1 The wisdom of being humble: having a clear mind but being confused on the surface

The highest state of being a human being is to be honest and humble. He obviously knows everything, but he looks stupid and stupid. This kind of person is unassuming, not superior to others, approachable, and is more likely to be welcomed by everyone. Society is very realistic, and people's hearts are even more unpredictable. When your smart appearance and sharpness stand out, you will be jealous of others. So why bother? Showing off yourself is nothing more than wanting others to look up to you, nothing more than vanity and a bright face. But when you are squeezed out in official circles and workplaces and cannot express yourself to your heart's content, do you think that your cleverness is causing disaster?

2. The wisdom of being slow-tongued: Don’t be sharp-tongued, regardless of the person’s shortcomings.

There are not a few people who suffer disaster because of their words. The reason is nothing more than a love of showing off one's teeth, a love of talking about people's merits, and stirring up trouble. The most unjust thing is those people whose unintentional words were heard and quoted out of context, causing eternal hatred. So, wouldn’t it be possible to avoid a lot of trouble if you were careful with your words from the beginning? As a human being, you must never forget the admonition that disaster comes from your mouth. When dealing with the world, one must never forget the admonition that disaster comes from the mouth.

3 The wisdom of forbearance: know the male and guard the female, and use retreat to advance

The real heroes are those who can stretch and bend. No one has a smooth life. Therefore, it is worth feeling proud when you are proud, but you cannot be depressed when you are frustrated. You should accumulate strength to wait for a comeback. Only by forbearing at this time can you taste all the flavors of life. Tolerance when frustrated is to know the male and guard the female, and to retreat in order to advance.

4 Tolerant wisdom: peace is the most precious thing, tolerance and generosity

Confusion is a kind of tolerance, it is getting sand in the eyes, and tolerance and generosity are the most precious thing. . You have to be generous to others, and you have many friends and many paths. When you tolerate others, you also accumulate favor for yourself. The sea accepts all rivers, and it is great to be tolerant; if people are tolerant, it is easy to achieve things.

5 The wisdom of being a human being: Foolish on the surface, shrewd on the inside

There are no disciples when people are careful, so people can’t be too smart or too careless. Usually, be a little confused and leave room for others. Fang is the only way to win. Of course, you can be confused on the surface, but you have to make small calculations in your heart and adjust yourself from time to time. Look far ahead, don't focus on other people's shortcomings, and know how to make big profits by taking small losses.

6. The wisdom of survival: be flexible, calm and cautious

I went to visit a Zen master alone. The door of the monastery was very short, so he didn't pay attention and bumped his head. The Zen master told him that if he wanted to avoid bumping his head, he must learn to lower his head. The same goes for being a human being.

7 Communicative Wisdom: Be good at being confused and make a lot of people.

In social situations, there is no need to argue between true and false. Some of what other people say can be taken seriously, and some can't. A person who is good at confusion can be friends with anyone, and he can face even the offenses of others with a smile. By not taking everything seriously, you can avoid conflicts and be able to make ends meet.

8. Wisdom in dealing with things: deliberately showing weakness and pretending to be confused

Horses may stumble, and people may stumble. How can we not be careful when dealing with others? A small fall may cause little pain, but a big fall may cause more than just pain. What you need to understand is: By deliberately showing weakness and pretending to be confused at the beginning, can't you avoid standing too high and falling painfully?

9. The wisdom of self-cultivation: be optimistic about life, be content and always happy

A confused outlook on life is to be optimistic about life, be content and always happy. He can see everything, so he is not surprised, calm and happy. . If you want to be optimistic, you must have a normal heart, let everything take its course, don't care about right and wrong, and watch the flowers bloom and fall in front of the court with a smile. If your life is less than a hundred years old, why worry about a thousand years old? Isn’t it cool to just forget the unpleasant things in life if you can and not to force anything? Rough words but not rough reasoning, why can't you become a rich man? You will understand after reading it

A person's concepts and thinking methods will determine the kind of world he lives in. For example, in the eyes of the poor, this is a world with too little money; in the eyes of the rich, this is a world full of gold. In reality, however, both poor and rich people live in the same world. There is this sentence in Balzac's "Country Doctor": There are always fewer rich people than poor people; therefore, once the struggle becomes a contest of manpower and material resources, victory always belongs to the poor. I hope this article can bring some changes to your thinking.

