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(2) Everything will be fine, and all shall be well.
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Everything will be fine. All shall be well, jack shall have Jill.
People in China like happy endings, so do ancient people when they write articles. A work can be successful, and it can also arouse readers' resonance and rebellion with shocking and tragic works. Or build a beautiful fairy tale, so that good wishes can moisten people's hearts. A Dream of Red Mansions is a model of the former, while the latter is flooded with works. If it is to succeed, it must be a pioneering work. "The West Chamber" is such a work that tells the story of "All's well that ends well", and this classic blessing also comes from this opera.
I don't know when it started, but the phrase "All shall be well, jack shall have Jill" suddenly became popular inexplicably.
I remember two years ago, I went to visit a marriage and love program. When a well-dressed hostess finally made a concluding remark, it was estimated that her tongue didn't listen to her, and she accidentally said "May all lovers be good" as "May all rich people be good", which caused the audience to burst into laughter and the hostess blushed. Who knows that a year later, the so-called "all shall be well, jack shall have Jill" turned out to be a funny online buzzword.
I have always believed that what exists is reasonable. At that time, the word "All's well that ends well" was deeply rooted in the hearts of the people because in the feudal society where arranged marriages were rampant, men and women were married according to the orders of their parents and the words of matchmakers. Both men and women did not say that they were free to fall in love, and even meeting before marriage did not conform to the "morality" of that era, so there were The West Chamber, The Peony Pavilion, love at first sight with Zhang, and the dream private meeting. Of course, emotions are inevitable, even narrow escape. Finally, a loyal wife, all lovers will have lovers, and jack shall have Jill. I believe this is not only the final destination of talented people and beautiful women on the stage of national drama, but also represents the beautiful expectation of that era for the ideal marriage of perfect talented people and beautiful women.
It was not until I grew up and stepped into the society and began to get in touch with daily necessities that I realized that the so-called "talented people match beautiful women, and beautiful women love heroes" was just a myth, the naive idea of traditional scholar daydreaming and the wishful thinking of kind audiences. Can't stand the grind of life and can't stop the erosion of time. Beautiful woman, seven fairies and poor boy, Yong Dong, your happy days of plowing and weaving for me will always be a beautiful legend. Just imagine, Yong Dong is just a poor middle peasant, who wears rags and eats very little every day. As a princess, the seven fairies married him. In the first year or two, it's probably because love is so powerful that I won't care for a while. After many years, can this little flower, who grew up in a greenhouse, sing "Dedication of Love" unconditionally as always? Even if the seven fairies married a chicken, followed a dog and followed Dong, they completely lost the bad habit of pampering the princess's daughter and successfully transformed into a gentle and virtuous working woman. But in "But not as those who have been poor together know", the Seven Fairy weaves until dawn every night. She has no money to buy high-grade cosmetics, so she will be born prematurely soon, and the crow's feet around her eyes will report in advance. Can she still hold Yong Dong's heart firmly after becoming a "yellow-faced woman" in less than ten years? One thousand Yong Dong later made a fortune, started a big business, and then targeted the little shepherdess in the village. As a result, the love ideal of the seven fairies was shattered in the face of cruel and trivial life. The love tragedy of "How many birds have become swallows in the same forest" lamented by Mr. Jonathan Lee in "Song of Ordinary People" will probably be staged in front of the seven fairies of Yong Dong, a fairy couple!
Titanic, a super crying movie, must be still fresh in everyone's memory. Sitting in the cinema at that time, I deeply felt how the audience around me "burst into tears". However, to paraphrase Ms. Hong Huang's comments, it was just a story that a first-class daughter fell in love with a last-class migrant worker instantly. Ms Hong Huang defined this romantic love as just an affair. What is an affair? Ms Hong Huang made two definitions in an article specially written for this purpose. The first definition is: when feelings transcend social class and social circle; The second definition is: it must be an asshole thing with no result, just for a moment. If an affair can lead to such a serious matter as a wedding, it is not an affair. Therefore, the love between Titanic and the painter of migrant workers in Beloved Daughter is a wordless ending. Once the ship didn't sink and the painter of migrant workers didn't die, my darling daughter went ashore, took notes and got married. I'm afraid love will be "transferred". The flustered marriage life of the seven fairies and Yong Dong mentioned above will have to be transplanted to the golden couple with blond hair and blue eyes, and not only will the "Ocean Star" disappear.
It's not that I don't know, the world is changing really fast!
Recently, a woman writer gave me a copy of her works, one of which was Do you believe in love or money? The article made me feel a lot. She believes that women should believe in both love and money, because it is your blessing and luck that you get money because of love, but love without money is a garden in the sky and a mirage. Money is not the purpose of love, but without money for travel expenses, your beautiful love sailboat will run aground, because the bread and gasoline needed for the journey are bought with money. It's not that we are too poor to love the rich, but that women are born beautiful, just like birds' feathers, which are particularly fragile and need care and careful care. Finally, on behalf of the female compatriots who are eager to care, the female writer puts forward a hope: we'd better marry a good man with money, or a good man with appreciation potential, but we are temporarily short of money. The subtext of this sentence is that men must have money, whether now or in the future.
According to this woman writer, Dong Yonghe's migrant workers' painters in Titanic are all over the world, unless the rich get rich, and a painting sells for a big price, enough for two people to buy an apartment with two rooms and one living room.
But sometimes I'm confused. Once the traditional "love of city people" becomes "men have money and women have looks", all women are waiting for a price with their young beauty, and men invest in marriage with bundles of money like investment business. Isn't that a cynical famous saying by Zhang Ailing that "marriage is to some extent the legalization of male whoring and female prostitution"?