But if these three people are mother-in-law, the way to get along is very painful. Even if his old man is alive, he may not be able to handle it well. After all, he also has a famous saying: only women are hard to raise.

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Before I walked into my mother-in-law's house, I really thought of her like this: she is my husband's mother, my husband loves me, and I love his mother, as simple as that. But it was only after I really entered the marriage that I found that getting along with two women in my husband's family was like a wonderful palace drama.

Originally, there was no feud or conflict of interest between us, but the fact is very clear, and I can only describe it as "counterproductive". I didn't know at that time that even women had a mentality of keeping up with the joneses. Personally, their ideas are different. In my mother-in-law's opinion, it's really ridiculous, ridiculous and tiring that my appearance took away her son, while my sister-in-law thinks that you took away her brother and three women, and you can't stop playing all day.

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Their jealousy is not obvious, but they will try their best to deal with you by endlessly consuming you, including spirit, material and strength.

First of all, my mother-in-law will use a delaying tactic to gradually transfer all the housework to me. "Small yue (my name), my mother is old, it is good that you take the door. Look at you. You're quite capable. Neither of my children has taught this well. They are not as good as you together. I'll leave this tutor to you in the future, so I'm relieved. My son is really blessed. "

So he planned to "kill" me. When I found myself deeply troubled by housework after work, the three of them were so carefree and irrelevant that they looked dazzling and ridiculous. But my mother-in-law has sealed my mouth before. She is old and there is nothing she can do. My own children can't. what can I say?

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Sister-in-law's jealousy is reflected in our material consumption. She seems to mind her brother buying things for me. As soon as she finds out, she will immediately try to get something more expensive.

It seems that it was her brother's patent to give her money before. In her opinion, this kind of thing has been transferred to me, and it is a shame for her that her brother betrayed her. I can't understand this idea. I have no brothers. I wonder if there will be such ridiculous "jealousy and jealousy" between aunts and sisters for the same man.

But she was spoiled since she was a child. In her view, both her parents and her brother belong to her, and their role is to love her. My arrival threatened this, and she naturally targeted me, as simple as that.

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As long as these two women are unhappy, they will try their best to unite and "screw" me. I am a person who is not so thick-skinned. As long as people ask me, I can do it myself, and I am embarrassed to refuse. And somebody else, just not bashful to open my mouth. After countless losses, I realized how ridiculous it is to fill a big hole in others' hearts with my loyalty. In my opinion, this is patience, love me, love my dog. In another person's view, this is stupid, overbearing and wishful thinking.

When I realized that a woman had to learn to refuse in her husband's family in order to establish authority and spend the rest of her life happily, I began to resist. If I get off work late, I won't rush home to cook. If they can afford to wait until eight or nine o'clock in the evening, then wait. Anyway, I will order a takeaway to fill my stomach at work. My husband's money is in my hand, and my sister-in-law wants him to buy this and that for nothing. There is nothing he can do, and he is short of money, so he can't do what she wants. Gradually, things at home are in my favor.

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But the two of them are still unwilling, and they will always "eat something bad" whenever they have the chance. They asked me out for dinner the other day. At that time, I knew that these two women were going to "rip off" again.

As expected, I was dragged to the most expensive restaurant in this city, not to mention the most expensive, just myself, I only ordered two ordinary dishes. At dinner time, I only eat what I ordered, and the other chopsticks don't move.

When it was time to check out, I proposed AA, and they quit at that time. Mother-in-law said, "Daughter-in-law, why do you want AA for dinner?" "You ordered two thousand with your sister-in-law. Why should I pay the bill? " I waved my hand and gave my share to the waiter. As for how they escaped, it has nothing to do with me.

Three comments:

Sincerity is the most important thing to get along with others. Since we are destined to be a family, at least we should not use this method to harm our own interests to achieve some of our inner goals. This idea and practice itself is ridiculous.

But some people are so narrow and absurd, and the reason why people's hearts are complicated and dark can be seen from this. If you find that after you are married to your husband's family, the women in your husband's family are eyeing you collectively, then don't say what they say, just say yes to what they want, so that you can keep your head, maintain your self-esteem and win the respect of the other party. If it really doesn't work, it's better to live separately than to stay in front of you and eat all the money.