1. Life changes like passing years, the totem of love, the spread of love. Love is a gradual penetration, not an infusion.

2. Women have a natural maternal nature. Remember: a gentle rejection is far better than a harsh rebuke to your husband!

3. There are always some capable people in life who are omnipotent and can handle everything, but they can’t handle themselves! Thinking about everything but forgetting yourself!

4. Debts must be repaid after all. People will eventually return to reason. It is not an exaggeration to think that taking advantage of others' opportunities and giving to others when they need it most is a way to gain favor. But good feelings are just good feelings after all and cannot be confused with love. What's more, love is not just an impulse, but also a vast and long project. There is plenty of time to test you. The time you save now on inspection, running-in and getting along with each other will require you to go through it again sooner or later.

5. Never compare with your lover, who loves whom more, love cannot be compared, more is debt, less is resentment. Seven points of loving your partner is enough, and the remaining three points of loving yourself.

6. If you manage feelings properly, your investment will have results. But if you just take risks, that’s not called investing, it’s called stealing. The consequence of stealing a chicken is that you lose the rice by stealing the chicken.

7. It is easy to die for someone, but difficult to live for someone.

8. Life is a hardship. You come to the world with your own cries, and die with the cries of your loved ones. Possession and loss are just a matter of thoughts. You gain wealth but lose family affection, gain wisdom but lose it. Lost happiness, realized dreams but lost health. Every life has imperfections, so there is no need to make too many comparisons. Every life has fun, and there is no need to be completely unified. Natural selection means that the strong may not survive. Accept it with peace of mind and enjoy the wonderful process!

9. Falling in love is like boxing. Only by finding a suitable opponent can you have a more exciting performance and a better love life.

10. In a certain period of life, a person should have three choices: one is what you can do; the other is what you can do; and the other is what you should do. The person who chooses what to do should be a person who follows the rules. The person who chooses what he can do is the person who knows himself. People who choose what they should do are people who make rational choices. Among the top ten in the Forbes list, there are many rich people who did not originally want to be rich. Some want to be poets, some want to be musicians. But in the end, they discovered a truth: what they are good at is often what they don't like, and what they don't like is often what they are good at. Therefore, after many people create their own careers, they silently keep their dreams in their hearts.

11. What a person deliberately shows off means that he lacks something, and what a person deliberately emphasizes means that he is guilty of something! Just like flatterers appear precisely because they have no strength, and liars appear because a certain link is out of control.

12. Walking in the forest, you see a vine attached to a tree trunk. Softness and solidity are intertwined. You are moved by this quiet and beautiful scene. Let happiness and belonging stop here. you think. I wonder what kind of ups and downs the future will bring? Maybe the vines will break and the trees will fall. Maybe the sky will be barren and the earth will grow old. You think again. So, please stop time at this moment. Stop motion is eternity. If there is this quiet and beautiful moment in eternity, all kinds of disasters that may be encountered in the future will have been comforted and rewarded.

13. I can love you to the point of my bones, but I cannot love you to the point of dust.

14. When you reach the end of your life, you will find that any person who appears in your life actually plays only one role in your life. If it is a lover, it must not be a lover; if it is a friend, it must not be a lover. It must not be an enemy. If it is a passer-by, it must not be permanent! Back to the origin of life, even though the roles have changed, everything is fixed!

15. A woman’s greatest weapon is tears.

16. The value of a man does not lie in pointing fingers at women as an afterthought, but in making women feel at ease.

17. When I discovered the fat all over my body, I was shocked to realize how cruel reality is! Only those who can be cruel to themselves can be cruel to others. From today on, I will recover all the iron knots in my body!

18. Those who can see through everything in the world may not be able to understand human nature. The complexity of human inner world far exceeds the ever-changing real society! You can endure all the suffering in the world, but you may not be able to endure all the heart in the world!

19. What do you think the responsibility is? You think your responsibility is to stay together for life and throw a few money at home. Real responsibility is to care about how your loved one feels every second.

20. Men’s nature is to conquer women, and women’s nature is to be conquered.

21. Why do family violence cycle? That's because domestic violence plays a role. The man feels that his hands can solve the problem, because the woman shrinks under her fist and feels that sex is effective under certain circumstances.

22. This is not love, this is just an additional effect of the buying and selling of love by those who worship money, but it is indeed an effective way to redistribute wealth!

