The philosophies of life contained in "Fu Lei's Family Letter" are:

1. Be humble in treating others, rigorous in doing things, and have decent etiquette;

2. Don't show up when encountering difficulties. Don’t be discouraged and don’t be proud of winning a big award;

3. You must have a sense of honor and disgrace for the country and nation, have artistic and personal dignity, and be an “artist with both morals and art, and outstanding personality.”

"Fu Lei's Family Letter" is "full of painstaking efforts and painstaking efforts to educate his son". It is also "the best reading book for art apprentices", and it is both ordinary and typical of modern Chinese intellectuals. The profound portrayal of the book is a good book that can help us better improve our self-cultivation, and is more worthy of reading by parents and children.

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Appreciation:

1. Fu Lei’s deep love for his son

“Dear child, the second time after you left Oh, I just want to write a letter, just because I’m afraid you’ll find it annoying, but I don’t think about you every day. I wake up at six or seven every morning, tossing and turning, and I can’t explain why. Staying alone at home, I recall the images of my children’s childhood. Your mother and I always think about your little stories from when you were two or three to six or seven years old.”

You can read between the lines of the above sentence. It shows Fu Lei's deep love for his son - for his grown-up son, he hopes that he will thrive and develop outwards, but he can't bear the child to stay away from him. Parents are like this. From the tenth month of pregnancy to the first day of delivery, they work hard to nurture their children step by step, in order to hope that their children will be useful and will not live on the streets in the future. However, when children become talented, it is also time to leave the roof and fly alone. As a parent, I am both happy and sad for them. After all, it is a matter of flesh and blood.

2. Fu Lei’s encouragement to his son

“As far as the performance is concerned, I think it is generally very good. It is done in one go, full of energy, the delicate parts are very delicate, and there are indeed many changes in timbre. We I was very happy and touched after hearing this. My dear boy, I should really praise you. Looking back on the time when I just returned to Shanghai from Kunming in April 1951, I hope you have risen from the bottom. Pay attention to your overall self-cultivation from now on, and you will definitely be able to climb to the top in the future."

This is what Teacher Fu Lei said to his son after listening to his son Fu Cong's recording. This includes Teacher Fu's detailed analysis and objective appreciation of his son's recording. And later he mentioned his hope for his son. This is the way parents educate their children. It should not only reflect your affirmation of your children, but also give them the determination to work hard and the confidence to succeed. On the other hand, they also put forward their own hopes and pointed out the way forward and the direction of development for the children. As children, we should also learn from our parents' experiences on the path guided by our parents, and learn from each other's strengths to develop our own new path.