The end of feelings is sometimes like a milestone, recording your growth and sadness.
Have you ever regretted that the person you love deeply has lost me?
People who have had heart-to-heart talks, you lost me, have you ever thought about me?
I lost you to someone who was kind to me. Have you ever hated me?
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The sign that a relationship really ends is not to admit that the person who left will never come back, but that even if he does, you are indifferent.
In "Know it, know it, it should be green, fat, red and thin", when grandpa was threatened to marry the princess, Ming Lan was so sad that he even refused to accept the illness for a time.
When the princess died in the rebellion, her little grandfather, who was still concerned about Ming Lan, decided to take the imperial examination, and only high school had the face to ask for relatives. God has a reward. He is on the list. He proposed to the Sheng family again, but Gu beat him to it. He wanted to talk to Ming Lan, but he was turned down.
Ming Lan stood behind the door and heard her little grandpa crying. Her eyes were red.
Dan Orange thought that Ming Lan couldn't let go, so she advised: Anyway, the old lady hasn't promised to take care of her family at this time, so she might as well. ...
Ming Lan said firmly: Never look back.
Yes, some feelings, even if there are still some feelings, are already different.
People can't always look back. Missed it, not wrong, but passed it.
Now that it's over, leave him alone and yourself alone.
Plato has a famous saying:
"No matter when it is finished, it is important not to regret it after it is finished."
People who are willing to do things, have no regrets, and really love each other will not necessarily encounter regrets.
Maybe, you don't know when this relationship will end. Then, when that person stands in front of you again, although he has some compassion, his reason tells you that he will not be happy if he goes back to the past. Then, this relationship should be completely over.
Some people, leaving you, are not completely over, because you always have some expectations and some fantasies.
Only by completely letting go of yourself and not wanting to go back to him is the sign of the real end.
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The sign that a relationship really ends is that you become happy after giving it up.
Xiaoke, Mr. Wang's college classmate, talked with her boyfriend for more than a year. At first, she thought the boy was gentle and talented, but after a long time, he began to show his true colors.
When he is emotionally unstable, he will attack her and even often compare her with other girls.
After a quarrel, the boy slapped her and she broke up. Afraid of being retaliated, she dared not go out of the dormitory door, and her roommate accompanied her in and out.
In those months, she was unhappy every day and the boys refused to break up. Then suddenly one day the boy agreed, and she also found that the boy had a new girlfriend.
At that moment, she was not sad, but shed tears of joy and was finally relieved.
Mr. Wang likes Alyssa Chia very much. Her ex-husband had a domestic violence and an affair, and she was exhausted in order to compete for custody of her daughter. I used to look haggard, without makeup or face modification, and I looked much older than I am now.
She was silent for a long time. When she returned to the public eye again, she had Bangbang, Ponyo and Jiekaixiu.
Last year1October 22nd, 165438+, Jiekaixiu made up for her wedding and declared her goddess status again.
All happiness must be visible to the naked eye.
However, the secret of happiness lies in that the right and wrong people give up and open their hearts to those who deserve it.
Some feelings are really sweet at first, but they are also true when they go bad. Emotion is like a fruit. When it rots, it can never go back.
If you are unhappy, you might as well give up.
Not loving must be worth it. Who hasn't loved scum in this world?
As Liao Yimei wrote in "Soft":
"Even if you choose the right parents, the right parents, the right homework, the right school, the right boss, the right direction and the right calculation, you may love the wrong person and put the wrong CD."
Don't feel sorry for yourself, it's not your fault.
If you leave the wrong person, you may not meet the right person immediately, but you will definitely meet happiness.
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The sign that a relationship really ends is nothing more than being friends for many years, losing contact, being disheartened and becoming strangers.
Yesterday, a fan asked Mr. Wang, "Sir, I lost my good friend. I regret it. Do you think she will hate me? "
I said, life is a process in which you lose yourself and others, and no one is spared.
I often advise everyone that as long as you don't disappoint others, everything will come to an end and be separated. This is not a mistake.
But everyone will still regret not having much contact and caring more about the lost person.
People who have been injured will still struggle why they are not cherished.
There is a passage in Liu Tong's "Your Loneliness, Although Defeated":
"Those friends who you once thought were very good, those friends who you once thought would always go together, don't know when they parted on the road.
Thank the friends who accompanied you through a journey. Friends who are willing to accompany you for life, thank God. "
Maybe we let some friends down. People are not saints, so don't let everyone down. But the older and more mature people are, the more they should cherish the people in front of them.
Maybe we let some people down. If people want to live a full life, they must understand a truth. Friends come and go, and the last person with you is the one who is true to you.
Everyone's appearance, everyone you once liked, is inevitable. Some of them taught you to grow up, some taught you to love, and some taught you not to be intimate with people like them.
Some friends, after graduation, have no contact;
Some friends, no matter how good they play, can't talk about their worries;
Some friends have different views and eventually become strangers.
Don't regret, don't struggle, because the best friends need to run in.
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We are trapped by love, not because it is over, but when it is all over, love is still there.
Some love is one-way. Not true love, just obsession.
Obsession is too deep, and it is easy to bite back. Feelings are not the only thing you want to pursue in your life. Everything goes with the flow, and what belongs to you will not leave.
Go wrong and turn back in time; If you love the wrong person, you must know how to let go.
Yes, you are not in my heart, and I am no longer the only one for you.
It's a piece of cake, why bother, that's all.