It is better to listen more than to see, to talk more than to do more, to ask more than to be suspicious, and to prevent more than to worry.

Pay attention everywhere, and you will find problems; Learning everything will solve the problem. Too much pettiness can lead to bad things, and carelessness can lead to mistakes.

Good things should be responded, and bad things should be stopped. You can't do good without me, and you can't do bad without me.

Being a man will never bring troubles to bed, and doing things will never leave resentment to relatives.

Speak slowly about urgent matters, clearly about important matters, carefully about uncertain matters, not about things that didn't happen, things that can't be done, things that hurt people, and things that have been done now.

Do what you want to do first, then do what you like, and stay away from what you can't do. The ability to understand human feelings is the greatest ability, and learning to be a man is the greatest learning.

Don't overeat, talk too much, go too far and do too much. Do your duty, take care of the present, overdo it and lose the future.

Little things can make you complete or destroy you. A little thing can often be a lifelong lesson. Only by starting from a little thing can we realize the true meaning of being a man.

The wrong choice is the biggest waste of life. Never waste your life on unnecessary things. Always remember this maxim: do it quickly, but don't worry, planning is more important than execution.

Knowing doesn't mean knowing, knowing doesn't mean doing, doing doesn't mean getting the word, and getting the word doesn't mean knowing. Doing what should be done is smart, and doing what should not be done is stupid.

It is not necessary to be the same as the secular, nor should it be different from the secular; You don't have to be flattering or disgusting to do things. Zhi Zhi, who combines knowledge and practice, is a virtuous person and flexible as her husband.

The quality of a thing should be tested by its actual efficacy. If you have something to say, you can test it.

Say what you don't want to say but should say, and don't say what you want to say but shouldn't say; Do what you don't want to do but should do, and don't do what you want to do but shouldn't do.

Honestly speaking, dishonesty is a lie; Being friendly to others, being unfriendly is arrogance; Read with your heart, and you will accomplish nothing without your heart; Doing things seriously, not being serious is slack.

Being a man and doing things can be round: the party should change with constancy, and the circle should change with constancy; Fang is the backbone of life, and the circle is the tip of life; Square is principle, circle is machine change; Be considerate to yourself and be considerate to others; Inner weight and outer circle; Be a man in the square and return to reality in the circle!

Be a man, be one inside and outside, and do things in one; Match words with deeds and actions; Be consistent throughout your life and never be unfaithful through the ages.

Philosophical law of dealing with affairs: simplicity will be found in clutter; Harmony can arise from chaos; Seek opportunities in difficulties. I won't throw away the first one until I get the second one.

Competition, win and lose; Status, up and down; Opportunities are good and bad; In life, there are gains and losses. Do the best you can and have fun with it!

Speak implicitly and avoid being too exposed; Be tactful and avoid being too straight; Do things in harmony and avoid being too serious; Be profound, not too harsh.