All living beings, no one's life is smooth sailing, and there will be setbacks, big and small, on the road of life. It is these setbacks, big and small, that compose an ordinary and beautiful song of life.
Numerous historical facts and social practices have proved that setbacks are almost accompanied by the whole process of human life. It is like a naughty ghost lurking in the journey of life, which inadvertently stumbles you, causing you to fall into a gray circle of life, feeling anxious, even depressed and helpless.
In the face of setbacks, people who strive for self-improvement will eventually know that this is a stumbling block that must be removed on the road of life, and then they can realize the happiness of overcoming difficulties and surpassing themselves. Ostrovsky put it well: "A person's life is like a flood. It is difficult to stir up beautiful waves without encountering islands and dark coke." If we bravely attack in the face of setbacks, then life will be a colorful world. Just like Balzac's metaphor: "Frustration is like a stone, which is a stumbling block for the weak and makes you stop, but it is a stepping stone for the strong and will make you stand higher."
In the face of setbacks, we should not be afraid, but should untie the past, face the reality, be carefree and create the future with our hearts. From setbacks, we understand that life is hard-won, so we cherish every harvest. Napoleon once said that the most difficult time is the day not far from success. Success has been honed many times, so we should cherish it. When encountering setbacks, as long as you believe in yourself, you will have the courage to meet challenges and will not shrink back in the face of difficulties and setbacks. Learning to face setbacks is also a gift of life, because people really rise up after setbacks.
2. Writing on the topic of frustration encounters setbacks and laughs at pain.
It's not easy to live alone all your life. The seemingly smooth journey of life is full of thorns, which often makes people miserable. Pain is to people what wind is to shacks, waves are to boats, and tongue is to the heart. Endless vicissitudes of life, I do not know how many narrow-minded people have been devastated by setbacks and magnified the pain; The world has lived for thousands of years, and I don't know how many weak-willed people are depressed because of setbacks and pains. I don't know how many cowardly people died in the abyss of perdition because of setbacks ... In the face of setbacks, don't magnify the pain, but face life squarely and reduce the pain until the day of success.
"Old age is also strong, it is better to move the heart of the white head; If you are poor, you will think about it, and you will not lose your ambition. " Wang Bo, one of the four outstanding figures in the early Tang Dynasty, can be described as "unlucky, his life is at stake". However, in the face of setbacks, he was able to master life and laugh at it. Imagine, without Wang Bo's broad mind, how could he sing the eternal swan song "However, China keeps our friendship and heaven is still our neighbor"?
Li Bai, the romantic poet, was silent after his career was not smooth? Are you depressed? No "Chang 'an went to a restaurant to sleep" laughed off the pain, left in the face of setbacks and traveled all over the famous mountains and rivers, finally achieving his eternal romantic feelings!
From this point of view, in the face of setbacks, we should not be too addicted to the shadow of pain and setbacks; In the face of setbacks, don't immerse yourself in the quagmire of sadness and pain all day; In the face of setbacks, don't be decadent for a long time and lose your immediate direction. It is a wise choice to meet setbacks and reduce pain. On the contrary, if you indulge in the pain of setbacks blindly, the result will be unimaginable.
Faced with the frustration of losing his second brother, Liu Bei couldn't let go of his brother's feelings and magnified his own pain. As a result, he made a wrong decision in pain and rushed to send troops to attack Wu, which led to the eternal tragedy of "the white emperor entrusted the orphan." Pathetic! Pathetic!
The ancients set too many examples for us and left too many regrets. In today's increasingly competitive society, setbacks are everywhere. If you magnify the pain because of a temporary setback, you will regret it all your life. When you encounter setbacks, treat it as a breeze and let it blow gently from your ear; When you encounter setbacks, treat them as insignificant small waves, and don't let them set off stormy waves in your heart; When encountering setbacks, treat pain as a dust in your eyes. Blink your eyes and shed a tear, which is enough to drown it.
When encountering setbacks, don't magnify the pain. Wipe the sweat from your forehead, wipe the tears from your eyes and move on! I believe that one day you will see the blue sky, white clouds, green grass and the sweet smile hanging on your mouth. ...
3. Writing frustration and success with frustration as the theme
Success is everyone's luck, but not everyone can succeed. Success is not that cobblestones on the roadside can be picked up casually, nor that grass in the field can be found casually. If you want to succeed, you have a long way to go, and there are many setbacks during this period.
Regarding setbacks, Balzac, a great French writer, said, "Setbacks are priceless to the capable and bottomless for the weak." The strong will be more frustrated and brave in the face of setbacks, and the weak will stumble in the face of setbacks. Tan Qian of Ming Dynasty in China spent 27 years writing the first draft of Guo Que in 5 million words, but it was stolen by greedy people. He endured this heavy blow, and spent ten years at his desk, rewriting the second draft of "The Lack of the Country". After three years of supplementary revision, it was finalized. It can be said that Tan Qian devoted his life to writing this book, and he had no regrets. If Tan Qian never recovered after the first draft was stolen, it was not successful after 13. Sima Qian wrote in the book "Bao Ren An": "The ancient people were rich, but their names were lost, which is indescribable. Only charismatic people say nothing. King Gavin was arrested and acted in Zhouyi; Zhong You wrote Spring and Autumn Annals; Qu Yuan's exile is a tribute to Li Sao. Zuo Qiu is blind and has "Mandarin"; The satiety and revision of Sun Tzu's Art of War: ... "From this perspective, aren't those" charismatic people "brave and frustrated in the face of setbacks?