23. Suffering is a fortune. If you don’t experience wind and rain, you can’t see the rainbow. Facts have proved that a loving mother often fails. The more you give materially when you are a child, the more you lose spiritually!

24. There are either stories or accidents between women. Their super intuition is like the premonition of natural instincts of animals! Men should not easily challenge a woman’s intuition, that is undoubtedly digging their own grave!

25. Those who cheat will be struck to death by lightning sooner or later. I don’t want the person who is cheated to be struck to death by lightning. The one who abandons everything from beginning to end is himself.

26. We are always eager to love, but we never pay attention to the way of love. In fact, people are a multivariate complex variable function. While a woman is a good wife, she may not be a good daughter-in-law. But there are many constant things in human nature. For example, if he cannot be a filial son, he will definitely not be a husband with true love. This is one piece. The nurturing of our children by our parents is enough for us to spend our entire lives repaying the favor. Without our parents, we would be nothing more than tiny cells, unable to survive. Although it is our partner who will accompany us throughout our lives in the future. But none of this would be possible without our parents giving us life. For a man, there are three most important women in his life. They are mother, wife and daughter respectively. The mother gives him life, the wife accompanies him throughout his life, and the daughter is the continuation of his life. It would be incomplete without any part of it.

27. The real help of a brother is when his brother is in pain after losing love. The door of brother's friendship is always open to him, paying for his pain instead of helping him make decisions.

28. The true heartlessness of a woman is to ignore you at all.

29. Marriage is inherently a debt, and no amount of money can repay it.

30. The upper limit of human behavior is morality, and the lower limit of human behavior is law. But morality is better than all laws when used for self-discipline, and worse than all lynchings when used to discipline others!

31. For any person or culture to be recognized and respected by people, the first thing is tolerance! On the other hand, when I was young, I was extreme and unruly. In fact, it was a manifestation of narrow-mindedness, but I still considered myself to be a personality. I expressed my true self on the basis of tolerance, performed truly on the basis of respect, and reflected on myself!

32. You must be careful when making friends, be very careful! No one can be perfect, but you must not make friends with people who have moral problems. Friendship also requires personal morality!

33. Life is a hardship. You come to the world in the cry of your own, and die in the cry of your loved ones!

34. In fact, in our lives, we always envy each other, but when you truly understand everyone’s real life, you will find that most people live very helplessly, but life is wonderful. The point is that we have to live a more wonderful life in helplessness. Because we all live in such a life, the competition is to see who can bear more.

35. The husband said to his wife: Why aren’t you as generous as other people’s daughters-in-law? My wife said: I am not generous because I care. If one day I stop caring, I will be more generous than anyone else! Love is always stingy and selfish!

36. When you encounter a problem, please face yourself and correct yourself to solve the problem!

37. Why does domestic violence cycle? That's because domestic violence plays a role. The man feels that using his hands can solve the problem, because the woman shrinks under her fist and feels that sex is effective under certain circumstances.

38. Those who are skilled talk about myths, those who are not skilled talk nonsense, and those who are half-full talk nonsense!

39. Don’t miss your own life by appreciating other people’s dishes.

40. To like the new and dislike the old is dirty, to dislike the new and not dislike the old is to be loyal, to like the new and not dislike the old is the most shameful.

41. Sometimes, you are misunderstood and you don’t want to argue, so you choose to remain silent. Not everyone needs to understand you, so you think there is no need to shout to the whole world. But sometimes, you are misunderstood by the person you love most, and you are so sad that you don't want to argue, so you can only choose to remain silent. The whole world can not understand you, but he should understand. If he can't understand, what else can he say? There are often moments in life when even Schubert is speechless. After all, not all right and wrong can be clearly defined, and there may even be no real right and wrong at all. So, if you don't want to talk, just don't talk. When talking more is useless, silence may be the best explanation.

42. Love requires infatuation, and life requires responsibility.

43. Sometimes, people are just too happy, so things happen. It is by supporting each other to move forward that those who are faltering can go further.

44. The principle of human survival: Don’t treat yourself too much as a human being, and don’t treat others too little as human beings.

45. A gentle rejection is far better than a harsh rebuke.

46. For those who hurt us, to forgive once is to be persistent, to forgive twice is tolerant, to forgive three times is to be mean! For those who love us, hurting us once is unintentional, hurting us twice is ruthless, and hurting us three times is shameless! Remember: to be tolerant to those who hurt us is to be cruel to those who love us!