Differences in a popular sense

1. Poor women: When going home, women will teach their children to say: Congratulations on getting rich when they see their elders! Subconsciously, they use their children That tender face was exchanged for pitiful New Year's money. If things go on like this, the children will be instilled with a begging mentality!

2. Rich women: warn their children every time before going home: Honey, you are not allowed to ask for the elders’ lucky money after you go home, because our family is only responsible If you give out red envelopes, your mother will compensate you double when you come back! If things go on like this, the child will have the aristocratic temperament in his heart!

3. Poor men: When they come home during the New Year and the holidays, they do two things, drink until the sky is dark, Play cards all day and night.

4. Rich men: When you get home, go visit the elderly in the village and treat those who need gratitude to a meal. Give small red envelopes to children, big red envelopes to old people, and big red envelopes to children. The New Year's money will be taken away by the parents. Giving too much New Year's money to children is condoning their continued poverty! Young people can't take away the old man's red envelope. The old man trembles with trembling hands and sheds tears of gratitude: What a good man, none of my children have given me so much. After you leave, they will help you pray to Bodhisattvas every day to bless you with good health and abundant wealth. With so many blessings, it will be difficult for you not to get rich!

5. When the poor go home, they just gather together. Eat and drink together, every year.

6. When rich people go home, they hold regular family meetings. The contents of the family meetings include: annual summary and planning for the coming year, emotional planning, and personal growth plans. Such a family will only become more and more prosperous!

7. When poor people get together, they often ask each other where they work, how much they earn each month, and how much money they have saved this year; those who earn more will treat each other to dinner, drinks or karaoke. Sort of like that, so everyone started pretending to be poorer, and ended up getting poorer and poorer!

8. When rich people get together, they often ask each other how much money they still owe to the bank. A says he owes 1 billion, B says he owes 1.5 billion, and C says he owes 5 billion. Some people will say: Oh, why do you owe so little? I owe 12 billion. Is that key node not managed well? , Do you want to help?

9. The poor are at home and play cards from the 28th to the 8th and 9th day of the year, and even the Lantern Festival. They reluctantly go back to the city when they can't make up enough money.

10. Rich people generally don’t stay at home for too long. After returning to the city, they go to pay New Year greetings to various leaders, and then make an appointment to play golf together, and then talk about which set they plan to win in the coming year. Which company to control, which enterprise to acquire, etc.

11. What is a rich person? A person with a net worth of more than 10 million is considered a rich person, a person with a net worth of more than 100 million is called a rich man, a person with a net worth of more than 1 billion is called a tycoon, and a person with a net worth of more than 10 billion is called a rich man. Only those who have been passed down for three generations are called noble bloodlines!

There is an old saying in China: You can only be rich for three generations, but the aristocrats in the West can continue to prosper for three hundred years! Because we lack: family culture, family beliefs, family Systematic inheritance!

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Would rather squeeze into the rich and be poor

than stay among the poor and be rich

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Walk with those who stick to their beliefs

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Break down the 12 major differences

1. About self-awareness

Poor people: rarely think about how to make money and how to make money. They think that they should be like this for the rest of their lives and do not believe that anything will change.

The rich man: He firmly believes in his bones that he is not born to be poor, but to be rich. He has a strong sense of making money. This is something in his blood. He will do whatever it takes to make money. Make yourself rich.

2. About leisure

Poor people: watching TV at home, being moved to tears by the plots of soap operas, and imitating the fashion on TV to arm themselves.

Rich people: When traveling to the market, they do not forget to bring the project contract with them even when they are playing golf.

3. About social circles

Poor people like to visit poor relatives. Most of the poor people’s circles are poor people, and they also reject socializing with rich people. Over time, their mentality becomes that of the poor. It has become the thinking of the poor, and the things it does are also the patterns of the poor. Everyone talks about discounted products and exchanges saving tips every day. Although it is good for training your survival ability, your vision will gradually be limited to such trivial matters, and your ambition will be wasted.

Rich people: They like to make friends who are helpful to them and can improve their various abilities. Don't just let yourself make friends based on your personal preferences.

4. About learning

Poor people: learn crafts.

Rich people: learn management.

