Yesterday, I brushed Tik Tok and saw a couple of farmers in Ruian, Wenzhou, creating their own dance and gaining millions of fans. Four years ago, my husband was depressed because of a car accident. The wife took her husband to learn and practice dancing together, looking for fun to get out of the haze. Their smiles are very infectious. In the interview, they said that they can eat whatever they want and do whatever they want while being healthy.
In his prose collection "Life, Enjoy", Cai Lan used five chapters to talk about people and things around him. Through these short stories, he conveyed a philosophy of life to us. In the final analysis, it is a kind of free and easy.
If you don't expect to be a master, there will be no burden in your heart.
Nowadays, many people always like to make rapid progress. They just want to be different and become masters in two days. If there is a little unsatisfactory result, they feel that they have no talent, or they are blind and ignorant. In fact, many people's achievements come from "unintentional willow trees." Ma Yun didn't expect to make Alibaba so big at first. At first, I just wanted to find a job to make a living. At first, they just did what was in front of them.
As Cai Lan said in his article: If you don't expect to be a master, there will be no burden in your heart. Once a person's mentality is relaxed, it will be more handy to do things.
More and more people are beginning to see the truth. In the past, they would rather laugh on the bike than cry on the BMW. Nowadays, most people will cry even if they laugh while riding a bicycle. Might as well cry on a BMW.
In reality, more and more people don't want to get married, so they look for those with poor conditions rather than those with good conditions. The other party thinks that you are in a dilemma for his money. After marriage, you have to go to the hall, go to the kitchen, fight for a mistress, fight for a cockroach, and be a strong woman when you become a mother. It is better to be single and chic.
Just like Cai Lan's philosophy: Forget it, it's better to be rich than to marry a rich man. What is not to marry? I don't know how good it is to buy a pretty boy.