——Written to every lonely traveler
Walking alone is a spiritual seclusion, and true freedom and ease comes from inner peace.
1. Walking towards the future alone
The wisdom of life - calmness is true
Since people come to the world like ants, they are born and die suddenly. Gathering and dispersing, in just a few decades, we can be comfortable when we should be comfortable, and be cool when we should be cool. Each of us can complete a period of his own life. This is the whole meaning of survival.
The sound of the spinning wheel reminds me of my mother. The mother still waved her hand, but suddenly she showed her hand. It turned out to be a Chinese textbook. She said fondly: "My child, if you can live a good life, you must pick up your studies..."
My elementary school , recalling the teacher. The teacher corrected a lot of typos for me and said: "When you write compositions in senior grades or when you grow up, you should write in this way. Don't let any format trap you. Write whatever you want and whatever you are familiar with." Just write clearly and be specific." I have remembered the teacher's words since then. The reason why I can still write some novels and essays now is because the teacher's words at that time had a great influence on me.
Three years at Western University. He was a country boy who had never gone to high school. His inferiority in knowledge made him fear everyone. He sat quietly in a corner of the reading room, knocked on the teacher's door with one finger, and listened silently to the lectures of his classmates. ... He has no intention of becoming a writer in the future. He just reads all the books and takes notes after reading them without saying anything.
Drinking, criticism encountered by writers. My work caused controversy in newspapers and periodicals. Controversy is a normal thing, but in a complex society, it has abnormal views. It soon developed into some noisy things other than the work. My father said: "...I saw the newspaper article in the newspaper column on the street the day before yesterday. I don't think it is a big deal. You are so successful. Without a few setbacks, you won't have much potential. Of course, we won’t look for trouble if nothing happens, but don’t be afraid of what others say. Life is just a matter of moments, how can you keep walking on a smooth road? p>
Towards the future alone. Many people say they are lonely, but those who say they are lonely are not actually lonely. Loneliness is not about being neglected and abandoned, but about being selfless and not being understood. A truly lonely person never talks about being lonely, but occasionally roars, like the beast we saw. ...If you no longer stand out, you will be ordinary. If you continue to walk and walk, and finally make it impossible for living beings to catch up, then living beings will cheer and worship you and respect you as sacred. Holiness is true solitude.
Good reading. If you want to study well, you have to suffer from poverty. If you want to study well, don't be an official. If you want to study well, you may not have a good body. ... There are many disadvantages of being a good student, and of course there are more disadvantages. For example, a good student is not a good husband, a good student is not popular, and a good student has a weird temperament. However, those who can study well must be good at reading, such as being able to understand the vastness of the world, being able to understand the difficulties of life, having self-awareness, being able to anticipate, not being sad for suffering, being happy when not being favored, not being lonely when you are lonely, and being alone. You are never alone, so you should give up the desire for power, abandon glitz, be free and optimistic, and be self-respecting, self-respecting, self-reliant, self-reliant, not humble, not afraid, not vulgar, not flattering in the hustle and bustle of the world.
2. Look at the world silently
Compassion in the world - forgiveness is blessing
It is wrong to be serious about things in the world, and it is even wrong not to be serious; it is wrong to be persistent , it is not right to regard everything as empty. It is normal and natural, such as going up a mountain to worship Buddha and kowtowing when you see a Buddha statue. After kowtowing, the Buddha statue will still be a Buddha statue, and you will be less tired in your life.
Look at people. Looking at the scenery of people on the street is like reading a book of history or philosophy. From now on, when you do things, your mind will not be so narrow-minded when looking at problems, your vision will not be so short-sighted, and you will not engage in intrigues for petty gains. We will not be arrogant and depressed because of temporary honor and disgrace. Since people come to the world like ants, they are born and die, gathered and separated. In just a few decades, they can be comfortable when they should be, and be cool when they should be, and each of them will be perfect. A life of your own, that's what survival is all about.
Talk about dressing up. Once dressing becomes a social fashion and becomes fashionable, it will inevitably lose its purity. There is a famous saying in the past: The easiest things to dress up are history and little girls. What now? The unlearned dress up more like the learned, the unlearned dress up more like the artist, the drama is more realistic than life, and lies are more popular than the truth. When everything is just dressing up and no real face is shown, the most beautiful way to dress up is not to dress up.
3. Take a walk alone
The soul of the earth - respectful and fearless
People in Wuwei Alley have low wages and high expenses. To support the elderly and raise children, two dollars worth one dollar is spent.
4. The tranquility of being alone
The feelings of all things - happiness and forgetting worries
Playing a kite is a kind of catharsis that cannot achieve physical and mental freedom; Playing with cats is a kind of comfort for loneliness, playing with flowers is a kind of replenishment of worship of sex due to old age and weak strength. By filling my study with these toys, I aim to create a cheerful environment that makes me less tacky and more inspired.
Ugly stone. Just because it is not an ordinary hard stone, of course it cannot be used to make walls or steps, or to carve or beat cloth. It does not make such gadgets, so it is often ridiculed by the world.
...I feel shameful about myself, and also feel the greatness of Ugly Stone; I even resent it for enduring all this silently for so many years? And I immediately deeply felt the greatness of its unyielding existence of misunderstanding and loneliness.
5. The Zen of freedom
The Zen of the sky - walking in the sky and the earth
When the sun and the moon alternate for one year, the tree will grow in a circle. Life originates from one point and moves along a linear path. Countless circles have completed the end of life, and what is left behind is useful materials.
Swallow. (My memories: When I was a child, I could see many birds. Swallows were the most common ones and often built nests under the eaves. I was also very curious and once killed a swallow with a slingshot. In fact, I wanted to catch one. Raise it yourself. But when you see a life lying motionless on the ground, you realize your mistake. 2017.11.14)
But record the happy and unhappy things in life to increase the happiness of life. thickness. For example, yesterday my daughter imitated the piggy and made the whole family laugh. The more we laughed, the happier she hummed. In the afternoon, I met someone who was doing something. She was very angry and scolded everyone she saw. No matter how you tried to explain her, she wouldn't listen. She was scolded from beginning to end. But I just faced it with a smile. Getting angry for no reason is a sign of ignorance. Get inspiration and insights from life, record every touching moment in life, and extend the depth of life. 2017.11.13
I have read too many books, but the principles in each book are basically the same, and I don’t want to work hard to recite them; I have seen too much, and I don’t deliberately understand them. I just let nature take its course, regardless of age or beauty. Ugly, respect the same; if you eat too much, it doesn't matter what you eat. When mixed with Sanqian wine, everything has the same taste. Just follow your heart, write when you want, don't write if you don't want to; people have to leave sooner or later anyway, and can only establish weak connections with this world. How important is fame, fortune and wealth? Just let nature take its course and do your best and your duty. 2020.6.25 I have always wanted to learn from the author's method, carry a small stool to sit down in a crowded place, quietly observe the passing crowds, experience it personally, and feel my own voice, but unfortunately it has never been implemented. I have always insisted on doing what I like regardless of everything. I am afraid of being like others, because then I will not be myself, and there is no need to exist or not.