Being neither deaf nor dumb means that you are not worthy of being in charge, which means that as the leader of the house, you should pretend not to hear and not speak out about some things in your own family. In fact, this sentence is to tell people that some things can be over by turning a blind eye. Don't always hold on to something. Sometimes you have to relax appropriately between being strict and generous about some things. Only in this way can you go further and longer.

This sentence also applies to some current workers. For example, we must be strict with ourselves in our work and treat others with leniency. Each of us will not be very adaptable to the new working environment. But each of us must force ourselves to overcome the discomfort in this short period of time, and try our best to integrate with everyone. For example, in the process of getting along with our colleagues, if we can help others, we should help others humbly ask some elderly people for advice. At work, you not only have to learn how to learn your own business knowledge, but you also have to learn how to build good relationships with colleagues around you, and you also have to learn how to be smooth in dealing with others.

As the saying goes, it is difficult for an upright official to resolve household affairs, because everyone has independent thoughts and different values. Even in a very harmonious family, there will be various different opinions. Everyone has different opinions and sees things from different angles, so sometimes as the mainstay of the family, men must learn to turn a blind eye and deal with the internal affairs of their own families well. Relationships are very important. For example, why was Qianlong able to eat Dingheshen? In fact, Qianlong fully knew that Heshen had embezzled a lot of money, but he pretended that he did not know and did not see it. At most, he felt that he could not save face and just said a few words to Heshen. Because Qianlong was like a mirror in his heart, he knew that He Shen was loyal to him and had no second thoughts.

In any case, in today's society, there is still a big difference in the thinking of the new generation of young people and the old people of the old era. Therefore, when we do anything, we must stand on each other's side. Think about it from more angles, so that our family can live better and better.