1. Unload the mill and kill the donkey

Vernacular interpretation: After grinding something, unload the donkey and kill it. It's a metaphor for kicking away people who have done something for you.

Dynasty:

Author: Liu Shaotang

Source: Liu Shaotang's "Wolf Smoke": "I'm afraid that after returning to the army, I will conquer Pingshui County. , he will have to kill the donkey

Translation: I am afraid that after returning to the team and taking over Duckweed River County, he will have to kick away the people who have contributed to him.

2. The bird is gone and the bow is hidden

Vernacular interpretation: It is a metaphor for kicking away those who have contributed to something. See "The rabbit is dead and the dog is cooked". > Dynasty: Three Kingdoms

Author: Cao Pi

Source: Three Kingdoms·Cao Pi's "Huanghuang Jingluo Journey": "Five punishments in Huaiyin; Birds are hidden in bows; the whole name is preserved; only the ovary is left. ”

Translation: Five punishments in Huaiyin; use up all the bows to hide; save one’s wealth and life; only have the ovary

3. The rabbit is dead and the dog is cooked

Vernacular interpretation: "Historical Records: The Family of Goujian, King of Yue": "When the flying birds are gone, the good bow is hidden; when the cunning rabbit dies, the running dogs are cooked." "When the bird is gone, the bow will be put away; when the rabbit is dead, the hunting dog will be cooked and eaten. It is a metaphor for killing those who have made great efforts after something is successful.

Dynasties: Western Han Dynasty

Author: Sima Qian

Source: "Historical Records: The Family of King Goujian of Yue": "The birds are gone; the good bows are hidden; the cunning rabbits die; the lackeys are cooked." "

Translation: When the birds are gone, the good bow will be collected; when the cunning rabbit is dead, the hunting dog will be cooked."

4. Repay kindness with hatred

Vernacular definition: Using bad behavior to harm someone who has been kind to you.

Dynasty: Ming

Author: Feng Menglong

Source: Ming Dynasty: Feng Menglong's "Awakening of the World": "Volume 30: 'Thanks to this official He saved his life; now he is repaying kindness with vengeance; where is the justice of nature! '"

Translation: The official who lost money saved his life; now he is repaying kindness with vengeance; where is the justice of nature! '"

5. Burning bridges across rivers

Vernacular interpretation: After achieving the goal, you will kick away those who have helped you.

Dynasty: Yuan Dynasty ·

Author: Kang Jinzhi

Source: Yuan Dynasty Kang Jinzhi's "Li Kui Bears the Jing": "You are not allowed to push the boat along the current; you are not allowed to cross the river and demolish the bridge. "

Translation: You have to push the boat with the current to rest; you are not allowed to cross the river and burn the bridge." 2. What are the idioms that describe "use people to move forward, not use people to move backward"

Cross the river and burn bridges, It is a common saying to kill a donkey, to be ungrateful, and to repay kindness with hatred. It is a saying that common people often say, but the origin cannot be found.

Don’t allow me to cross the river and tear down the bridge.” Meaning: After crossing the river, I will tear down the bridge.

After achieving the goal, it is a metaphor for kicking away the people who helped you. Unload the grinding wheel and kill the donkey: Definition: After grinding something, unload the grinding donkey and kill it.

It is a metaphor for kicking away people who have done something for you. Ungrateful: Source: "Book of Wei·Biography of Xiao Baoyu": "Being ungrateful and ungrateful has a bad heart."

Definition: En: favor; Negative: violation; Yi: friendship, kindness. Forget the benefits that others have done to you, and instead do things that are sorry for others.

Repaying kindness with hatred: Source: Chapter 30 of "Journey to the West" by Wu Cheng'en of the Ming Dynasty: "If I say it, he will kill the princess, but is this not repaying kindness with hatred?" Interpretation: repaying what you have suffered with hatred of favor. Refers to ingratitude.

Reference materials Sogou. Sogou [cited on 2018-1-16] Afanti. Afanti [cited on 2018-1-16]. 3. What does it mean to use people to face the front and not to use people to face the back?

To use people to face the front and not to use people to face the back means: When I need your help, I will face you with a smile. People will ignore you and turn their backs on you when they don't need you.

This sentence shows the duality of a person when asking for help and when being asked for. Such people often act like a person in front of others and act like a ghost behind others. When he uses you, he can beat your chest, rub your back and pinch your nose, he can call you mom, dad, grandma, and he can be your third grandson. When he is not using you, he can pour foot-washing water on your head, stick a cold gun to your hot face, and throw away all the kindness you have shown him.

This sentence comes from a folk proverb.

Extended information:

Folk proverbs are relatively concise and concise words spread among the people. Most of them reflect the practical life experience of working people and are generally passed down orally. It is mostly an easy-to-understand short sentence or rhyme in spoken form.

Proverbs, like idioms, are part of the language as a whole and can increase the vividness and vividness of the language. But proverbs and famous quotes are different. Proverbs are the practical life experience of working people, while famous quotes are what celebrities say. 4. Slang: When using people, look forward, when not using people, look backward

It can be said that if you are used to do things for him, he will come to you and ignore you if he no longer needs you

One day, Kim Seon Dal (a satirical representative figure in the late Joseon Dynasty, formerly known as Kim In-hong, who took teasing the powerful as his way of life and fun of life. Seon Dal is a name for people who have achieved fame in ancient Korea, similar to the Jinshi in the imperial examination.) On his way. On the way - the meal I had in the morning was probably not very good - I suddenly felt upset. Although we were anxious for convenience, there were no so-called public toilets at that time. Because of his reputation as a scholar, he was unwilling to solve the problem on the roadside. But his belly didn't care about his face at all, and he still went his own way. In desperation, he ran all the way to a house and knocked hard on the door. At this time, a young woman's voice came from inside the room: Who is it?