47. There are two types of shameless people. One is shameless and very connotative, and likes to use responsibility as a reason for being irresponsible; the other is shameless and straightforward, and A shameless and straightforward person who doesn't hide anything may actually turn around.

48. You said that life is a long road with infinite forks, and you are always making choices. If you just choose to eat fried noodles or fried rice, the impact may not seem to be big, but what department you choose to study, what job you do, whether you get married or not, whether you want to have children, each choice has far-reaching consequences, and different choices will inevitably create completely different things. Same life. You also said that the unbearable feeling in life is that there is no chance to start over. If it was like that at the beginning, it won't be like that now... It's better not to say any more of this kind of sad murmuring to oneself. In fact, there is no real good or bad choice in every fork in the road, as long as you regard life as yourself. A unique creation, you won't look back frequently if you had made a different choice.

49. If you manage feelings properly, your investment will have results. But if you just take risks, it's not called investment, it's called stealing chickens, and the consequence is that you lose the rice by stealing the chicken.

50. In fact, there are many turning points in life. Every time you choose a turning point, the next scenery will be completely different.

51. In fact, women rely on intuition and smell, and men always think that they are unaware. Nowadays, women are so decisive, and men will regret why they always know it later.

52. You are unhappy today because someone stabbed you with words. You don't like quarreling, so you leave; but you just leave that person, but you don't leave the situation of being hurt by that person, so you get angrier and angrier. The more angry you are, the less energy you have to care about other things. Many things that should be dealt with more seriously are ignored, ignored and omitted in the midst of your overwhelming confusion. Because, you are just single-mindedly angry. Making a fuss about emotions is a waste of yourself, and it is a very bad waste. After all, being angry also takes effort, and being angry will definitely damage your vitality.

So, as smart as you are, don’t let your emotions control you. Before you get angry again, you might as well remind yourself softly: “Don’t waste it.”

53. The greatest power of man is not creation, but It’s self-reflection! If you can’t self-reflect and see your own mistakes and shortcomings, even if you have extraordinary power, all you create will be your own grave!

54. What you like may not be what you are good at! Yes, what you are good at may not be what you like. When you find that you are not good at this thing, you have to think clearly: What can I do?

55. In the process of marriage, a man can reflect his feelings for this woman through his three different understandings of making mistakes. First, the idea of ??cheating just comes to an end immediately. , that shows that this man loves this woman. Second, when the man has cheated and the fact is established, he still wants to come back, and he is nostalgic for this woman. Third, he has hit a wall outside, and the fact has happened. I was dumped by the other party, and I only thought of you at this time. This is not called love or nostalgia, but going home.

56. The three realms of love, the highest realm, elopement, and bravely pursuing your own. The next level of happiness is to steal the household registration book, which implies that we have already settled the matter. The worst way is to marry with a child, which is to make a meal before it is raw.

57. The persistent pursuit of what you love will make you happy. Forgetting your own pain, neglecting and being indifferent to loving yourself will forget the pain of others! Most people have such a triangular plot in their love life, but after a few years they will find that the person who once loved themselves is very happy, and the person they once loved is very happy. How about happiness, as for yourself?

58. The most painful thing about love is: 1. When you find that the person you love loves someone else in your heart. 2.

59. The first person to compare girls to flowers is a genius, the second person to compare girls to flowers is a mediocre person, and the third person to compare girls to flowers is a mediocre person. You are a fool! The first way to accumulate ability is to imitate, but you must seek breakthroughs in imitation, otherwise you will be dead!

60. Men are always willing to be courteous or steal, but women will not refuse love. It’s either bullying or love.

61. In my opinion, the vanity of most modern people comes from hypocrisy, and hypocrisy comes from inferiority! In daily life, the guys who are well-dressed and awesome are actually inside. Very panic!

62. I don’t want to be a notorious host, let alone a so-called gentleman, because I can’t do it. I just want to be a true wise man and live my life soberly. Days!

63. Explanation is cover-up, cover-up is fact, fact is dishonesty, dishonesty means lack of treatment

64. When the time comes, a weak person becomes strong and changes from dependence to dependence. Become picky. Once you get out of the special period and start to rationally examine you and this relationship, the seemingly stable love in the past has turned into a torment. Otherwise, you have to change yourself, put in more effort, adapt to the other person, and become the person the other person wants. But this effort will be greater than the savings you made when you took advantage of the opportunity. People who can figure out how to take advantage of the situation are usually lazy and calculating, and cannot afford to put in the hard work. Or the other person appreciates your helping hand when they need it most, and you have the intention to maintain this relationship. It's just pinching your nose and suffering, and you can't live a lifetime. And life is inevitably filled with a strong smell of gunpowder and indifference. If neither person is happy, or only one person is happy, it goes against the original meaning of love.

