and improve your quality and ability in doing things.

Don’t be arrogant: when you achieve something, you should thank others, share with others, and be humble. This will give others reassurance.

If you are used to being arrogant and looking down on others, then one day you will suffer the consequences! Please remember: being arrogant is a taboo in life.

Tolerating people's faults will reveal their true qualities: being generous, wise and low-key is sometimes more helpful in solving problems than being cold and aloof. Treating others' minor transgressions with generosity is actually a low-key attitude towards life. This attitude will make people unforgettable and grateful for life.

Being a person should be mellow and understanding, not sharp-edged: success and fame require a humble attitude, consciously being a bystander in the vanity fair, and opening up a broad mind.

Those who are content will always be happy: If you can lower some standards in life, take a step back and think about it, you will be content and happy. People should realize that they are inherently lacking in everything, and this is the greatest wealth.

Don’t take yourself too seriously: Don’t take yourself too seriously, so that you won’t be complacent and can continue to enrich and improve yourself and create a perfect life.

Humility is a virtue that will benefit you throughout your life: a person who understands humility is a person who truly knows how to accumulate strength. Humility can avoid giving others the impression of being too arrogant. Such an impression can just make an employee successful in life and life. Continuously accumulate experience and abilities at work, and finally achieve success.

Indifferent to fame and fortune, selfless dedication: Those with a bold personality must be open-minded, those with boundless ambitions must have agitated thoughts, and those with agitated thoughts must easily offend the world and the so-called authority. Therefore, society requires that those who achieve great things can hold back, do things in a high-profile manner, and behave in a low-key manner.

3. Be low-key in behavior

Hiding yourself secretly is wisdom: if you promote yourself too much, you will withstand more wind and rain, and the exposed rafters will naturally It must rot first. In society, if a person is too showy or show off at the wrong time, no matter how good he is, he will inevitably be attacked openly and secretly.

Those who are in the early years are prone to rot: there are often people who boast proudly and like to be flattered by others when they are slightly famous. Sooner or later, these people will suffer. Therefore, when you are in a passive situation, you must learn to hide your edge, pretend to be naive, and never turn yourself into a target for the opponent.

Don’t be arrogant when you are talented, and don’t be arrogant when taking credit: The arrogant Nian Gengyao met a sad end because of his ignorance in life. Therefore, be talented but not arrogant, take credit but not be arrogant. It is the foundation of being a human being.

Being famous, it is difficult to live up to it: when you are actively seeking to reach your peak, you might as well think about the life attitude advocated by Yan Zhitui, try to understand the taste of contentment, and capture the essence of the golden mean. , Only by slightly balancing the pace of life will you not easily fall into the trap of an overly extreme life.

Don’t be too shrewd in life: be low-key, don’t play tricks, and keep yourself in a calm state. Only with a "low-key" mentality and hard work can you accomplish great things.

Extreme happiness leads to sadness: In the process of life's ups and downs, joys and sorrows, and the ups and downs of joy, anger, sorrow, and happiness, people should choose the position that suits them appropriately at any time and at any time, and the starting point should not be too high. As Mencius said: "If you can be an official, you can be an official; if you can stop, you can stop; if you can be long, you can be long; if you can be fast, be fast."

Being a man must know how to be humble: Humility can overcome arrogance and create a good atmosphere. interpersonal relationships, because people respect those who are humble and never those who are vain and boastful.

Only by avoiding the limelight can you walk a good path in life: Lao Tzu believes that "a strong soldier will be destroyed, a strong tree will be broken", and "those who have strong beams will not die". Lao Tzu's strategic thinking of being independent from the world profoundly embodies the inner laws of movement of things. It has been proved by countless facts and has become a widely circulated philosophical saying.

Being low-key can turn things around: be low-key when dealing with others. When you are at a disadvantage or in danger, you might as well take a step back. By doing so, you can not only avoid the sharp edges and get out of trouble, but also You can also find another way to regain the initiative.

If you want to do things first, you must first be a human being: If you want to do things first, you must first be a human being. Only when you are a good person can you do things. You should be low-key and humble in life, and be high-key and confident in doing things. When things are done well, your level of being a low-key person will reach a new level.

Retire after success, the way of heaven: A person who knows how to retire after success is aware of current affairs. He knows when to protect himself and when to achieve success for others, and faces life with a smile on his face with a refined manner.

4. Be low-key in your words

Don’t expose others’ scars: Don’t make fun of your friends’ shortcomings. Don't make fun of the other person's shortcomings and reveal their scars just because you know the other person well.

That would hurt the other person's personality and dignity, and defeat the original intention of joking.

Speak in a lower tone: When receiving praise and congratulations from others, you should be humble, courteous, and open-minded. Only in this way can you show your gentlemanly demeanor, downplay others' jealousy of you, and maintain harmonious and good interpersonal relationships.

Don’t hurt others’ self-esteem when you speak: speak in a measured way and don’t hurt others. Courtesy is not cowardice in interpersonal relationships, but reducing unnecessary attacks to zero.

Be proud but don’t get carried away: When you are proud, you should talk less and be more humble, so that you can win the respect of your friends.

Trouble comes from your mouth, there is no need to cause trouble yourself: If you want to maintain a happy working mood in the office and have a harmonious relationship with your boss, then pay more attention to your words and deeds.

Supervisors are more willing to hire people who are low-key in attitude and down-to-earth in work. If you're lucky, you may be unexpectedly assigned an important task by your boss.

Don’t be quick to speak quickly: think twice before you speak, and think twice before speaking. Only by making sure you won’t hurt others before speaking out can you stick to your words. Only then can you be respected and recognized by others.

Those who utter arrogant words are bound to be in trouble: Is it because of the birth of materialistic civilization? There are people in various professions in society who frequently utter arrogant words.

There is no room for ridicule or ridicule: words are the voice of the heart, language is controlled by thoughts, and reflects a person's character. It is immoral to be irresponsible, talk nonsense, spread rumors, spread rumors, etc.

Don’t always blame the original unit: job-hopping is a flow of talent, which is a normal phenomenon in today’s society. It is not surprising, and job-changers can often find a suitable position for themselves in the new team. Create better results. If you haven't reached this step yet and you rush to use your "talking skills" to improve your popularity and status in the new team by belittling the old team, then you are making a big mistake!

Don’t speak too openly: don’t think that others will be grateful if you tell the truth. We must know that we can never act haphazardly and without scruples. It is a mature way of dealing with the world to consider other people's feelings before speaking.

Silence is golden: Silence does not mean that everyone will never speak. You should still say it when you need to say it. Just like a person with the Buddha's level, he can still talk to others and teach Buddhism. Moderate language itself is also a kind of silence.