People spend their entire lives floating between highs and lows. Only mediocre people live like stagnant water. ——Fu Lei

People who have not experienced sharp pain will not have deep and broad sympathy. ——Fu Lei's "Fu Lei's Family Letter"

Everyone's life is ups and downs in high tides and low tides. Only mediocre people can live like stagnant water; or they must have extremely high cultivation to achieve no results. Real relief. As long as the highs don't make you nervous and the lows don't make you decadent, that's fine. If the sun is too strong, it will scorch the grains; if the rain is too strong, it will drown the crops. We just want to be mentally balanced so as not to get hurt? Slowly you will develop a different mood to deal with the past; that is, you can think about it without being shocked, and you can analyze the causes and consequences from an objective standpoint for future reference. To avoid repeating the same mistakes. ——Fu Lei's "Fu Lei Family Letter"

The greatness of motherhood lies not in reason, but in that kind of intuitive emotion. ——Fu Lei's "Fu Lei's Family Letter"

Only when a person dares to face reality and mistakes, use rational analysis, and thoroughly comprehend, can he not be eroded by memories. ——Fu Lei's "Fu Lei's Family Letter"

Try to ignore success or failure as much as possible, just do your best and have a clear conscience. ——Fu Lei's "Fu Lei Family Letter"

Not getting carried away by victory is the best evidence of strength. ——Fu Lei's "Fu Lei's Family Letter"

Children, terrible enemies are not necessarily ferocious-looking. Kind-faced and passionate friendships can sometimes waste a lot of your precious time. ——Fu Lei's "Fu Lei Family Letters"

"People are always ups and downs in high tides and low tides. Only mediocre people live like stagnant water." It’s fine if you’re decadent” - Fu Lei’s “Fu Lei’s Family Letter”

“You should pay more attention in the future: when you insist on the truth, you must pay attention to the way, attitude, tone, and tone of your speech. The more reasons you have, the more attitude you have. The more easy-going. Adhering to the truth is a difficult struggle and an educational task; it requires good methods, methods, and patience. Don't get angry or misunderstand. Even if you are reasonable, you should also forgive others. Be humble and open-minded! ——Fu Lei's "Fu Lei's Family Letter"

Only if a person dares to face reality, face mistakes, use rational analysis, and thoroughly comprehend, will he not be eroded by memories? We should look at these things as the ashes of the soul. Of course, when I read it, I couldn't help but feel something - Fu Lei's "Fu Lei Family Letter"

Be patient, and everyone will encounter times of depression from time to time, but they will pass soon. ——Fu Lei's "Fu Lei Family Letter"

The real light is never a time of darkness, but it is never obscured by darkness. A real hero is never one who never has humble sentiments, but one who never succumbs to humble sentiments. Therefore, before you can defeat external enemies, you must first defeat your inner enemies. You don’t have to be afraid of sinking and falling, as long as you can constantly extricate yourself and renew yourself. ——Fu Lei "John Christophe - Translator's Preface"

Everyone has shortcomings, including both men and women in love. The problem is not to find a partner with no flaws, but to find a partner who can recognize and admit their flaws, be willing to gradually change them, and tolerate each other at the same time. ——Fu Lei's "The Young Generation"

The most powerful argument in the world is practical action, and the most effective education is leading by example; never ask others for things you cannot do yourself; you must make the same mistakes yourself. Criticize yourself first before making mistakes, and correct your own mistakes first.

——Fu Lei