5. About time

Poor people: A person who enjoys plenty of time cannot make a lot of money. If you want to be leisurely and relaxed, you will lose more opportunities to make money. The time of the poor is worthless and sometimes even superfluous. They don’t know how to spend it or how to mix it up without getting bored. If you can be angry because you spent an extra ten cents to buy a pound of cabbage, but not feel sad about wasting a day, this is a typical poor person's thinking.

Rich people: No matter how a person earns money, no matter how much or how little money he earns, it must accumulate over time. The rich man's play is also a way of working and has a purpose. The rich man's leisure is in his body, cultivating his character in order to fight again, and his head is never idle for a moment; the poor man's leisure is in his thoughts, his hands and feet are busy, busy going to the mahjong table to touch more hands.

6. On the sense of belonging

The poor: they are a screw. Because of their humbleness and lack of security, the poor eagerly hope to belong to and depend on a group.

So they use the standards of this group as their own standards, make everything in themselves conform to the standards, work, travel, and even migrate for the benefit of the group. For the poor, working steadily for decades in a well-known company, from an intern to a senior executive, is simply a wonderful ideal.

Rich people: The leaders of those groups are usually rich people. On the one hand, they always instill in the poor people: Unity is strength. If you do not belong to your own group, you are nothing and penniless. . But on the other hand, they have never stopped recruiting and training new people so that they can replace you at any time.

7. About investment and treatment of wealth

Poor people: The classic view is that using less means making more. For example, if you open a noodle shop, the return rate is 100%. If you invest 20,000 yuan, you will make a net profit of 20,000 yuan a year, which is very good for the poor. Even if the poor have money, they are reluctant to spend it. Even if they finally make up their mind to invest, they are unwilling to take risks, and in the end they will not be able to take that step. The most talked about thing among the poor is that chickens lay eggs, eggs lay chickens, and they make a lot of money. But the hope built on a hen is so fragile after all.

The rich: The starting point of the rich is to make a profit. Similarly, when opening a noodle shop, rich people will think that the capital of a noodle shop is only 20,000 yuan. If there is 100 million yuan in capital, wouldn't it be necessary to open 5,000 noodle shops? To manage them one by one, the big boss has to worry so much, and how tired he is. Hair? It’s better to invest in a hotel. One hotel is enough to absorb all the capital. Even if the rate of return is only 20%, there will be a profit of 20 million in one year!

8. About passion

Poor people: Whether you can do something successfully depends on whether you have passion. Poor people: There is no passion. He always follows the steps, rarely makes big mistakes, and never does his best. Without passion, there is no excitement, and it is impossible to devote oneself to work wholeheartedly. It cannot be said that most poor people have no passion, but their passion is always consumed in too specific things: he will be excited when his boss praises him; he will be excited when the store has a discount; he will burst into tears when the broken mirror is reunited on TV. As the string goes down, all the poor have is an emotion.

Rich man: How can a sparrow know the ambition of a swan? Why would princes, generals and ministers rather have the kind? With such passion, the poor will not be poor in the end! Passion is a kind of nature and a symbol of vitality. With such passion, Passion is the spark of inspiration, the distinctive personality, the strong appeal in interpersonal relationships, and the courage and method to solve problems.

9. About self-confidence

The poor: The self-confidence of the poor must be armed to the teeth. Only through high-end brand-name clothing and luxurious configuration can it bring them more self-confidence. The self-confidence of poor people often does not come from the heart and is natural.

Rich man: Li Ka-shing said when talking about his business secrets: In fact, it is nothing special. When times are good, never be overly optimistic; when times are bad, never be overly pessimistic. In fact, it is a kind of self-confidence unique to the rich. Only with self-confidence can we not be influenced by external forces, and only with self-confidence can we make correct decisions.

10. About habits

Poor: There is a story about a rich man giving a cow to a poor man. The poor began to struggle with hope. But cattle have to eat grass and people have to eat, so life is difficult. The poor man then sold his cows, bought some sheep, ate one, and used the rest to give birth to lambs. But the lamb was not born yet, and life became difficult again. The poor man sold the sheep again and bought chickens, hoping that the chickens would lay eggs and make a living, but his life did not change. In the end, the poor man also killed the chickens, and his ideals completely collapsed. This is the habit of poor people.

Rich people: According to an investment expert, the secret to the success of rich people is: when you have no money, no matter how difficult it is, don’t use your investments and savings. Pressure will make you find new ways to make money and help you pay back your debt. Clear the bill. This is a good habit. Character forms habits, and habits determine success.