He replied impatiently: I was passing by this place on the way down and suddenly felt anxious, so I wanted to borrow the toilet for a while. What a bother.

The young woman replied like this: My husband-in-law is temporarily out of town. I'm at home alone and it's not convenient to come in.

I’m really in a hurry... Please, I’ll be ready in a moment!

Well...it's really inconvenient to be at home alone.

Then give you five taels of silver?

No.

Twelve!

Well...then please hurry up and be convenient.

When the young woman heard that she was given ten taels of silver, she was moved, so she agreed to let outsiders in. However, Jin Xianda, who had just finished relieving himself in the toilet, felt that spending ten taels of silver to go to the toilet was not worth it. He lingered in anger for some time. At this time, a woman's voice came from outside: Master, are you okay? Just please come out.

Well... it's still early, constipation...

After a while, the woman came to speak again: My husband-in-law is coming back soon, please come out quickly.

Didn’t I say it, it’s still early!

Then I will give you five taels of silver, please come out quickly.

Well... I'm not that kind of person, please wait a little longer.

Twelve taels, no, add five taels of silver. Please...

Finally, Jin Xianda took fifteen taels of silver before he came out of the toilet.

This leads to a slang saying: Use people to face forward, and use people to face backward.

Before going to the toilet, physiological needs are the most important. Once they are taken care of, you will feel that it is not worth spending money on them. This is human nature. Desire is an important factor that governs our hearts and behaviors.

If you observe your surroundings carefully, you will discover the desires that drive people to action. Everyone has various desires. People with a strong desire for love like frequent dates and social activities; people with a strong desire for respect tend to invest boldly in themselves in order to gain respectable knowledge and status. Many of them are workaholics because they have to do a lot if they want to be recognized by the company and get promoted. Eventually, this kind of life becomes a habit. People with a strong desire for self-realization always do their own things or collect information during working hours, and are always ready to change jobs to find a job that is more suitable for them or to accept greater challenges. 5. What does it mean to "employ people forward and not use people backward"?

"Use people forward and not use people backward" means to ask for others or to greet them with a smile when they are of use. Pretend not to know others, or when they are no longer useful.

This is a folk saying with no clear origin. If you say it, everyone will understand the meaning. People who "use people to move forward and don't use people to move backward" are called "white-eyed wolves" in popular parlance. ”, which is related in meaning to the expressions of crossing a river and demolishing a bridge, and people walking to drink tea. Of course, the idiom of "burning bridges across the river" is more serious, and the context of "人行茶梁" is relatively more appropriate, but there is also a slight difference: "人行茶冰" refers to the general trend, which means that a person is no longer in a "useful" position. It is a common choice among people at that time, and there is a sense of helplessness in it; while employing people first rather than backward refers to the personal utilitarianism of the person asking for help, and more to the disappointment of not getting the due reward after putting in the effort, "Newcomers" Entering the bridal chamber, the matchmaker threw it over the wall", which expresses the resentment and dissatisfaction of a person who has helped others because he asked for help.

Several commonly used examples: When you are using people, you are facing forward, when you are not using people, you are facing backward. When you are using it, you are talking sweetly and sweetly, that is a relative. When you are not using it, you are silent and sarcastic. Do your family members know if you do this? For those who don’t go to the Three Treasures Palace for nothing. Or people who use people to move forward and don’t need people to move toward the back.

What should I do if I don’t even know how to say thank you? If you help, you are a good person; if you don't, you are a bad bear. There is no need for you to shout very kindly, but there is no need for you to ignore me.

What really annoys you the most is your attitude of facing forward when you don’t need others. It’s not the time for you to beg me to take the exam for you. I admit that I am inexperienced and I do not have the right expertise, but you knew this when I first came here, right? Now tell me that a technical secondary school teacher is good at teaching, why don’t you go to her and take the exam for you? I can correct my faults, but it’s your fault if you find fault with me. I really admire that person. When I was doing well, I was praised so much that people made me laugh. Now when I’m not doing well, I’m everywhere asking for likes and attention. Typical "people who are needed face forward, people who are not needed face backward".

When you are awesome, a bunch of people will go up to the pole to please you, and even your former enemies will give you cigarettes to smoke. That's how people are, if you need people you can move forward, if you don't need people you can move backward. How to prevent the employed person from facing forward and the unused person from facing backward? Learn to be grateful.

Don’t forget the person who dug the well. Always think of others’ help to you. Start with yourself and be a grateful person. Learn to read people.

There is a saying that "a long road can tell a horse's power, and time can tell a person's heart". Daily interactions can reveal a person's character. People with different paths should not conspire with each other. When necessary, there needs to be someone who can separate the seats. Definitely. Be a tolerant and generous person, make yourself bigger, have a higher vision, and look to the future. Then you won't care too much about whether others "use people to move forward and don't use people to move backward."

Although some other idioms have similar meanings, they are somewhat disrespectful to the people who use them. They are placed in the extension area for reference: remove the grinding wheel and kill the donkey and bird, and hide the bow and hide it; the rabbit will die and the dog will cook it. After reciting the sutra, beat the monk.