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The power of smiling is a kind of tolerance and acceptance, which makes people connect with each other. For a person, a group and even a society, the power of a smile can not be ignored.
People have two typical expressions-crying and laughing. Needless to say, smiling brings us happiness. No one wants his life to be numb, indifferent and sad. Everyone believes that "laughing is better than crying".
In real work and life, a person is as cold as ice and cold to you; Another person smiles at you, warm as spring. They will also ask you a job question. Which one do you like? Of course, it is the latter, and you will not hesitate to say anything to him. For the former, I'm afraid the opposite is true.
Do you have a smiling face?
People who reach out without smiling can win friendship, understanding and development by smiling at others, and turn hostility into friendship. No one likes to be slapped, and no one will refuse kindness. When you get along with your colleagues at work, give people more smiling faces and leave an optimistic smile impression, and your office will be half successful.
David Stimson is the president of a famous American company. He is still very young and has almost all the advantages that a successful man should have. He has a clear goal in life, perseverance and confidence to constantly overcome difficulties and surpass himself and others; He strode like a meteor, resolute, crisp and neat, and never dragged his feet; His voice is deep and round, and his speech is to the point; He always seems ambitious and full of energy. His seriousness and love for life are well known. And sincere to colleagues, pay attention to fair treatment. People who are close friends with him are proud to have such good friends.
But people who met him for the first time didn't like him very much. This surprised those who knew him well. Why? Looking closely, it turned out that he hardly smiled. ?
His deep and stern face is always full of bright eyes, closed lips and clenched teeth. Even in relaxed social situations. His graceful dancing on the dance floor touched almost all the ladies, but few people danced with him. The female employees of the company are even more tiger and leopard when they meet him, and the male employees don't have much support and recognition for him. In fact, he just lacks one thing, a deadly thing-a touching smiling face.
Because a smile is a kind of tolerance and acceptance, it shortens the distance between each other and makes people feel like they have a heart. People who like to smile at others are often more likely to leave their hearts. No wonder some people say that smiling is the pioneer of success. In interpersonal communication in the office, smile is the key for an employee to open his popularity; Without it, even if you have a good performance in your work, it is difficult to open the door to career success.
Here is the manager of a small computer company telling how he found the right person for a vacancy that is difficult to fill.
The candidate's situation.
"I almost have a headache to find a computer doctor for the company. Finally, I found a very good candidate who just graduated from a famous university. After several telephone conversations, I know that several other companies also want him to go, and they are all bigger and more famous than mine. When he accepted the job, I was really happy and surprised. After he started working, I asked him why he gave up other more favorable conditions and chose our company. He paused and then said,' I think it's because the managers of other companies are cold on the phone and have a strong business atmosphere, which makes me feel that this is just another kind of business communication. But your voice, it sounds like you really want me to be a member of the company. Because I seem to see you talking to me with a smile on the other end of the phone. You can believe that I am smiling when I answer the phone. "
Indeed, if actions are more powerful than words, then a smile is a silent action, which means: "I am very satisfied with you." You make me happy. I'm glad to meet you. It is true that a smile is the best "period" to end a speech.
"If you want others to meet you happily, you must meet others happily." This is the experience of a secretary in an administrative unit. He said that the director of his office always smiled and nodded every time he saw the boss, and the boss responded in the same way. But once he returned to his department, he was cold and strict with his subordinates and never laughed, so he couldn't get the smile and support from his colleagues.
Smiling at people is a manifestation of civilization, a kind of strength, a kind of self-restraint and a kind of hint. An employee who just learned to keep smiling said, "Since I started smiling at my colleagues, everyone was confused and surprised at first, and then I was very happy and praised. In the past two months, I have gained more happiness than in the past year. Now, I have formed the habit of smiling, and I find that everyone smiles at me. People who used to be as cold as ice are now warm and friendly. Last week, the unit engaged in democratic appraisal, and I was almost elected unanimously. This is a major event that I have never had in my work for so many years! "
In the office, the power of a smile is amazing. People with smiling faces have hope. Because a person's smile is his kind messenger, and his smile can illuminate everyone who sees it. No one likes to help those who are sad all day, let alone trust them. For those employees who are under pressure from their superiors, colleagues, customers or families, a smile can help them understand that everything is promising, that is, the world is happy. As long as you are busy and working, you can't help smiling, especially in the office where people are full of troubles. Keeping smiling will save you some unexpected troubles.
In a word, smiling can communicate with each other and trust each other, stimulate fighting spirit and efforts, make life more optimistic and create miracles. China Etiquette Network reminds you: Did you laugh today? If not, then smile together!
2. Speech
Dear teachers and students:
Hello everyone! The theme of my speech today is the power of smile.
The famous poet Spitler once said, "Smile is a language with multiple meanings." Indeed, smile is a universal language, which expresses many beautiful connotations in its own unique way-tolerance, care, enthusiasm and wisdom. ...
Just as language has its indescribable charm, a smile has immeasurable power. Sang Lan, a gymnast from China, won people's respect and praise because she kept smiling and never gave up in the face of fatal injuries. Visible, smile can make people live better, it makes people who have experienced setbacks will not lose confidence and courage in life. This is its power.
The power of smiling can make people have an optimistic and calm attitude. When Honitz was the general manager of CKN Iron and Steel Company, it was the economic crisis in 1970s. At that time, the company was not integrated and the management was chaotic, but he still smiled optimistically and boldly made several major decisions for the company to tide over the difficulties smoothly. Later, there was a harbinger of industrial decline in Britain. But under the optimistic face of Honitz, the company was safe and sound, and eventually became a world-famous steel company. It can be seen that the success of Honitz's decision is not only his ability, but also his smile, which has brought optimism and tenacious vitality to the whole company.
The power of smiling can also make people have a broad mind of "taking a step back and broadening the horizon". The East China Sea is vast and deep, from humble to hundred rivers; Although the five mountains are high, they are not as good as dirt. "People skills, the most important thing is to learn to accept. In today's society, there are more or less things that people feel unbearable. However, if you want to live a better life, you must face these things with a smile and accept them. Han Xin was humiliated by the butcher's son when he was a teenager, but he didn't "take off his hat and grab the land" or "a scholar can be killed but not humiliated". Instead, he stood up against people's ridicule and left with a smile. Later, when he became a general, he even let bygones be bygones, and appointed the son of the butcher who insulted him as a general. What a great move! It is because of the power of a smile that Han Xin treats the most intolerable things in the eyes of ordinary people with a broad mind. Why didn't it work?
In addition, the power of smile can make people have a spiritual realm, an artistic realm that transcends dust and clutter, understands the purport of quietness and communicates with friends. The realm of smiling is as deep as "talking and laughing with great scholars, not associating with Ding Bai", and as elegant as "picking chrysanthemums under the hedge and seeing Nanshan leisurely". In the "tea ceremony" and "flower path" in Japan, smiling is an important prerequisite. Therefore, you can always see tea drinkers smiling and knowledgeable, and flower lovers smiling and solemn and elegant. This is the spiritual realm and artistic realm that people who have the power to smile have. Facing life with this smiling realm, life is bright and full of art everywhere.
There is a famous saying in the west: "Only when a person knows how to use a smile as a language can he shoulder a heavy responsibility". The power of smile makes people have an optimistic and calm mind, a broad mind and a great spiritual realm. Students, let's learn to smile, and let the smile give us the power to keep improving!
Thank you!