Mediocrity, trust others, doubt yourself; Fool, believe in yourself and exclude others; A wise man believes in himself and others.

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Some people say, "the authorities are fascinated, and the bystanders are clear." So they trust others and let them decide for themselves. Some people say, "Only you know yourself best." So they closed their eyes and got deeper and deeper in the quagmire of mistakes. Believing in yourself and listening to other people's opinions seem to be contradictory, but there is a unified side. They are like our left arm and right arm, and they are indispensable. In today's fierce competition, we

Believing in yourself is a full affirmation of yourself and an approval of your ability. If you don't believe in yourself, who can you trust? When you have a clear and rational understanding, you should "go your own way and let others talk". Chen Zhonghe, head coach of China women's volleyball team, is under great pressure and has a heavy task. Many people suggested that he take "insurance" as a good idea. However, he pushed his way through the crowd, believed in himself, used new generals such as Feng Kun, and finally reorganized successfully, regaining his lost 17 trophy. If he took other people's advice, it was that at the critical moment, Chen Zhonghe believed in himself and made impressive achievements.

However, there is a limit to everything. When we believe in ourselves, we should also believe in others. This is determined by the variability of things and their own limitations. Many times, our eyes are confined to a narrow range, "short-sighted" and "self-righteous". At this time, it is more objective and true to observe and evaluate others from multiple angles, so trust others. Emperor Taizong accepted the suggestions of Wei Zhi and others. Zhu Yuanzhang accepted Zhu Sheng's suggestion of "building a wall to accumulate grain" and was happy for the country and the people. On the contrary, stubborn Ma Su didn't listen to Wang Ping's advice and thought he was "familiar with the art of war", which resulted in his death. Other people's opinions are sometimes good and sometimes bad. We can neither completely deny them nor completely affirm them. It is wise to take the essence and discard the dross.

No one can boast that he is perfect and represents eternal truth. But at the same time, no one is useless, so we should believe in ourselves and others.

Believe in yourself when you are confident, and trust others when you are confused and disappointed. Let the two cooperate with each other and complement each other, and you will have a wonderful life!