1. Be low-key in posture

Cultivate yourself in a low-key manner. Keeping a low profile, whether in officialdom, business, or in political and military struggles, is a strategy that can be used to advance and attack, and to retreat and defend. It may seem ordinary, but in fact it is a profound strategy in life. People who behave humbly will always be there. Humility is a kind of wisdom and a golden rule of conduct. People who understand humility will be respected by people and admired by the world. Great wisdom is like foolishness, but it is actually the art of keeping a low profile. "Great wisdom is like foolishness", the emphasis is on the word "ruo", "ruo" has designed huge illusions and scams, covering up the true ambition, desire for power, talent, prestige, and feelings. This kind of low-key life style of being willing to be stupid and weak is actually a concealment of calculation. It encourages people not to strive for the first place, not to reveal the truth, and to live their lives clearly. Treat others peacefully and leave room for others. "The way follows the law, and the behavior follows the rules." Being a human being is no exception. Treating people and doing things with a peaceful attitude is also in line with objective requirements, because being a low-key person is the key to stepping into the door of success. When the time is not right, hold on. No one is a sage, and no one can get rid of the seven emotions and six desires, and cannot live without daily necessities. Even if he escapes into Buddhism and "jumps out of the three realms and is no longer among the five elements", he must still say "monk-like people should be tolerant. How good! How good!" Therefore, if you want to achieve a great cause, you must clearly understand the priorities, big and small, the things that should be given up, the things that should be tolerated, and the long-term thinking, so as to realize your ideals, achieve great things, and create great causes. When you are not very hairy, you must know how to give in. Keeping a low profile is often a useful trick to win the support of your opponents, eventually becoming stronger, extending your power, and in turn making your opponents succumb. Waiting for the opportunity in "foolishness". If you are as wise as you are stupid, you can not only act as if you are doing nothing, but you can also act as if nothing has happened, pretending to be noncommittal, not expressing your attitude, and then wait for the opportunity to tell your own advantages all at once, catching your opponent off guard. However, the key to being wise or foolish is to have a strategy in mind to deal with the opponent. "Confused" is often used to confuse the other party's ears and eyes. It is better to do something and show inaction than to show action by doing nothing. If you are originally confused and pretend to be smart, this will be self-defeating. Taking the initiative to suffer losses is demeanor. At any time, love cannot be trampled upon. If you take the initiative to suffer losses, the mountains and rivers will not turn around. Maybe there will be opportunities for cooperation in the future and we will come together again. If a person is unwilling to suffer losses everywhere, he will always want to take advantage. As a result, delusions will grow day by day and arrogance will grow day by day. And once a person becomes arrogant, he will inevitably infringe on the interests of others, and then disputes will arise. How can he be invincible when he is surrounded by enemies on all sides? Applauding your opponent is a form of wisdom. Virtue, wisdom, and cultivation are the capital of our life. Applauding your opponent is a strategy. If you can lower your profile and applaud your opponent, you will definitely succeed in your life and work. Be tolerant of others' mistakes. Take a step back and endure the calm for a while. There is nothing wrong with blaming others for their faults, but being able to tolerate others with a broad mind will make the world a more wonderful place.

2. Keep a low-key mentality

When you are successful, you must maintain a normal mind. Doing things with a high profile is a kind of responsibility, a kind of courage, a style of striving for excellence, and a spirit of persistent pursuit. Even the small and monotonous things you do must represent your highest level, reflect your best style, and improve your quality and ability in doing things. Don't be arrogant because of your talents. When you achieve something, you have to thank others, share it with others, and be humble. This just gives others reassurance. If you are used to relying on your talents and looking down on others, then one day you will get the results all to yourself! Please remember: being arrogant is a taboo in life.

Don’t take yourself too seriously. Don't take yourself too seriously, so that you won't become complacent and you can constantly enrich and improve yourself and create a perfect life. Humility is a lifelong virtue. A person who understands humility is a person who truly knows how to accumulate strength. Humility can avoid giving others an impression of being too arrogant. Such an impression can enable an employee to continuously accumulate experience and abilities in life and work, and finally achieve success. Indifferent to fame and fortune, selfless dedication. Those with a bold personality must be open-minded, those with boundless ambitions must have agitated thoughts, and those with agitated thoughts must easily offend the world and the so-called authority. Therefore, society requires that those who achieve great things can hold back, do things in a high-profile manner, and behave in a low-key manner. Be tolerant towards your subordinates. As a boss, you should be tolerant. Since you have assigned tasks to your subordinates, you must fully trust your subordinates and give them the opportunity to display their talents. Only in this way can you make the best use of your talents. Simplicity is the foundation of a low-key life. Living a simple and low-key life will not only help you cultivate your own moral character, but also win praise from everyone above and below you.

3. Be low-key in behavior

Hiding something secretly is wisdom. If you promote yourself too much, you will withstand more wind and rain, and the exposed rafters will naturally rot first. In society, if a person is overly public and show off at an inappropriate time, no matter how good he is, he will inevitably be attacked openly and secretly. The rafters in their early stages are prone to rot. There are often people who boast proudly and like to be flattered by others when they are slightly famous. Sooner or later, these people will suffer. Therefore, when you are in a passive situation, you must learn to hide your edge, pretend to be naive, and never turn yourself into a target for the opponent.

