Everyone likes a smooth life, like a life that goes smoothly, like a bird flying freely, like a fish swimming freely. But the plump ideal is destined to be bruised and bruised by this skinny reality. Most people go through the ups and downs of life, experiencing both the joy of success and the loss of failure.
There are many ignorant onlookers in this world. When they see you at the lowest point in your life, they will start gossiping about you. Some are scolding and sarcastic in front of others; some are talking behind their backs and making jokes; some are slandering and adding insult to injury.
Nowadays, there are many people who worship the superior and disdain the inferior.
It’s okay to be flattered. In order to survive, it’s not a bad idea to take the initiative to please and flatter people who are useful to you so that you can live a better life. In a human society, as long as you don't affect others or hurt others, and you put in a little effort to please others, you can get the results you want, which is also a way to survive.
Just to please others, you must also pay attention to a certain level. What you have to do is natural, that is, you are flattering to make people comfortable, and you have achieved your goals without appearing too deliberate.
But in reality, these people no longer have much patience to hide their behavior, and they don’t care whether their behavior is decent or not. When they see rich and powerful people, they want to be courteous and want to please. , it will be exposed and make people feel uncomfortable.
Of course, for these people, making people uncomfortable is nothing. As long as they can achieve their own goals, everything else is nonsense.
What is even more puzzling is that no matter how much these people please and flatter those who are rich, they will not give them some money, or treat them to a meal, or even ask them when they need money. I could lend him some when I needed it, but he was still willing to shamelessly flatter, please, and be attentive. This is incredible.
This kind of person likes to be flattered by others and likes to curry favor with rich and powerful people. He enjoys it, does not feel that the price has dropped, and does not hinder others. However, this kind of person not only likes to be superior, but also likes to put others down and belittle those who are equal to or inferior to themselves.
This exposes the true nature of this kind of person, the nature of a villain.
The villain is best at worshiping the superior and suppressing the inferior, bullying the weak and fearing the strong. They fawn over rich and powerful people; they bully honest people, kind people and useless people. In front of the former, he has a fawning, flattering, and cautious face, for fear of not being able to flatter him enough; in front of the latter, he has a domineering, arrogant, and shameless face, and he can't wait to ride on others to shit and urinate.
In life, such villains are everywhere, and they are aggressive. If you don’t provoke them, they will still want to bully you. No serious person has the time and energy to fight with such people, so staying away is the best way.
If you can't avoid him, there is no need to be polite to such a villain. This kind of villain looks very arrogant on the surface, but in fact he is very weak on the inside. He bullies good and is afraid of evil. They are even more afraid of people who are stronger than themselves. When you act strong and inviolable, this kind of person will be in awe of you.