Although human nature has been difficult to change for thousands of years and is still ugly, what is interesting is that human nature is different in every era. This is a very interesting and worth pondering .
How is the human nature of contemporary people different from the human nature of the past? In the past, human nature only cared about filling their stomachs and would reveal their true nature for the sake of rice and bread.
Contemporary human nature will betray its nature for money, house, car, and face. You see, no matter how good friends are eating together, as long as one party doesn't like to pay the bill, it will be difficult to maintain the relationship. The party who keeps paying the bill will not want to have dinner with him anymore. This is the mentality of modern people. Human nature, when making friends, you cannot lose yourself.
So it makes people sigh, how many true close friends are there in this world? There are no disadvantages in all interactions. Would a close friend of the mountains and rivers care about benefits? What matters is the happiness of being together, and money may not buy happiness.
Today I re-read Higashino Keigo’s famous quotes and compiled ten famous quotes that clearly understand human nature. Let’s enjoy them together.
There is no sun in my sky, it is always dark, but it is not dark, because something replaces the sun. It's not as bright as the sun, but it's enough for me. With this light, I can treat the night as day. I have never had the sun, so I am not afraid of losing it. ——Keigo Higashino's "White Night Walk"
After reading this famous quote by Keigo Higashino, many people wonder, is there a sun in their sky? Are you living under the sun? Why do I feel like my sky is always dark? What keeps me alive?
Oh, by the way, there is something that has replaced the sun. Although it is not as bright as the sun, it is enough to support me to continue living. What is this? It’s a house, a car, an endlessly busy job, and a loan that can’t be repaid.
Many people really have this indifferent mentality to the end of their lives. Because they don’t have anything, they are not afraid of losing anything. It's like that kind of person who is heavily in debt. All he has is one life. If you want it, you can take it. If you don't dare to take it, I have to rely on this little light to continue living. It's better to die than live.
Sometimes, just living a good life is enough to save someone. —— Keigo Higashino "The Devotion of Suspect X"
Who can I save while I'm alive? Many people have thought about saving their parents first. What will your parents do if you leave? My parents raised me so much, how could I leave so selfishly?
Many people, no matter how unpleasant and painful things they encounter, think that as long as I live, I can still save someone, then they will not die so easily and will become stronger.
The mother is the strength of the son, and this is also true. As long as a person is not living for himself, if there is still love in his heart, he can suffer a lot for love.
No one lives independently in the world and has no relationship with anyone, so everyone must have a meaning of living when he is alive. He may feel nothing if he dies, but for those who love him, It's a huge pain and blow. Because those who leave first are the luckier, while those who are alive are the most painful and require a lot of courage.
"Just because something you once had is taken away does not mean that you will go back to a time when you didn't have that thing." - Keigo Higashino
We have lost what we once had. , I really can’t go back to the time when there was no such thing. Just like love, if we lose love, can we go back to the time when there was no love?
No, we have lost our love, and there is more pain in our hearts. It turns out that when there is no love, will it be very painful? At most, I am lonely. This is where Keigo Higashino sees things more deeply than we do.
As long as we have something and lose it again, we may not be able to return to the state we never had, because we already have the feeling and memory of having it. Once we lose it, the memory is still there. , cannot be erased.
Once the heart leaves, it will never come back. ——Keigo Higashino, "The Worry-Relief Grocery Store"
Before a person plans to leave someone, he must make a decision after careful consideration. This decision is definitely difficult to make, but Once you do it, your heart will really leave and will never come back.
If you want to retain someone whose heart has left, even if you retain him, he is still in Cao Ying and his heart is in Han, just like Guan Yu in Cao Ying felt the same way when he learned that Liu Bei was still alive. So he went with Liu Bei.
In reality, it is the same situation around us many times. If a person is tempted by someone, it is useless for you to try to keep her by your side. Just like some women who are attracted by rich men, once they are attracted, they will never come back.
In fact, all people who are struggling to make a choice already have the answer in their hearts. The consultation is just to get the choice that they prefer. The final so-called destiny is achieved step by step by oneself. ——Keigo Higashino, "Worry-Relief Grocery Store"
Many people really have this mentality. It seems very contradictory, but when Keigo Higashino analyzes it, it becomes clear. Many people ask others, consult others, and consult others. Many times, they already have the answer in their mind, and they just want to see what others think before making their own judgment.
Just like Cao Cao in the Three Kingdoms, he always likes to consult his own advisers. After consulting one by one, he does not say who is right or wrong, but makes his own judgment, which is what his heart prefers. , will be more clear. This is also the final answer. It is still in your own heart. You still know best what you plan to do.
There is no specific reason for severing ties between people. Even if there is on the surface, it is probably just the result of the heart leaving, and it is just an excuse made up after the fact. Because if the heart has not left, when something happens that will lead to the breakdown of the relationship, someone should work hard to save it. If not, it means that the relationship has already broken down. ——Keigo Higashino, "The Worry-Relief Grocery Store"
No matter what relationship it is, whether it is love, if the relationship breaks down and neither party tries to save it, it means that the relationship is long gone. If only one party is trying hard to stay, it means that the other party has already left.
If both parties are trying to stay and feel that it is a pity to separate and that it is a pity to leave each other, then the relationship is still there and they should not leave. But the problem is that in reality, when most relationships break down, it’s not always that one party is trying to stay, but the other party becomes ruthless.
The reason for the ruthlessness is mostly due to the deep misunderstanding between each other. But even if there is a conflict, there is always one party trying desperately to stay. This is the most heartbreaking and sympathetic thing.
Keigo Higashino’s 6 classic sayings clearly understand human nature and are thought-provoking!