1. Only women and villains are difficult to raise. If you are close, you will feel inferior, and if you are far, you will resent them. Annotation: Only women and villains are difficult to get along with. When they are close, they will dislike you, and when they are far away, they will complain about you;

2. A gentleman is peaceful but not arrogant, and a villain is arrogant but not peaceful. Annotation: A gentleman is calm but not proud, a villain is proud but not calm;

3. A gentleman is magnanimous, but a villain is always worried. Annotation: A gentleman is open-minded and calm. Villains worry about gains and losses.