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Li Kaifu: There has always been a common problem in Chinese society, which is that everyone is expected to develop according to a model, and one yuan is also used to measure a person's success.

Since you are asking the person for arguments, I won’t give you a sample essay and I will give you the arguments directly

1. Mainly about being indifferent to fame and fortune

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Indifferent

Being indifferent to fame and fortune is the lofty state of being a human being. Without the mind to embrace the universe and the vision to see through the world, it is extremely difficult to do so.

Only by being indifferent to fame and fortune can you become a great person and climb to the top! In today's world of material desires, fame and fortune, those with ambitions should remain indifferent and move towards their set goals!

(2) Factual arguments

Guan Linzheng resigned and lived in seclusion

Guan Linzheng was a first-year student of Huangbo Military Academy and had held important positions in the Kuomintang army. After a long period of war and official ups and downs, he gradually saw through the official life of competing for fame and wealth in the first half of his life. In the autumn of 1949, he resigned as commander-in-chief of the army and withdrew from the Kuomintang military circles. He refused to accept the order to fly to Taiwan with Chiang Kai-shek and lived in seclusion in Hong Kong. . From then on, he did not participate in any political gatherings and social activities, did not receive any interviews from reporters, severed all ties with the party, government and military, and enjoyed reading and writing all day long. During this period, Chiang Kai-shek and Chiang Ching-kuo invited him to serve in Taiwan several times and promised high-ranking officials and generous salaries, but he politely declined. From the age of 44 to his death at the age of 85, he lived an indifferent and reclusive life.

Qian Zhongshu has been indifferent to fame and fortune all his life

Qian Zhongshu, a contemporary great scholar, has been indifferent to fame and fortune all his life and is willing to be lonely. He declined interviews from all news media. The reporter of CCTV's "Son of the East" column tried every possible means to break through Qian Zhongshu's defense. In the end, he regretfully announced to the national audience: Mr. Qian Zhongshu resolutely refused to accept interviews. We only Can respect his opinion.

In the 1980s, the famous Princeton University in the United States specially invited Qian Zhongshu to give lectures. Qian Zhongshu only had to give lectures for 40 minutes a week, 12 times a day, and the remuneration was US$160,000. All meals and accommodation are included, and you can bring your wife with you. The salary was so generous, but Qian Zhongshu refused.

After the publication of his famous novel "Fortress Besieged", it not only caused a sensation at home, but also had a great response abroad. Many people in the journalism and literary circles wanted to meet him and have a glimpse of his style, but he declined. A lady from Bush Country called and said that she had read "Besieged" and wanted to meet him. Qian Zhongshu declined repeatedly, but she still insisted on seeing him. Qian Zhongshu said to her humorously: "If you feel good after eating an egg, why do you need to know the hen that laid the egg?"

In November 1991, the calligrapher Qian Zhong celebrated his 80th birthday in the annual report. On the eve of the eve, there were constant calls at home. Relatives, friends, scholars, celebrities, institutions and groups wanted to wish him birthday. The Chinese Academy of Social Sciences wanted to hold a birthday party and academic seminar for him, but Qian Zhongshu refused.

The Curies regard fame and fortune as floating clouds

Both the Curies are well-known scientists in the world. Mrs. Curie is the only female scientist in the world to win the Nobel Prize twice, but They live a frugal life and do not seek fame or wealth. Various medals and medals are symbols of honor, or treasures that many people dream of, but the Curies regarded them as waste. In 1902, Mr. Curie received a notice from the Faculty of Science of the University of France and the National University, saying that he would apply to the ministry to award him the Medal of Honor in recognition of his scientific contributions. Please ask him not to refuse.

After discussing with his wife, Curie wrote a reply: "Please express my gratitude to Mr. Minister. Please also tell me that I have no interest in the medal at all. I only urgently need a laboratory." "

A friend of Madame Curie was invited to her home. After entering the house, she was surprised to see Madame Curie's little daughter playing with a gold medal that the Royal Society had just awarded to Madame Curie. She said: "It is extremely difficult to get this gold medal, which embodies the highest honor. How can we let children play with it?" Marie Curie said: "It is to let children know that honor is just a toy from an early age. It’s just for fun, don’t take it too seriously. If you stick to it forever, you won’t be successful.”

The Curies value career and are indifferent to fame and fortune.

(3) Theoretical Arguments

[Theoretical Arguments]

Don’t use praise to rejoice, and don’t use blame to anger.