11. About the Internet

Poor people: Chat online. Poor people chat because, firstly, they have more time, and secondly, their mouths cannot be idle by nature. Rich people pay attention to honor and disgrace, and are gentle and kind. This is called self-cultivation. Only with self-cultivation can a tree grow big and have deep roots. The poor can't care so much. They are looked down upon by others all day long. They are covered in trivial matters. How much of a coward are they? They can't even talk about it? Chatting makes sense!

Rich people: Look for investment opportunities online. Rich people use the Internet to take advantage of the low cost and high efficiency of the Internet to find more investment opportunities and projects, and apply the convenience to their own businesses.

12. About consumption and spending money

Poor people: Buying famous brands is to experience satisfaction. They like to experiment with newly released fashionable products. I believe that expensive ones must be good.

Rich people: Buy famous brands to save time in selecting details. Compared with the price of consumer goods, they care more about the quality of the product. For example, they will buy a 15 yuan pure cotton T-shirt, but they will not. Expensive Lycra products. Whatever your beauty is, I will have that complexion

1. Suddenly I found that now that I am on QQ, I no longer want to chat with anyone. I just posted the news silently, and my classmates and friends in the past also just followed, liked, and talked silently.

2. Talking has become a channel of communication, maybe we are no longer young...

3. From now on, no matter poor or rich, healthy or sick, happy or The pain of separation, life or death, is irrelevant to us, are you willing?

4. I opened my mouth to you once and you didn’t help me. I will never open my mouth to you again. No matter who you are, thank you for being there when I needed you most.

5. When you are sad, cry loudly, sing loudly, and eat loudly. Don’t hold it in your heart. It will tire yourself and those who love you.

6. There is a feeling called "I feel like you are bored of me when you don't reply to my messages."

7. Whatever you look like, I will look like you.

8. The first thing we age is never our appearance, but our reckless ambition.

9. Don’t stay tied up in an awkward thing for too long. If you are bound for a long time, you will be annoyed, in pain, epiglottis, tired, sad, and heartbroken. In fact, in the end, you are not struggling with things, but with yourself. No matter how awkward it is, you have to learn to withdraw.

10. The best revenge is not hatred, but indifference declared from the bottom of your heart. Why bother to hate someone who has nothing to do with you. The highest state of life is tolerance, and the highest state of getting along is respect.

1 To succeed, you need friends; to achieve great success, you need enemies.

2 As long as you can realize it, it is never too late to start; the time when you think it is too late is precisely the earliest time.

3 If a person does an ordinary thing well, it is extraordinary;

4 There is only one step from the sublime to the absurd, but there is no way from the absurd to the sublime;

5 Life is like a ball, no matter how it rolls around, it will always stop at a point;

6 Famous quotes: In the past, when we met with friends, a thousand cups would be too little, but now we meet again when we meet again. A thousand cups of wine know little;

7 Those who rely on power to make a career will never be able to stand up straight. Stooping down is to please the superiors, stretching out is to scare the common people. If you die one day, your waist will still be bent, because of the drag of swinging up and down, you will no longer be able to support it;

8 The two major tragedies in life are one of despair and one of complacency;

9 If a person lives only for money, it means he has nothing; if a person lives only for fame, it means he has nothing. When money runs out, reputation disappears. Only man's creation can remain in the world forever;

10 If a person can do a simple thing well, it is not simple;

11 There are only people who can't figure it out in the world and have not left. A dead road;

12 People who deceive others always think they are smart. When they tell lies and perform tricks, they often act like innocent children, covering their eyes with their hands, thinking that others cannot see them. In fact, others can see it clearly;

13 Living in the world is nothing more than making others smile, and occasionally laughing at others;

14 Although people have different social experiences and have traveled a long way Different, yet people's faults are often very similar. Therefore, smart people always accept the lessons of their predecessors, while stupid people are just the opposite;

15 People living in the world are writing books consciously or unconsciously. Whether you write well or poorly, whether you write thickly or thinly, whether you write mediocrely or wonderfully, it all depends on how you use your pen;

16 I have been intoxicated by traveling in the vast land of China; looking up at the endless sky , I have been obsessed with it; if the earth is compared to matter and the sky is compared to spirit, I think the sky is more charming than the earth;

