But what we often ignore is the difference in thinking. The rich can make more profits because their thinking is more sensitive to resources and opportunities, but the poor are trapped in their own thinking traps and can't get out.

One or three typical thinking defects of the poor

1. Laziness

Laziness is the most common and deadly of all bad ideas.

Lazy people always try their best to do nothing and never want to work hard. Love and dislike of work are their greatest characteristics. What they want to do most is to do nothing.

Lazy people can really live comfortably and enjoy themselves, but this comfort and enjoyment can only be temporary. In the end, all they can get is mental pain and material deprivation. They are not lucky at all. Because of success, wealth and the value of life are destined to have nothing to do with idlers, while idlers are destined to have something to do with poverty.

Believe in your life, not yourself.

Most poor people believe in fate. They are pessimistic fatalists. They believe that poverty is fate. The more painful life is, the less successful it is, and the more they feel that everything is arranged by God, rather than trying to change it. So it will only get poorer and poorer, and it will be doomed to nothing.

But we don't deny the power of fate. You can even play with others in applause. Sometimes, even if you work hard, you have no choice but to bow to fate. But the crux of the matter is, if you don't give up this enthusiasm and try to change, but follow the trend, what's the point of your life?

One third of the sky is doomed. At seven o'clock, we must work hard, and our destiny can be changed by our own efforts. In other words, efforts can fail or succeed, and efforts are bound to fail. In this case, we will know how to choose.

3. Timid and cowardly

The weak can never be rich. The courage of the poor is not all, but an important, necessary and even major factor. If the poor want to become rich, they must have courage.

For the poor, cowardice makes you unable to face any challenges, makes you afraid of competition, faces the future, just wants to escape, just wants to get yourself into trouble, and life is too frustrating. After a long time, it will affect your health and even be eliminated.

Besides, timid people often dare not take risks. If they are afraid of taking risks, they won't get much benefit. In fact, no risk is the biggest risk. No risk.

Second, the three coup to improve thinking defects

If we realize that there are more or less problems in the thinking of the poor and want to change ourselves, there are three ways to improve their thinking defects.

1. Clean up the "garbage" in existing materials, and gradually establish a consumption concept based on high quality and low price.

Since we have the concept of precious time, we should properly discard the existing "garbage", which will waste a lot of time. As the saying goes, "the longer the poor stay in trouble, the poorer they become." When we throw away these unnecessary things, we must feel at ease.

At the same time, in order to avoid piling up "garbage" again, the next time you want to waste it impulsively, ask yourself, do I really need this thing? Under what circumstances can I use this thing in the future? Is it possible that another baby is pressing the bottom of the box, but she can't bear to throw it away?

2. Reduce the expenditure that consumes willpower, and let yourself have a sense of accomplishment and interest in March.

Many people think that failure is due to weak willpower, and successful people are particularly good at persistence.

In fact, they are better at finding pleasure in what others need to insist on.

If you don't have a good foundation, but you want to learn English, get up early to exercise, improve your study and work ability, and improve your interpersonal relationship (spend some time with close people), then you'd better not ask yourself. Both methods may frustrate your will.

3. Develop a "goal-oriented" way of thinking and pay attention to broaden your horizons.

Relatively speaking, the poor are more willing to let their children learn mathematics and physics, and more willing to study engineering, because engineering is easy to find a job. On the contrary, rich people prefer to let their children learn, while philosophy, history and art are useless nowadays because they can "stimulate interest and imagination".

So the children of the poor choose jobs they don't like and engage in jobs they don't like. Their creativity is greatly reduced and they lack the motivation for long-term development, while the children of the rich always think about their own interests. Not only is there motivation and fun, but it is also easy to get results.

Google once famously said: "The time utilization rule is 7/2/ 1", which means that the company requires excellent employees to divide their time into 10, of which 7 are used for current core business, 2 are used for core related business, and the remaining 10% is used for doing new things that seem insignificant but have an impact on the future.

Third, what are the reasons for the poor, which makes it difficult to get rich?

First of all, let's look at multiple-choice questions.

There is a promotion in the mall, and these two clothes are on sale. One of them was originally from 500 yuan, and now it is in 200 yuan. Original price 300 yuan, now 200 yuan.

Which one would you buy if it were you?

Close your eyes and think about your answer.

If there must be a certain standard answer, there is actually no correct measure. This problem mainly depends on people thinking from different angles.

Many people will think that the first discount is cheaper.

In addition, if the discount promotion is stronger (for example, it is as cheap as 150 yuan), people will feel more likely to "make money" and thus have the impulse to buy.

But rich people will choose other clothes because they will ignore those discounts.

This is because the core logic of rich people's thinking will never be "uneconomical", but "whether it is needed".

It is also the biggest difference between the rich and the poor.

Because the poor have no money, they have to consider the cost, so they have to live within their means and choose cheap things.

Rich people are relatively not short of money, so when considering problems, they will consider more from the perspective of accumulating experience and increasing income, that is, whether I like it or not, so that I can make a decision.

This difference in thinking will accumulate over time. Poor people's homes are full of things that look cheap but useless, or things that are cheap but of poor quality.

Poor people not only spend a lot of time and energy to discover what they can use, but also spend more money and time to replace inferior products frequently.

Rich people buy things that they like, can be used or add value. After a while, they didn't like it. No matter how it is handled, the process is pleasant and it is a real "income".

This phenomenon is summarized as "peep effect" in the best-selling book Scarcity: poverty makes us only pay attention to the resources themselves, and goals and experiences are more important than owning resources.

Therefore, this difference in thinking is not in the way of doing things, but in the mode and field of thinking!

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So we should always remember this,

The poor lost their way from the beginning. If you lose your way in your mind again, you will lose the same idea before it is over.