Don’t be arrogant when you are talented, and don’t be arrogant when you take credit.

The arrogant Nian Gengyao met a sad end because of his ignorance in life. Therefore, being big but not arrogant, taking credit but not being arrogant are the fundamentals of being a human being. It’s hard to live up to its reputation. When you are actively seeking to reach your peak, you may wish to think about the life attitude advocated by Yan Zhitui, try to understand the taste of contentment, capture the essence of the golden mean, and slightly balance the pace of life, so that you will not easily fall into an overly extreme life. In the trap. You can't be too shrewd in life. Live a low-key life, don't play tricks, and keep yourself in a calm state. Only by being driven by a "low-key" mentality and working hard can you accomplish great things. The joy cannot be extreme, and the extreme joy brings sorrow. In the process of life's ups and downs, joys and sorrows, people should choose the position that suits them appropriately at any time and at any time, and the starting point should not be too high. As Mencius said: "If you can be an official, you can be an official; if you can stop, you can stop; if you can be long, you can be long; if you can be fast, be fast." To be a man, you must know how to be humble. Humility can overcome arrogance and create good interpersonal relationships, because people respect those who are humble, not those who love vanity and boast. Only by avoiding the limelight can you walk a good path in life. Lao Tzu believes that "a strong army will be destroyed, a strong tree will be broken", and "he who strengthens the beams will not die". Lao Tzu's strategic thinking of being independent from the world profoundly embodies the inner laws of movement of things. It has been proved by countless facts and has become a widely circulated philosophical saying.

If you keep a low profile, you will be able to turn around. You should keep a low profile when dealing with others. When you are at a disadvantage or in danger, you might as well take a step back. Doing so will not only avoid the sharp edge and get out of trouble, but also find another way to regain the initiative.

If you want to do things first, you must first be a human being. Only when you are a good person can you do things. You should be low-key and humble in life, and be high-key and confident in doing things. When things are done well, your level of being a low-key person will reach a new level. Retreat after success is the way of heaven. A person who knows how to retire after success is aware of current affairs. He knows when to protect himself and when to achieve success for others. He faces life with a smile and an elegant manner.

4. Be low-key in your words

Be proud but don’t get carried away. When you are proud, you should talk less and be more humble, so that you can win the respect of your friends.

Trouble comes from the mouth, there is no need to cause trouble yourself. If you want to maintain a comfortable working mood in the office and maintain a harmonious relationship with your boss, pay more attention to your words and deeds. Bosses are more willing to hire people who are low-key in appearance and down-to-earth in work. If you're lucky, you may be unexpectedly assigned an important task by your boss. Don't be quick with your words. Think twice before doing anything, and speaking is no exception. You must also think before you speak, and make sure you will not hurt others before speaking. Only then will you be able to stick to your words, and only then will you be respected and recognized by others. Those who speak arrogant words will be in trouble. Is it because of the birth of materialistic civilization? There are people in various professions in society who frequently speak out nonsense. There is no room for ridicule or ridicule. Words are the voice of the heart, language is controlled by thoughts and reflects a person's character. It is immoral to be irresponsible, talk nonsense, spread rumors, spread rumors, etc. Don't always blame the original unit. Job-hopping is a flow of talent, which is a very normal phenomenon in today's society. It is not surprising. Job-hopping people can often find a suitable position in a new team and create better performance. If you haven't reached this step yet and you rush to use your "talking skills" to improve your popularity and status in the new team by belittling the old team, then you are making a big mistake! Don't speak too openly. Don't think that others will be grateful if you tell the truth. We must know that we can never act haphazardly and without scruples. It is a mature way of dealing with the world to consider other people's feelings before speaking. Silence is golden. Silence does not mean that we should never speak. We should still speak when we should speak. Just like a person with the Buddha's level, he can still talk to others and teach Buddhism. Moderate language itself is also a kind of silence.

5. Be high-profile in your ambitions

Set high aspirations and create a brilliant life. When you are still unknown and not taken seriously by others, you might as well try to temporarily lower your material goals, financial interests or career ambitions, and do ordinary things like an ordinary person. In this way, your vision will be broader, and you may find a lot of meaning. Unexpected opportunities. You must have the determination to burn through the water. There is nothing that can't be done in the world, only people who can't do it. A person who truly wants to achieve something in his career has high aspirations and does not care about temporary successes and obstacles, nor is he troubled by temporary success or failure. In the face of setbacks, he will definitely work hard to realize his ideals. , Achievements, this is a positive attitude towards life. Only through perseverance can you become a legend. Be brave in innovation, dare to take risks, boldly enterprising, and not be afraid of difficulties. Once you are determined to do something, you must persevere to the end. If you want to achieve your goals, you will never succeed without perseverance.

Dreams create success. Dreams create a successful life, and as long as you work hard, your dreams can come true. On the contrary, a life without even a dream is pale. If you are content with the status quo, afraid of difficulties, and unwilling to make progress, it is difficult for such people to prosper one day. Courage creates brilliance. It is always wiser to move forward than to wait for death. There is no secret to success, it is to try, change, and try again until you succeed. Some people succeed simply because they have made more mistakes and suffered more failures than we do.

Pursue ideals and never give up. There are many things in life that can be easily achieved, but there are many things in life that require long-term persistence to succeed. Without the process of persistence, you will never reach the other side of your ideal.