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Recently, many listeners have asked me in private messages how to avoid comparing with others and affecting their normal life and mood.

My answer is: no competition, no comparison, no pursuit.

In life, many people are bragging, envious of others, always chasing others, turning life into an arena, making work and family a kind of bargaining chip, and getting lost in the constant comparison. My body is exhausted.

However, what troubles and worries me the most is never the prosperity and success of others, but my own attitude towards life.

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As the saying goes: "The fatigue of life, the tiredness of the heart, and the tiredness of the heart are half due to survival and half from comparison."

Everyone Everyone has difficulties and endless difficulties. If you just compare blindly, jealousy will kill your happiness. If you only define your quality of life by the success or failure of your career and the amount of income, it will be difficult to obtain true happiness. of happiness.

The mountains are high and the water is deep. Everyone has a life that suits them. Others will never be able to taste your ups and downs. Don't compare, don't complain, don't care, it will only bring you troubles. Adjust your mentality, and happiness will be attached.

Don’t be resentful, don’t complain, live a tolerant life;

Don’t compare, don’t be vain, live a life of indifference;

Don’t blame yourself, don’t Have low self-esteem and live a quiet life;

Don't fantasize, don't make up, live in reality.

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Be simple in heart, follow your own path, see your own scenery, live your own life, do not envy the glory of others, nor be jealous of the glory of others. You know, when you envy others, others also envy you.

It doesn’t matter if you are ordinary, as long as you are safe; it doesn’t matter if you are ordinary, as long as you have peace of mind.

For everyone, everything, everything, discover its beautiful side and enjoy its fun, and you will be filled with joy.

There is a time to have life, there is a time to have it in life, and don’t force it in life. Cherish what you have, ignore what you don’t have, know to be content, be easily satisfied, and don’t fight or grab, that is happiness.

In the second half of your life, don’t compare yourself with others, live your life well, happiness is in your heart, not in the eyes of others, you are unique and irreplaceable in this world.

In the journey of life, there is scenery along the way, there is blooming along the way, there is happiness for yourself, and I believe that everything is the best arrangement.