Ming. Hai Rui's "Ling Zhen"

Those who don't like fame are not good at it; those who like fame are especially those who like benefits.

Qian Qi's "Qian Gongliang's Test of Confucianism. Guide to Confucianism" of the Qing Dynasty

Don't be obsessed with wealth, and don't worry about poverty.

"Book of Han. Biography of Yang Xiong"

If you have a broad mind, you must learn from the word plain.

"The Collection of Cai E. Preface and Notes"

The way of a gentleman is to cultivate one's character through tranquility, and to cultivate one's virtue through frugality. Without indifference, one will not be able to clarify one's aspirations, and tranquility will not lead to great distances.

The "Book of Commandments" by Zhuge Liang of the Three Kingdoms

With less desire, the mind will be calm, and with a calm mind, things will be simple.

Ming.

"Collection of Ancient and Modern Books. Xuexingdian"

If desire is weak, the heart will be empty, if the heart is empty, the qi will be clear, and if the qi is clear, the mind will be clear.

Ming.

"The Analects of Confucius. Shuer"

The heart is relaxed and happy, and all favors and disgrace are forgotten.

"The Story of Yueyang Tower" by Fan Chuyan of the Song Dynasty

Wealth and honor are not my wish, and the imperial hometown cannot be expected.

Jin Dynasty Tao Yuanming's "Come Back and Lai Lai Ci"

Being contented with things will always make you feel satisfied.

"Ancient and Modern Couplets"

If you have few desires, you will be sincere.

Song Dynasty. Cheng Hao and Cheng Yabo's "Er Cheng Quanshu. Yuanfeng is gone"

Tolerance is the first way to treat others, and indifference is the first way to nourish the heart.

Master Hongyi's "Farewell Records of Aphorisms"

Be indifferent and clear your ambitions, and work hard all day long.

Cai E's "Nanning Residence and House Couplet"

If one's ambition is not up to standard, his salary and position are like baht; if his Tao is different, he will regard wealth and honor as dirt.

"History of the Song Dynasty. Biography of Hermit"

Those who seek nothing will have everything.

British proverb If your desires are endless, then your worries and worries will also be endless.

[American] Fuller's "Wise Words"

Don't be tempted by praise, and don't be afraid of slander.

"Xunzi. Not the Twelve Sons"

A greedy person will never be satisfied.

Master Hongyi's "Practice French"

Greetings for material, lust for power and vanity make people miserable. These are the three pillars of public consciousness. No matter when and where they are, they All support the unwavering world of mediocrity.

[Former Soviet Union] Aite to Tov's "Guillotine"

2. After looking for a long time, there is no good one. This is a statement that don't pay too much attention to scores when studying

●Xia Feiyan: Science, 682 points, applied to Peking University.

"With this score, I should say it's okay, but I didn't do well in the comprehensive science test." If extra points are not included, Xia Feiyan is the student with the highest science score in our city this year. But for this exam, Xia Feiyan felt that some things were overlooked during the exam.

Xia Feiyan told reporters that during her three years in high school, she felt that her biggest characteristic in learning was that she did not deliberately pursue scores. "In terms of study, I don't deliberately ask myself to go to any school or what kind of score I get, as long as I work hard."

However, despite the mentality that as long as I work hard, I will be fine in the third year of high school. In the first semester, Xia Feiyan still encountered a big setback, that is, she failed to win the prize in the national physics competition. This failure not only had a certain impact on Xia Feiyan's mood, but also left some homework behind in preparation for the competition. "The next few monthly exams were not good, and I was in the 20s each time." Xia Feiyan said that originally her results ranked third or fourth in the class. The drop in her grades made her a little anxious. In order to change this situation, she worked hard on mathematics. "I do some questions every day. Over time, my math scores will improve again, and my self-confidence will also improve." From then on to the final review stage, Xia Feiyan continued to do some questions every day to maintain her touch.

"During the exam, I felt that it was not going well, especially in the comprehensive science section. I spent a lot of time on the multiple-choice questions. There was one question in chemistry that I couldn't do, but the score for that question was relatively small." Xia Feiyan said, Judging from her college entrance examination situation, she feels that as long as you perform at your usual level during the exam, you are already doing very well, so you can relax a little. Be willing to give up when you encounter a problem you can't solve. In addition, if you can't sleep during the two days of the college entrance examination, don't worry too much. Tell yourself that it's okay if you can't sleep. You can still get through the two days.