Kong Rong, an adult, abandoned his wife and children.
When Qingzhou was under siege, Kong Rong still drank and wrote poems in order to keep his demeanor as a celebrity. When Qingzhou City was about to be breached, Kong Rong quietly escaped under the escort of relatives. He didn't bring his wife and children, and Kong Rong's wife and children were killed by Yuan Tan Jun when he broke the city.
There is no blood relationship between parents and children, and there is no cover for self-immolation.
Kong Rong once said, "A father is lust for his son! The child is for the mother, for example, in a bottle, and then it will leave! " This means that there is nothing amiable about parents. For the father, having children is just to satisfy the lust. For the mother, the stomach is just a container, and the child is only temporarily stored there. As soon as the child is born, it has nothing to do with the container. "
Although he put forward the theory that "there is no blood relationship between parents and children" in order to oppose Cao Cao's proposition of ruling the world with "filial piety", his outspoken rhetoric was really unacceptable at the moment. And he, too, really put into practice the wise saying "If you talk too much, you will lose". Because he and Cao Cao have different political positions, he was executed by Cao Cao only for his unfilial remarks.
Moral sophistry eats people.
According to the story of the Jin Dynasty, there was a man named Guan Qiuyang at the end of the Han Dynasty who took his younger brother and companions to escape the war. When the snow dispersed, Guan Qiuyang said to his younger brother, "If you don't eat your companion now, the three of us will die together." So the two brothers killed this companion together and survived.
Kong Rong's view on this matter is that Guan Qiuyang cherishes the body given by his parents, so there is nothing wrong with having a companion, because this person is just a companion, not a friend. If Guan Zhong eats Bao Shu and Gong Yu eats Ji Wang, that's no good. The people Guan Qiuyang eats are just talking birds and animals, just like dogs eat foxes and foxes eat parrots. Nothing strange!
Does Kong Rong mean that only Guan Qiuyang's two brothers were born by his parents, and that companion was not born by his parents, so you don't have to cherish the body given by your parents? Such sophistry is really against human relations, which shows that Kong Rong's cognition of life is really biased!
However, we can't completely deny him because of his low moral character and cognitive deviation. After all, he also gave the world a pear. Anyway, this matter has a great influence on us, because the older generation has been tirelessly educating children, which has always been a positive story!