17 Ability is like a check, it is only useful if it is cashed. Otherwise it is worthless;

18 The pain engraved on the heart is more painful than the pain engraved on the face. The person who has the pain engraved in his heart is selfless, and he bears the pain himself; the person who has the pain engraved on his face is selfish, and his purpose is to let others pity him and share his pain; but most people, Often we only sympathize with those who have pain etched on their faces. Very few people take care of people who are suffering from pain in their hearts. This is also the stupidity of people's kindness;

19 Learning to respect others is to respect yourself; learning to appreciate others is to appreciate yourself; learning to care for others is to care for yourself; learning to love others is to love yourself Oneself;

20 The most valuable character in life is to live a responsible and natural life, do things down-to-earth, work conscientiously, make friends honestly, and behave with an open heart;

21 Classic Quotation - If life is in the wrong direction, stopping is progress;

22 Those who help others without expecting anything in return will not feel lost;

23 The highest state of life is tolerance. The highest state of getting along is respect;

24 To be a good person, you must first trust others and believe in the kindness of others. After all, there are only a few bad people and evil deeds.

We can't destroy the whole world just because of a few flying flies;

25 People who walk with their heads down only see the thickness of the earth, but ignore the height of the sky; people who walk with their heads up only see the Seeing the vastness of the sky, but ignoring the hardship and danger at the feet;

26 Only by experiencing all the hardships in life can one realize the value of life;

27 Love is not a business, and frustration is If you lose, you will lose everything; love is not a bet, if you lose, you will become a pauper. Love is the collision and agreement of two hearts, like the notes of a harmonious musical score, composing the holiness of the world;

28 The most generous person in the world is the most generous person who can say all the most beautiful things in the world. Panic: The most selfish person in the world is Liu Liu Paipai. He can hunt for the fruits of other people's labor and kick out people who are more capable than him;

29 In life, do not seek perfection, but seek perfection. Live a realistic life;

30 People who step on other people’s shoulders to show their height will sooner or later become an out-and-out dwarf;

31 Money can buy comfort and enjoyment, buy Without knowledge and health, sincere emotions and love;

32 It is easy for people to live hypocritically, but it is difficult to live authentically. Live a hypocritical and tiring life, live a true and relaxed life;

33 Make progress in your career, / No matter how short or long your life is, there is no need to worry about failure in your career;

34 The body is as healthy as a mountain, and the mind is as calm as water , indifferent to fame and fortune. This is the highest state of life. Whoever can live in such a state will live a comfortable life;

35 The so-called life, old age, illness and death means living well, aging slowly, getting sick late, and dying quickly. ;

36 Comparing oneself to fame and wealth will only increase people’s troubles, while those who compare one’s career will definitely enhance one’s will and confidence;

37 The so-called iron rice bowl does not mean eating in one place for a lifetime. , but to have food wherever you go throughout your life;

38 Using despicable means to achieve a noble goal is also not a noble behavior;

39 A mountain has its own height and slope , a river has width and depth; a human being has shortcomings and mistakes;

40 People without lofty beliefs are like a pool of stagnant water, which can never make magnificent waves;

41 Life is not all hardships and difficulties, it also contains comfort and joy; just like the seasons we experience, spring comes after the harsh winter, and the sun shines after the wind and snow;

42 On the long road of life, Whether it's a violent storm or a treacherous shoal. The most important thing is that the fire of desire in life cannot be extinguished;

43 First love is the first blooming flower, rich and fragrant. It makes people recall the sweetness and passion of first love for a lifetime;

44 Classic statement: Praise during life is often false, but comments after death are often true;

45 The joy of career and work does not lie in The success and achievements achieved, more fun lies in the process of ups and downs;

46 people, remembering things can not hold grudges, remembering things can increase knowledge; holding grudges can increase worries;

47 Loneliness in life is a kind of strength.

If a person can withstand loneliness, he will be free; if he cannot bear loneliness, he will be restrained by others;

48 People who show off their status are often low-status and are driven by vanity; people who show off their wealth will Often those with empty pockets are deceiving themselves;

49 Troubles and happiness are the two seeds of life. If you sow the seed in your heart, it will sprout and grow;

50 The life of a person without knowledge is like a tree without leaves, lacking vitality;