1. Everything in the world has its cause and effect. Don’t always regard yourself as an innocent victim. Instead of blaming others, it is better to reflect on yourself.

2. When complaining, resenting, getting angry, or blaming others, you should first reflect on yourself. Is it wrong? Too stingy?

3. When you treat the world gently, the world will definitely treat you gently. It's good to go well, but when you encounter dissatisfaction, instead of blaming others, it's better to reflect on yourself.

4. In many cases, it is a sign of kindness for others to help you, but it is also reasonable for others not to help you. Therefore, instead of blaming others, it is better to reflect more on yourself.

5. Don’t just blame others for their faults. You should reflect on why you don’t fit in.

6. Reading thousands of books is not as good as traveling a thousand miles; traveling a thousand miles is not as good as reading countless people; reading countless people is not as good as showing the way by a famous teacher. It is easy to find a Confucian teacher, but it is difficult to find a human teacher. Don't always blame others, you should reflect on yourself.

7. If you are not a person who loves to reflect on yourself, you will often keep many things in your heart; if you do not look for your own shortcomings and complain about others and society every day, we will find that there are a group of people around him and others. Friends like him.

8. Mom will always be my bottom line. A person who never reflects on himself, doesn’t realize his own mistakes and blames others confidently, nothing can save your image in my heart.

9. There are not so many things you can’t stand, it’s just that you can’t do it yourself. Complain and blame less on others, and examine and reflect on yourself more.