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Day 34-

Title disassembly

The words "best" and "three cares" in the title are eye-catching and can stimulate readers' desire to read, especially those young mothers who are eager to know which three cares. Concise title, warm and wise.

Content disassembly

At the beginning of the article, the author quoted the famous German educator Froebel as saying that the fate of the country is in the hands of the mother, which shows the importance of the mother in the growth of children. (material 1)

Mother loves children, but she doesn't know how to do it.

Yin Jianli, an expert in adolescent education and a master of education, successfully trained her daughter. Her educational experience is condensed in the book "A good mother is better than a good teacher". (Material 2)

At the beginning of the article, the materials of two education experts are used to explain the theme: "What mothers need to learn more is to let go and know what can be ignored."

0 1 unaccustomed, it is the best "tube"

The story shared by Zhang Xinyi in the variety show "Men Doing Housework". Tell parents to educate their children not to spoil them blindly, and if they are not satisfied, they will hit the "abuser". In the long run, children will develop a "revenge mentality." (Material 3)

Yin Jianli educates his daughter Yuan Yuan, who is moved by a small bench. Yin Jianli quickly rubbed the bench and said to the bench, "It won't hurt soon." .

The thought of "caring about the small bench" gives us the enlightenment that educating children is not to take it out on them, nor to be responsive, nor to spoil them, but to teach them to be kind and open-minded in daily chores. (Material 4)

No company is the best "company"

Parents help their children with their homework.

Xiaoxue helped the children with their lessons and got dizzy. (Material 5)

Yin Jianli's Different Views and Practices on Accompanying Children with Homework. She believes that parents accompanying their children to do homework are disintegrating their good habits, which is not conducive to cultivating their learning awareness.

Yin Jianli's practice of not accompanying her daughter to do her homework and some of her viewpoints are worth learning. (Material 6)

Viewpoint of the article: Only when parents dare to let go and give the initiative to their children can children learn to be responsible for themselves.

If you disagree, make your child feel happier.

In the story of the American TV series "Our Days", Rebecca and his wife took their children to their grandmother's house for Thanksgiving. On the way, the car broke down and the whole family had to stay in a shabby little hotel. However, parents still had a sense of ceremony to take their children to celebrate the holidays, maintaining their children's affection and leaving a good memory of Thanksgiving. (Material 7)

Yin Jianli also adopted a similar ceremony-the mother personally made a male Barbie doll as a Christmas present, which left a beautiful childhood memory for her daughter Yuanyuan and helped her daughter feel and learn to love. The author believes that a sense of ceremony is the standard of a happy childhood. (Material 8)

Quote the words of the German writer Loreles in Why Do We Need Rituals: "A life with a sense of ritual makes us truly have a sense of existence."

Article point of view: Children who grew up with a sense of ritual know how to live a lively look in ordinary rice, oil and salt.

A good mother is better than a good teacher.

As the saying goes, "there are no crops that don't grow well, only farmers who can't grow crops;" There are no children who can't teach well, only mothers who can't teach well. "Explain the importance of a good mother to the growth of children and a family. (Material 9)

Use the words written by Lao She in My Mother to illustrate that what a mother gives her children is a kind of life education. (material 10)

Article opinion: A good mother is better than a good teacher.

Open-box understanding

The article is rich in material, with the practice and opinions of educational experts, the enlightenment of educational stories in Chinese and foreign film and television dramas, the classic quotations and famous sayings of educating children, and the golden sentences of the author. These materials demonstrate the viewpoint of the article, highlight the idea of the article, and bring a feast of wisdom for parents to educate their children.

In this paper, the general structure of the total score is adopted, and the importance of mothers' choice of ways to educate their children is summarized at the beginning, which leads to the choice of "three noes" for mothers to educate their children. At the end, the theme is pointed out by saying and Mr. Lao She's words-a good mother is better than a good teacher. The main part of the article adopts a parallel structure, presented in the form of "three noes", with distinct levels and clear views.

The author's writing language is concise, his words are fluent, and his expressions such as quoting classics, narration and discussion are skillful, cordial and infectious. He makes sense through stories and makes readers want to read, like to read and love to read by quoting reasonable things.

20214 August