Hua, a famous mathematician, once said: "There is no smooth road to science, and there are countless reefs and shoals in the long river of truth. Only herb gatherers who are not afraid of climbing can climb the peak and find the fairy grass; Only those who are not afraid of waves can go deep into the water and find a beautiful pearl. " Every truth in science has been obtained through numerous setbacks and failures. We should face up to setbacks and treat them correctly. Only in this way can setbacks become a ladder for us to succeed.
Different attitudes towards setbacks will lead to different results. The same is lovelorn, and Japanese Prime Minister Shimizu Kawasaki fell; On the other hand, Goethe wrote the young Werther. The weak dare not face setbacks, for fear of failure after repeated efforts, so they are trapped in the pain of failure. In fact, frustration is not equal to failure. The real failure is that you lose confidence and belief in success.
Setbacks can be overcome, and setbacks breed success, provided that you have firm beliefs and the spirit of going forward. Satisfy these conditions, setbacks will be trampled under your feet, and tomorrow is the time to clear the clouds.
4. Write a composition on the topic of facing setbacks. It is said that frustration is a mountain that can never be turned over on the road of growth, because when you cross a mountain, there will be another mountain ahead. Say cowardice: setbacks are thorns on the road to growth, which will hurt people all over. Say depression: frustration is dizziness after being knocked down, which makes people lose confidence and direction. Standing on the tail of childhood, looking at the unknown road ahead. Dante came up to me and said, "Go your own way and let others talk. No matter how many setbacks others say you have on your way to growth, you should go on bravely. Only setbacks will make you grow. " Zhang Haidi, who had a high amputation, said to me, "Even if setbacks make you fall down a hundred times, you should stand up a hundred times. Only setbacks can make you strong. " Beethoven, who was deaf in both ears, said, "In the face of setbacks, you should hold the fate by the throat. Setbacks will make you confident. " Xu Teli said, "Growth without any setbacks is a myth. Setbacks are inevitable in the process of growth. " Standing on the youthful boulevard and looking at the road ahead, I seem to have a little confidence. At this time, I seemed to see Hawking, who was sick all over the body, tapping the keyboard with two fingers that could only move, making an academic report. In the face of setbacks, he chose to be strong; I seem to see Helen Keller, who is blind and deaf, trying to learn a language. In the face of setbacks, she chose to persist. I seem to see Sun Bin, whose kneecap was gouged out, sitting in a chariot and commanding the battle. In the face of setbacks, he chose to bear the burden of humiliation; I seem to see poor Hong Zhanhui with his little sister. In the face of setbacks, he chose to struggle; I seem to have seen Zhang Haidi and Beethoven ... great men can become great men because they often experience setbacks that ordinary people have never experienced. Only by overcoming setbacks can they achieve more outstanding achievements than ordinary people. The flowers in the greenhouse can never stand the snowstorm in the wild, and only the tall and straight pine and cypress can be evergreen all the year round. Standing at the crossroads of youth, I thought about it and chose the most difficult road. Don't run away from setbacks, only setbacks can make them last. Strong said: frustration is a mountain. If you climb up, you can see the sea of success. Say bravely: frustration is a thorn. If you have the courage to split it, a wider road will appear in front of you. Victory says: frustration is a rock in the sea. If you are not satisfied, you will never be able to inspire the waves of success. Growth needs setbacks.
5. It is best to write a composition on the topic of difficulty, with no more than 500 words and no less than 400 words. For difficulties, the strong see them as a ladder to success, while the weak see them as a trap with no way out. Once upon a time, in a forest, a lion was chasing two weak deer. The two deer ran away desperately and accidentally fell into a trap dug by the hunter. The lion stood by the trap and roared. Walking around anxiously. Two deer in a trap really don't know whether to be happy or sad. The lion threw the soil into the trap with its powerful claws. The two deer were very afraid, and the soil fell on them bit by bit, making their breathing more and more difficult. One deer couldn't stand it any longer and fell to the ground, while the other deer shook off the soil thrown by the lion and picked it up with its hoof. Standing on it, I rise bit by bit. Another deer buried in the soil is dying. With the last pile of soil left by the lion, the deer jumped out of the trap and fled quickly, while the other deer became a good meal for the lion. A deer is praised, and a deer is laughed at when facing difficulties. People praised the deer for its courage and strength. In the face of difficulties, people often have two ways to go: one is to believe that they can overcome difficulties and make unremitting efforts to win; The other is to give up on yourself, always thinking that you are a loser, so you choose to give up. What is waiting for them at the end of the two roads? Of course, one is the rainbow after the storm, and the other is the abyss of pain … wake up, people in confusion! Build up self-confidence, fight against difficulties through your unremitting efforts, and win your victory with the help of difficulties, because the so-called difficulties are actually the ladder to success, depending on how you treat them.