First, give gifts to teachers and build relationships.
Most of these parents are businessmen, and they advocate mutual benefit. Therefore, they will feel that giving gifts and small favors to teachers can make teachers happy and take care of children. Others added the teacher's WeChat, chatted with the teacher all day, and invited the teacher out for dinner from time to time. Parents think it will please the teacher, but what they don't know is that it will bring trouble to the teacher's life.
Second, kiss up to the teacher.
Generally, teachers will now set up a parent group on WeChat to inform the news. But there are also parents who brush their screens in the form of flattery. Many parents complain that they can't see the teacher's notice, and it's boring to find it in many chat records. It's embarrassing to kiss the teacher's ass, and so is the teacher. It's embarrassing for children to know.
Third, create trouble for teachers.
Some parents take care of their children at all costs in order to attract the teacher's attention. Ask the teacher everything, for example, if the child has a cold and has no quilt, parents blame the teacher; Parents should also look for teachers if their children are not full. Parents' behavior has had a great reaction, which not only attracted the attention of teachers, but also increased the difficulties of teachers. I don't think this is asking teachers to take care of your children. It's like pushing a child into a fire pit. If you harass the teacher and blame the teacher, what if one teacher can't help taking it out on the child? This is killing children.
Parents do these things to attract the attention of teachers and let them take extra care of their children. But pushing too hard will be counterproductive.
First, fully trust teachers.
Since parents send their children to kindergarten, they should give their teachers full trust. No matter how much you can't bear to part with your children, you should let go at the right time. Teachers spend the longest time with children in kindergarten. Only when parents trust their teachers can teachers take care of their children.
Second, actively cooperate with teachers' work.
After children go to kindergarten, they spend half their time in kindergarten. Parents should actively cooperate with the teacher's work, and don't doubt the teacher while giving the child to the teacher. Too much interference from parents will make teachers' work unable to work normally. And there are so many people in the class, and the teacher is around your children all day. What do other parents think? Actively cooperating with the teacher's work will make the teacher feel good and pay more attention to the children.
Third, actively take the lead in participating in activities.
There are performances in kindergartens every year, but children are not actively enrolled. At this time, parents can take the lead in encouraging their children to participate. I believe the teacher will thank you for helping her solve this big problem. Pay more attention to your children.
Fourth, pay more attention to your children.
If parents send their children to kindergarten and give them all to the teacher, the teacher will not take care of them. Some parents can't see anyone at the parent-teacher meeting when they are busy, and feel that since their children are sent to kindergarten, it is the teacher's business. Teachers also have their own lives and children to take care of. You can't always take care of your family.
So parents can't have this idea. If you don't care about your children yourself, how can you expect others to take care of them? Paying attention to children's affairs can also be regarded as cooperating with the teacher's work.
5. Treat yourself and your teacher correctly.
Parents should not think that teachers will be good to their children if they kiss up to their children and please them. This will not only embarrass the teacher, but also make the children have wrong cognition. You have to see clearly that you and the teacher are cooperative and take care of the children together. It's not about subordinates. Parents and teachers can get along normally, cooperate with each other and fulfill their obligations.
I believe that every parent does this for their children. Sometimes you may be confused because you love children too much. However, parents can rest assured that since children are in kindergarten, teachers have the obligation to take care of them. What parents can do is to fully trust and respect teachers, and cooperate with teachers to educate and take care of their children.