First, learn to shut up when you are down and out.
Everyone has a hard time. If a person is down and out, it is not only money, body and spirit that are hit. At this time, some people may complain, be wronged and have a lot to say.
But life is the most realistic. The world is never short of idle people who watch other people's jokes and spread rumors. Therefore, the best way to treat failure is not to say much, but to be alone quietly.
The so-called growth means that you should learn to shut up and swallow back some words that only have disadvantages and no benefits. Turn all the disappointments into the driving force of efforts and quietly change the status quo.
Because of some pain, constant exposure can only make the wound worse, while silent "forgetting" can keep you awake in the future.
Second, learn to shut up when your work is unsatisfactory, you are excluded and isolated.
We often say that nine times out of ten, life is unhappy, and so is work. Interpersonal relationship is an important criterion to measure a person's ability, but it is not a decisive factor.
People's hearts are the hardest to guess, and because of this, you can't satisfy everyone whether you do things or be a man. At work, you only need to do your own thing well, and your achievements are more important than bragging about yourself. Needless to say, let alone listen to other superfluous words.
Sometimes, language is not only noisy, but also pale. If you are eager to explain yourself to others, you will make others misunderstand. If you really have a clear conscience, you will prove it in the end.
Third, learn to shut up when your feelings are frustrated and your efforts are not answered.
Love is the most beautiful catalyst in life. Everyone has their own unique views on feelings. Love or not is only your own business.
There is a reason why a relationship starts or breaks up. Instead of being indignant and painful, it is better to calm down and rationally think about whether two people are suitable or not, and whether the problem of breaking up can be solved.
If it can be solved, then face it frankly. If not, then say goodbye to each other and be happy, which is also a good ending.
Love is the best answer. Learning to shut up and not pester is to be responsible for yourself and respect each other's feelings.
Fourth, learn to shut up before you know the truth and facts.
Nowadays, social networks extend in all directions, and gossip comes and goes. Many things are really amazing!
I have seen such an example.
Last year, there was a story in Weibo that a girl aged 1 12 was sexually assaulted by two teachers, which was widely circulated on the Internet.
Keyboard knight-errant rose to criticize, and finally proved to be misinformed by young uncle. As a result, no one on the internet apologized for his previous enthusiasm!
This is the reality, an insignificant apology can't save two excellent teachers!
It used to be said that keyboard man is mostly verbal violence, especially when the truth is unknown and the facts are unclear!
We are not others, we have not experienced everything he has experienced, and we are not qualified to point at him and judge him.
Flowing pills stop at the end, and rumors stop at the wise. We should not be blind followers of rumors, let alone disseminators of public opinion.
A good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts June. Remember!