65. Lovers come together because of each other’s strengths, and fall in love because they tolerate each other’s shortcomings!

66. Being truthful is a difficult thing. Being truthful without hurting others is difficult and difficult, but the hardest thing is: facing some hypocritical people pointing their fingers at you. Why do you feel so embarrassed when your nose says you are showing off?

67. If you are ruthless, you will be worse than a beast, and if you are passionate, you will harm yourself. Therefore, you should be more ruthless when facing ruthless people, and don’t be overly sentimental when meeting passionate people!

68. You once bought a piece of clothing that you liked very much but couldn't bear to wear it, and solemnly enshrined it in the closet. After a long time, when you saw it again, you found that it was out of date. So, you just missed it. You once bought a beautiful cake but couldn't bear to eat it, and kept it solemnly in the refrigerator. After a long time, when you saw it again, you found that it had expired.

So you too are missing out on it. Not having the clothes to wear when you like it the most, not having the cakes to taste when you are the most delicious, just like not doing things when you want to do the most, are all regrets. Life also has a shelf life, so what you want to do should be done as early as possible. If you just solemnly enshrine your wish in your heart but never implement it, then the only result is to miss it, just like the outdated clothes or the expired cake.

69. The world does not lack a loveless father, but it lacks a loving husband.

70. Defending love and recognizing the facts is always better than living in a dream!

71. If you love, please love deeply, if you abandon, please completely, don’t play ambiguously, hurt others and yourself, do it and cherish it!

72. We often dream, but it is always difficult to wake up, we often fantasize, but it is always difficult to realize, we often complain, but we never try hard, and we often plan, but we never have the courage. Practice, I don’t like studying, but I have to run for a diploma, I don’t like sports, but I can’t bear the fat, I don’t like talking, but I have to promote myself, life is actually like this, but unfortunately we can’t afford to die, but we must live strong , since everyone is helpless, let's continue to help each other and see who can live a more wonderful life in the helplessness. When people come into this world, aren't they just competing with each other to see who can bear more?

73. Giving wholeheartedly can be moved, but it may not be heart-warming. Accompanying each other day and night may produce feelings, but it may not necessarily produce love. Don't lose yourself to love.

74. Loving your strengths is called appreciation, loving your shortcomings is called tolerance, and loving your family is called sharing.

75. When I was young, I had the courage to change my life, but I was afraid to take responsibility! In middle age, I have the courage to take responsibility, but I am afraid of change! When you are old, you do not have the physical strength to change your life, nor the ability to take responsibility, only helpless tolerance and patience!

76. I am emotionally color-blind. In my emotional world, there is only white, not black or gray. Marriage requires 100% loyalty. If marriage were an Olympics, I would definitely win the championship of a happy marriage.

77. The more people say they have principles, the more tactful they become, because their principle is to never say responsible things and to always be ambiguous! The cunning eyes always reveal deception, and the downward corners of the mouth always represent seriousness.

78. There are three types of love between men and women. The first type is that he does not necessarily love each other, but he must ask the other party to love him unconditionally; the second type is that he loves each other and treats each other sincerely; the third type is that he loves each other and treats each other sincerely. Kind of, he doesn't care whether the other person loves him or not, he must love the other person unconditionally, even if he is deeply hurt and cries miserably.

79. Age is not a problem, height is not a distance, but distance is really a problem. And in the process of staying apart, most of the people who can't bear the loneliness are boys. That's because there are too many girls who indulge them. The basis of life in this society is tolerance. But only love must be selfish in terms of loyalty. If there is no selfishness, any true feelings will become false feelings.

80. Solid love is based on mutual friction and mutual review. At least two people understand each other and understand each other, after Zhou Xiang's consideration. For getting along, I have already made some preparations in my heart. Even if there is no tacit understanding, apart from being moved, the lover will actually feel like a stranger. Only in this case can love tolerate small frictions and contradictions. If you take advantage of the situation and lack this process, once the other party comes out of the fragile period in the future, the smallest things they encounter may be magnified infinitely. Both people will be caught off guard by these small things and will be unable to fully exist in a relationship.