Her overall performance in the program, even the high emotional intelligence king Cai Kangyong could not bear to praise: "She is a particularly frank person, frank, and can see through other people's performances and grandstanding with sharp eyes."

Yang Mi, as the queen of traffic topic, is really confident to say this sentence. But Xu asked her, "If he treats you as a friend, will you help him?" Yang Mi simply replied: "No need to help." Her directness and frankness are numerous at one time.

Actually, Yang Mi has always been a controversial star. As an actress, her early works are very spiritual. But in recent years, the quality of her works is uneven, so that the word-of-mouth decline is extremely serious, and negative news will appear from time to time.

But a person's strength lies in how she responds to the crisis of life. Today, let's see what we can learn from Yang Mi.

First, always pursue independence.

20 10 Yang Mi once published a Weibo saying, "Kill me if you can. If you can't kill me, just wait until I become stronger."

Sure enough, from 20 10 to 2020, the flow of entertainment circles has been one after another, and the girl power has always occupied a place in the entertainment circle. Her way may not be convincing enough, but it is with her savage vitality that she has gained a foothold in the circle.

She always understood that people must rely on themselves, especially a woman. Only when she fought a real battle in society can she finally get something that really belongs to her.

Female stars who used to be in the entertainment circle are keen on becoming famous and marrying rich people, which is essentially a kind of attachment. Once the dependent changes his mind because of the long-term psychological imbalance, his life will be in trouble immediately.

In any way, it is not a good choice. Many actresses in the entertainment circle have married the so-called giants and got married.

Second, never underestimate yourself.

Yang Mi was married, but even if she divorced and had children, she never felt inferior.

In order to control women, traditional society domesticated women from the root; In order to bind women in marriage, divorced women are suppressed in all aspects, thinking that they are no longer worthy of respect, cherish and love as before.

But in fact, this is only a way for traditional society to control women, and it has nothing to do with the value of women themselves.

Many women are either unwilling to divorce because they are poisoned by this idea, even if their marriage is dead; Some women are afraid to find new love after divorce.

Yang Mi, however, is not the case. In her mind, it never happened, because marriage and production led to the loss of self-worth. Whether married or divorced, she will always be a "girl power".

Third, understand human nature.

There are no good things in the entertainment circle, and everyone wants to climb up, and it is inevitable that they will have a sharp edge. When Yang Mi appears in various variety shows, he can actively adjust the atmosphere to a proper level, and he is never afraid of self-defeating.

One person can make everyone feel comfortable in social relations. Besides his keen perception, the most important thing is his understanding of human nature. To survive in society, people need to ensure their own nature, biology and sociality.

Nature is the basic demand of food, clothing, housing and transportation; Biology is simply survival and reproduction; Sociality is the sense of existence in social groups. The first two are satisfied, but the most important thing is the last point.

Everyone needs to prove his sense of existence in social groups, thus generating a sense of accomplishment, honor, career and so on.

We can see from various variety shows that Yang Mi knows how to praise others and perceive others' emotions on many occasions. People who have been with her are praising her emotional intelligence.

Anyone who can stand in vanity fair is not only a certain kind of talent, but a compound talent. If Yang Mi was just an actress who could act, she would have disappeared in the update cycle.

Look at any problem, you can't just focus on one side. Yang Mi's successful track can't be copied, but the successful experience can be used for reference. After all, stars will be updated, but the law will not.

The famous writer Scott Adams once said, "You don't have to be the best in everything. Everything that succeeds is good at combining multiple skills. "

If you want to go to a higher place, it is the only way to develop your abilities in all aspects.